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Dave Stachowiak

Leaders aren’t born; they’re made. Many leaders reach points in their careers where what worked yesterday doesn’t work today. This Monday show helps leaders thrive at these key inflection points. Independently produced weekly since 2011, Dr. Dave Stachowiak shares insights from a decade of leading a global leadership academy, plus more than 15 years of leadership at Dale Carnegie. Bestselling authors, proven leaders, expert thinkers, and deep conversation have attracted 50 million downloads and over 300,000 followers. Join the FREE membership to search the entire leadership and management library by topic at CoachingforLeaders.com

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Neri Karra Sillaman: Pioneers

Neri Karra Sillaman is a refugee-turned-entrepreneur, academic, and author whose work focuses on the importance of resilience, purpose, and vision in business and in life. She is the recipient of the Thinkers50 Radar Award, an entrepreneurship expert at the University of Oxford, and the founder of Neri Karra, a global luxury leather goods brand. She is the author of Pioneers: 8 Principles of Business Longevity from Immigrant Entrepreneurs (Amazon, Bookshop)*.

We all know that the right connections can help in our careers, but how do we actually get more intentional about forging the connections that will be most meaningful and sustainable? In this conversation, Neri and I explore the key lessons from immigrant entrepreneurs and how their successes can help us all thrive.

Key Points

 • Robins and titmice have vastly different outcomes because of their divergent abilities for flocking. Social capital is critical for success.

 • Diversity brings many strengths – and it also introduces new challenges for connection. We can’t as easily rely on connections through traditional cultures or experiences.

 • All of us have the ability to forge connections based on value. This is perhaps the most powerful homophily tie and accessible to everyone.

 • The most successful immigrant entrepreneurs don’t rely on connections happening automatically and also don’t assume that relationships will be static.

 • Focus on what unites you with others. Strengthen ties with other networks to avoid the risk of communities that are too insular.

 • Be proactive and generous in sharing information and ideas to support others.

Resources Mentioned

Pioneers: 8 Principles of Business Longevity from Immigrant Entrepreneurs • by Neri Karra Sillaman (
Amazon • , 
Bookshop • )*

Interview Notes

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776: Forge Connections That Help You Thrive, with Neri Karra Sillaman

David Yeager: 10 to 25

David Yeager is a professor of psychology at the University of Texas at Austin and the cofounder of the Texas Behavioral Science and Policy Institute. He is best known for his research conducted with Carol Dweck, Angela Duckworth, and Greg Walton on short but powerful interventions that influence adolescent behaviors such as motivation, engagement, healthy eating, bullying, stress, mental health, and more. He is the author of 10 to 25: The Science of Motivating Young People (Amazon, Bookshop)*.

Older generations have been complaining about younger generations for all of recorded history. Today is no different, and I often hear how leaders are struggling with motivating their younger employees. In this conversation, David and I explore the most recent research and practice for what actually works.

Key Points

 • Older generations have been complaining about younger generations for all of recorded history. Often, our complaints are the result of our own past experiences.

 • Many leaders experience the mentor’s dilemma: being nice and putting up with poor performance, or being critical and demanding higher performance.

 • Status and respect for a young person are as critical as food and sleep to a baby. When satisfied, they can open up much better motivation and behavior.

 • The mentor mindset embraces both high standards and high support for the young person you wish to motivate. Because this is a mindset, you can absolutely get better at it.

 • When giving feedback to a young person, acknowledge the high standard you are setting and also tell the young person that you believe they can meet that standard.

 • Young people have often experienced a lot of “enforcing” behavior from parents, teachers, and coaches. They assume this in the workplace if you don’t make a point to say otherwise.

Resources Mentioned

10 to 25: The Science of Motivating Young People • by David Yeager (
Amazon • , 
Bookshop • )*

The Power of Mindset • (Masterclass)

Interview Notes

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How to Reduce Drama With Kids, with Tina Payne Bryson • (episode 310)

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775: How to Motivate Younger Employees, with David Yeager

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FINAL DAY to apply for the Academy

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Apply to the Academy by Friday, March 20th.

In this episode, Dave shares the five things that he sees most commonly get in leaders’ ways:

 1. Not asking for help.

 2. Assuming knowledge drives behavior.

 3. Setting the tactical bar too high.

 4. Feeling worse before feeling better.

 5. Not noticing any improvement.

The Five Things That Get in Leaders’ Ways

Linda Hill: Genius at Scale

Linda Hill is the Wallace Brett Donham Professor of Business Administration and Faculty Chair of the Leadership Initiative at Harvard Business School. Globally recognized as a top leadership and innovation expert, Linda has been named by Thinkers50 as one of the world’s top five management thinkers. She is the co-author, along with Emily Tedards and Jason Wild, of Genius at Scale: How Great Leaders Drive Innovation (Amazon, Bookshop)*

We all want to think of ourselves as innovative, but it’s often not easy to know exactly what that means in practice. In this conversation, Linda and I explore what her research shows that leaders do to drive innovation successfully – and how each of us can get just a bit better.

Key Points

 • Rather than coming up with a vision and asking people to follow it, innovation is about creating the culture and capabilities to create the future together.

 • Innovation leadership shows up in three ways within organizations: the Architects, the Bridge Builders, and the Catalysts.

 • Instead of setting the stage for themselves, innovative leaders set the stage for others.

 • Often, we view horizontal relationships through the lens of organizational politics. The most effective innovation leaders view these relationships as leadership opportunities.

 • Traditional team structures are a starting point, but not an ending point. Leaders at Mastercard, Pfizer, and Cleveland Clinic all brought in team members from both inside and outside the organization.

 • Rather than thinking about a decision as final, it’s helpful for innovation leaders to frame it as a “working hypothesis.”

Resources Mentioned

Genius at Scale: How Great Leaders Drive Innovation • by Linda Hill, Emily Tedards, and Jason Wild (
Amazon • , 
Bookshop • )*

Interview Notes

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Related Episodes

How to Build an Invincible Company, with Alex Osterwalder • (episode 470)

The Way Innovators Get Traction, with Tendayi Viki • (episode 512)

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774: What Innovative Leaders Do Different, with Linda Hill

Academy alum Marisol Bello of The Housing Narrative Lab joins Dave to share how she made the shift from command and control to serve and support.

Are you at an inflection point? Applications to the Coaching for Leaders Academy are open until Friday, March 20th. Visit the Coaching for Leaders Academy page to apply.

From Command and Control to Serve and Support, with Marisol Bello

Nir Eyal: Beyond Belief

Nir Eyal writes, consults, and teaches about the intersection of psychology, technology, and business. He is the author of two bestselling books, Hooked and Indistractable, selling more than a million copies and translated in over 30 languages. He is the author of the new book, Beyond Belief: The Science-Backed Way to Stop Limiting Yourself and Achieve Breakthrough Results (Amazon, Bookshop)*.

Most of us recognize that a huge part of what motivates us – or not – is our own thinking. In this conversation, Nir and I explore where our beliefs get in the way and how we can align them just a bit to help us move forward.

Key Points

 • A sentence starting with “I am…” can be among the most dangerous in any language. Often, our beliefs limit us.

 • Belief is the foundation of the motivation triangle that includes benefit and behavior. Yet, we often overlook beliefs.

 • Curt Richter’s study of rats in the 1950s shows how an animal’s belief system can massively influence its behavior.

 • The real question isn’t “Is this belief true?” but rather, “Does this belief serve me?”

 • You can choose beliefs based on usefulness, not certainty.

 • Difficulty may mean we are not cut out for something, but it might also be evidence of growth. Too often, we quit too soon.

 • Progress comes from consistent action, not perfect plans.

Resources Mentioned

Beyond Belief: The Science-Backed Way to Stop Limiting Yourself and Achieve Breakthrough Results • (
Amazon • , 
Bookshop • )* by Nir Eyal.

Interview Notes

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How to Better Manage Your Emotions, with Ethan Kross • (episode 719)

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773: How to Align Your Motivation, with Nir Eyal

Academy alum Bill Mayo joins Dave to share how he improved his listening skills — both at work and at home.

Applications to the Coaching for Leaders Academy are open until Friday, March 20th. Visit the Coaching for Leaders Academy page to apply.

How to Get Better at Listening, with Bill Mayo

Rebecca Hinds: Your Best Meeting Ever

Rebecca Hinds is a leading expert on organizational behavior and the future of work. She founded and led the Work Innovation Lab at Asana and the Work AI Institute at Glean, where she partners with leading experts to help organizations transform their work with AI. She is the author of Your Best Meeting Ever: 7 Principles for Designing Meetings That Get Things Done (Amazon, Bookshop)*.

Considering the amount of time we all spend in meetings, it’s odd that most organizations do so little to measure meeting results. If that’s sounding familiar, this conversation between Rebecca and me will show you exactly how to get started.

Key Points

 • Metrics that only measure the costs of meetings (dollars and time) can be useful, but rarely capture the full picture.

 • Use Return on Time Invested (ROTI) anonymously to survey attendees to determine if a meeting was a good use of time. Also ask, “What would it take for you to improve your rating by one point?”

 • Survey sparingly to avoid survey fatigue. Bringing in a survey 10% of the time is a benchmark to start from.

 • If the amount of time in meetings vastly exceeds 10 hours a week, there’s likely an opportunity to scale back or redefine the work before or after meetings to use time better.

 • Equal speaking time in meetings is a key indicator of team performance. Be transparent with employees about any technology you use to capture data.

 • Punctuality and attendance rate are indicators of how valued meetings are for people.

Resources Mentioned

Your Best Meeting Ever: 7 Principles for Designing Meetings That Get Things Done • by Rebecca Hinds (
Amazon • , 
Bookshop • )*

Interview Notes

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Related Episodes

How to Lead Meetings That Get Results, with Mamie Kanfer Stewart • (episode 358)

Moving Towards Meetings of Significance, with Seth Godin • (episode 632)

How to Lead Engaging Meetings, with Jess Britt • (episode 721)

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772: How to Measure Your Meeting’s Success, with Rebecca Hinds

Lily Zheng, Fixing Fairness

Lily Zheng is a sought-after speaker, strategist, and organizational consultant who specializes in hands-on systemic change to turn positive intentions into positive outcomes for workplaces and everyone in them. A dedicated changemaker and advocate, Lily has had their work published in the Harvard Business Review, New York Times, and NPR. They are the author of Fixing Fairness: 4 Tenets to Transform Diversity Backlash into Progress for All (Amazon, Bookshop)*.

When it comes to fairness in the workplace, our society is quick to zero in on what divides us. Yet, there is broad agreement across all demographics on many key principles. In this conversation, Lily and I explore how leaders can influence the system to better work for everyone.

Key Points

 • Many of us assume that fewer people support the value of diversity than actually do. When asked, 82% of people support pro-diversity statements.

 • The most popular/traditional approaches to fixing fairness in the workplace tend to be the least effective.

 • Our tendency is to focus on the behavior of individuals, when in fact organizational systems have the most significant impact on fairness.

 • When considering a fairness initiative or intervention, begin with the practice of understanding and storytelling, just like many change initiatives.

 • Resist the temptation to check boxes with “quick fixes” such as simply bringing in a speaker or hosting a one-time event. This rarely helps in any sustainable way and sometimes worsens existing dynamics.

 • If you have a seat at the leadership table, make the case for thoughtful design and involvement of stakeholders at all points in the process, just as many effective organizations do on any strategic change initiative.

Resources Mentioned

Fixing Fairness: 4 Tenets to Transform Diversity Backlash into Progress for All • by Lily Zheng (
Amazon • , 
Bookshop • )*

Interview Notes

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The Power of Unlearning Silence, with Elaine Lin Hering • (episode 678)

How to Lead a Meaningful Cultural Shift, with David Hutchens • (episode 755)

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The Five Things That Get in Leaders’ Ways

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