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Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. 

 

Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.

 

From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!

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This week on Decisions, Decisions, Mandii B and WeezyWTF kick things off with gym gains, creatine talk, beauty standards, and why bald women get more love than people admit before getting into a wild night at K Camp’s listening session where the world felt way too small.Later, the duo dives into the headlines surrounding Brandy’s memoir and her relationship with Wanya Morris, reacts to comments from Nikki Glaser, and debates emotional cheating, casual sex, and whether men actually develop feelings after sleeping with someone multiple times. They also unpack financial flexing in relationships, sending money, buying homes for partners, and wrap with another hilarious dose of pure heauxtry.
 
“No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
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EP 472: My man can’t BOND with other women

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You've Got Decisions: ENM Update + WLW Does This Count as Cheating?

n this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, headline king Jason “Jah” Lee, and special guest Jamila Bell as they blend NBA playoff predictions, celebrity relationships, and cultural commentary into a layered and entertaining conversation that moves from sports to global culture to real-life relationship patterns. The episode kicks off with Mandi's excursion to Ghana and expands to a deeper conversation around carnival culture in Ghana, colorism, and the gap between expectation and reality when traveling abroad [ 02:13] [ 14:26 ]. The crew continues with honest reflections on travel preferences and cultural experiences [ 20:55 ], then pivots into a sharp take on Cinco de Mayo and cultural appropriation [ 31:01 ], followed by more NBA playoff breakdowns and second-round analysis [ 32:22 ]. From there, the discussion expands into legacy conversations around Ja Morant and Karl Malone [ 40:56 ], before diving into the headline relationship between Megan Thee Stallion and Klay Thompson, unpacking cheating, accountability, and dating dynamics in the public eye [ 44:10 ][ 46:58 ].
 
As the episode progresses, the hosts explore patterns in modern relationships, the illusion of change, and the impact of social media on personal decision-making [ 51:00 ][ 55:05 ], while also addressing how people repeatedly choose the same type of partners and navigate non-monogamy, loyalty, and public scrutiny [ 01:00:59 ][ 01:05:11 ]. The conversation then broadens into accountability for public figures during personal scandals [ 01:09:59 ] and the recurring patterns seen in celebrity dating culture [ 01:22:10 ], before taking a more serious turn into discussions about abuse, exploitation, and the darker side of fame [ 01:29:09 ]. Closing out, the crew zooms out to examine capitalism, class disparities, and the illusion of the American Dream [ 01:41:09 ][ 01:52:03 ], delivering a conversation that’s equal parts humorous, reflective, and socially aware—tying together sports, culture, and real-life relationship lessons in a way that feels both current and necessary.
 
No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
 
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Selective Ignorance: Ep. 62 | Breakups, Bending & Broke America feat. Jamila Bell

This week on Decisions, Decisions, Mandii B and Weezy WTF are joined by Azar Farideh from Truth After Dark for a candid conversation about whether men and women can truly be platonic friends, as they debate lacking possessiveness, having male friends, and the idea that men would cross the line if given the opportunity while sharing personal experiences of friendships that did and didn’t stay platonic. The episode dives into whether men feel safe expressing themselves, if women expect too much or misread intentions, and what it really means when someone is wasting your time, along with discussions on honesty, comparison being the thief of joy, and how men show up differently depending on the woman. They also get into accountability on both sides, arguing that women can be just as toxic, explore sexual openness, celebrity crushes, and “heaux friends,” and close with deeper reflections on financial expectations, shaken beliefs in Black love, and how upbringing and experiences with father figures shape dating perspectives.
 
 
 
“No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
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EP 471: Men Don’t Want To Be Friends (feat. Azar)

You've Got Decisions: He Cheated On Me, I Forgave Him..But Now I’m Cheating

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, the hosts deliver a wide-ranging, culture-forward conversation unpacking AI, relationships, work culture, and identity in a rapidly evolving society. The episode begins with Mandii’s opening monologue, setting the tone with reflections on current events and shifting social dynamics [ 00:54 ], before diving into a candid discussion on sexuality and public figures, exploring how personal identity and private behavior intersect with public perception and scrutiny [ 10:10 ]. The conversation expands into cultural observations around race and identity, highlighting how societal norms continue to shape lived experiences and representation [ 20:06 ], before pivoting into forward-looking commentary on AI, automation, and predictions about the future of work [ 29:50 ].
 
The hosts break down the growing tension between traditional employment and the gig economy, examining how flexibility often comes at the cost of stability and long-term security [ 35:27 ], followed by a practical discussion on navigating taxes, benefits, and financial responsibility in a gig-driven workforce [ 41:16 ]. The conversation deepens with a critical look at the impact of AI on employment and society, questioning whether technological advancement truly benefits workers or primarily serves corporate efficiency [ 46:46 ]. From there, the tone shifts into more personal territory as the hosts explore kinks, boundaries, and communication in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and respecting individual preferences [ 54:38 ].
 
The latter half of the episode focuses on personal growth and navigating modern relationships, including the influence of online personas like the DL Whisperer and how digital culture shapes perception and behavior [ 01:11:50 ][ 01:14:44]. The hosts also examine Akon’s controversial views on fatherhood and commitment, using them as a lens to discuss responsibility, masculinity, and evolving relationship standards [ 01:25:21 ]. The episode closes with a deeper reflection on the impact of patriarchy on relationships, unpacking how traditional gender roles continue to influence expectations, power dynamics, and emotional expression in modern partnerships [ 01:43:00 ]. 
 
No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
 
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Selective Ignorance: Ep. 61 | Adulting, Alleged Kinks & Akon's Science

Mandii B and Weezy return for a raw solo episode of Decisions, Decisions where they unpack the complicated conversation around Monica Lewinsky and debate accountability versus innocence, including whether she was a victim or acting with agency, and how public narratives have shaped the way women are judged. The duo dives into the lasting impact of slut-shaming, the idea of using sex as power, and broader gender dynamics that spark heated “gender wars,” from childhood experiences to how society frames trauma across men and women. They also explore controversial topics like acceptable age gaps, the pressure of defending women in public discourse, and whether high-power women are truly protected. Later, they lighten the tone with “We Listen and We Judge,” break down relationship behaviors like stonewalling, debate whether having no social media is a red flag, and get into real-life scenarios around conflict resolution, space after arguments, and boundaries at home, keeping it honest, unfiltered, and conversation-starting throughout.
 
“No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
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EP 470: Monica Lewinsky’d All On My Gown

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and headline king Jason “Jah” Leefor a wide-ranging conversation that blends music, industry politics, and social commentary. The episode opens with Mandii’s concert experience at Pretty Ricky’s “Boys For Life Tour” alongside a breakdown of the Live Nation lawsuit and Ticketmaster monopoly concerns, highlighting how corporate control impacts fans and artists alike [ 02:16]. The discussion deepens into the real-world effects of Ticketmaster’s dominance on concertgoers, including pricing, access, and industry fairness [ 24:24 ], before pivoting into festival culture and consumer awareness, with a look at scams and safety concerns surrounding events like Coachella [ 29:30 ].
 
The hosts then shift into music industry reflections, unpacking Lil Wayne’s perspective on his career, legacy, and the challenges artists face navigating longevity and business [ 30:29 ], before transitioning into political commentary with reactions to public figures like Caitlyn Jenner and Tina Campbell, examining how celebrity voices influence political discourse [ 41:03 ]. The conversation expands into the complexities of identity and documentation, particularly within the LGBTQ+ community, and the systemic barriers individuals face in navigating acceptance and legitimacy [ 41:39 ].
 
From there, the crew explores the consequences of political choices and how they directly impact personal lives and communities [ 44:40 ], followed by a deeper discussion on the intersection of faith, politics, and voter accountability, emphasizing the importance of informed decision-making [ 49:00 ]. The episode takes a serious turn with a candid conversation about the ongoing crisis of violence against women, addressing societal responsibility and the need for structural change [ 56:25 ], which leads into a powerful dialogue on the importance of emotional intelligence in men as a preventative measure against harmful behavior [ 01:01:45 ]. The episode closes with reflections on cultural identity through sports rivalries, highlighting how fandom, geography, and identity intersect to shape broader societal interactions [ 01:09:41 ]. 
 
No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
 
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Selective Ignorance: Ep. 60 | Lap Dances, Live Nation & Losers

Mandii B and Weezy are joined by their best friends Krystal and Brianda for a candid and unfiltered episode of Decisions, Decisions as they dive into dating dynamics, monogamy, and the blurred lines of modern relationships. The group unpacks everything from exploring options and questioning loyalty, to whether someone likes you more and how to communicate boundaries when you’re not trying to entertain multiple people. They get into real conversations about cheating, forgiveness, and the “once a cheater, always a cheater” debate, while also sparking a heated discussion around marriage, motherhood, and public figures like Cardi B and Latto. The episode also takes a deeper turn as they open up about dating during serious health challenges, including navigating relationships while going through breast cancer treatment, before circling back to celibacy, double standards, and what it really means when men claim they’re abstaining.
 
“No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
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Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages
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Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions

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EP 472: My man can’t BOND with other women

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