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Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. 

 

Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.

 

From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!

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Mandii B and Weezy are joined by their best friends Krystal and Brianda for a candid and unfiltered episode of Decisions, Decisions as they dive into dating dynamics, monogamy, and the blurred lines of modern relationships. The group unpacks everything from exploring options and questioning loyalty, to whether someone likes you more and how to communicate boundaries when you’re not trying to entertain multiple people. They get into real conversations about cheating, forgiveness, and the “once a cheater, always a cheater” debate, while also sparking a heated discussion around marriage, motherhood, and public figures like Cardi B and Latto. The episode also takes a deeper turn as they open up about dating during serious health challenges, including navigating relationships while going through breast cancer treatment, before circling back to celibacy, double standards, and what it really means when men claim they’re abstaining.
 
“No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
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EP 469: Forgiving Cheaters (feat. Brianda & Krystal)

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You've Got Decisions: Leave of Absence

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and headline king Jason “Jah” Leefor a dynamic conversation that blends sports, culture, music, and social accountability. The episode opens with nuanced takes on trending current events and cultural discourse, setting the tone for a layered discussion [ 02:14 ], before jumping into a spirited Knicks vs. Hawks debate, unpacking rivalry, fandom, and regional pride within the NBA landscape [05:07 ]. The hosts then shift into a personal concert experience, sharing anticipation, expectations, and reflections on live music culture [ 10:42 ], followed by a breakdown of a miscommunication moment that sparks a broader conversation about perception and intent in social interactions [ 18:45 ].
 
The discussion deepens into cultural critique as the crew examines blackface, satire, and the boundaries of comedy, questioning what constitutes humor versus harm in modern entertainment [ 27:32 ], before expanding into the consequences of cultural appropriation and how public figures navigate backlash and accountability [ 33:13 ]. Conversations around identity and racial perception take center stage [ 36:21 ], leading into a critical analysis of Kanye West’s controversies and the broader implications of celebrity behavior on cultural narratives [ 41:22 ]. The hosts also address the hypocrisy within celebrity culture and the selective outrage often seen in public discourse [ 52:16 ], reinforcing the need for consistent accountability within the community [ 59:44 ].
 
The episode transitions into cultural phenomena, beginning with a breakdown of the meaning behind “The Birthday” trend and its social implications [ 01:05:58 ], before diving into Tekashi69’s controversial commentary on street culture and authenticity in the music industry [ 01:10:30 ]. The conversation expands into the business realities of hip-hop, exploring the tension between street credibility and financial strategy [ 01:15:23 ], followed by a discussion on the impact of debt and financial obligations on artists’ careers [ 01:20:15 ]. The hosts close by reflecting on the significance of upcoming tours and the enduring influence of R&B superstars, examining how legacy artists continue to shape today’s music landscape [ 01:24:19 ][ 01:31:16 ].
 
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Selective Ignorance: Ep. 59 | Bans, Bad Blood & Bambaataa

Mandii B and Weezy are joined by Grammy-nominated singer Emanny from All Eyes On E and the Joe Budden Podcast for a wild and unfiltered episode of Decisions, Decisions as they dive into dating tension, past link-ups, and sexual chemistry, including the story of how Mandii and Emanny first met and nearly took things further. The trio gets into everything from questionable kisses and making out at Las Lap, to paying for sex abroad, Emanny’s “reviews,” and Weezy’s glow-up post-braces, before jumping into a spicy round of Heauxtry. They also debate the kinkiest cities in the world, break down relationship misfires, and get brutally honest about dirty talk and bedroom confessions, with Emanny bringing candid takes and signature humor throughout.
 
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Ep. 468: Pretty Girls Deserve Facials (feat. Emanny)

You've Got Decisions: I Love My Bf but...

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and headline king Jason “Jah” Lee for a layered, culture-forward conversation that blends current events, music, race, and sports into one dynamic discussion. The episode opens with sharp cultural commentary on trending headlines and social discourse [ 03:14 ], before shifting into a celebration and critique of 404 Weekend and Atlanta’s cultural influence, highlighting how the city continues to shape music, nightlife, and identity [ 05:46 ]. The hosts then dive into a new wave in R&B with conversations around emerging sounds like “Strap and B” and reflections from a recent listening session that signal shifts in genre evolution [ 08:59 ], followed by a breakdown of Jack Harlow’s controversial collaboration and the racial dynamics embedded in cross-cultural partnerships [ 11:56 ].
 
The discussion deepens as the crew examines the lawsuit against the Congressional Black Caucus over scholarships for Black students, unpacking the broader implications of race, access, and equity in education [ 17:00 ], and expanding into a nuanced dialogue on racial dynamics and systemic challenges surrounding opportunity [ 24:06 ]. From there, they analyze NASA astronaut Victor Glover’s remarks on race and identity, using his comments as a lens to explore representation, respectability politics, and public perception [ 29:54 ], followed by reflections on disappointment in public figures and the complexities of navigating cultural identity in high-visibility spaces [ 39:01 ].
 
The conversation pivots into sports, beginning with the excitement and evolving structure of March Madness and college athletics [ 41:05 ], before tackling controversial statements made by athletes and the consequences of speaking publicly on polarizing issues [ 42:55 ]. The hosts examine the intersection of religious beliefs and LGBTQ+ rights, highlighting how personal ideology can shape public discourse and backlash [ 46:21 ], and continue into a deeper conversation about mental health and the weight of public statements in celebrity culture [ 49:32 ]. They also reflect on how celebrity actions impact personal lives and public perception [ 52:50 ], including a breakdown of Deontay Wilder’s controversial claims and their broader implications [ 57:20 ], before closing with a discussion on Poo Shiesty’s legal situation and what it reveals about the music industry, accountability, and systemic pressures [ 01:07:14 ].

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Selective Ignorance: Ep.58 | Two Sheisty's & A Turkey Baster

Mandii B and WeezyWTF hold it down for a solo episode of Decisions, Decisions where NYC life takes center stage, from the chaos of reservations running the city to nights out at spots like Corner Store and Double Chicken Please, plus awkward run-ins with managers and the struggle to build real community. The conversation shifts into personal territory as they get honest about aging, body changes, and viral beauty trends like BBL regret and Ozempic culture, before diving into self-confidence, skincare routines, and wild moments like getting dressed in front of a crowd. Later, the duo unpack relationship dynamics with a deep dive into non-monogamy, breaking down communication, boundaries, jealousy, and what it really takes to make it work, all while keeping their signature humor, real-life experiences, and unfiltered storytelling front and center.
 
 
 
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EP 467: Ozempic Chique

You've Got Decisions: Are We ENM Because I’m More Experienced ?

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and headline king Jason “Jah” Lee for a layered, culture-driven conversation unpacking comedy, accountability, relationships, and media dynamics. The episode opens with an overview of trending topics and cultural tensions shaping the current discourse [ 00:00 ], before diving into the backlash surrounding Druski’s controversial skit and what it reveals about race, humor, and the boundaries of satire in today’s social climate [ 13:05 ]. The conversation then shifts to the cancellation of The Bachelorette amid domestic violence allegations, prompting a deeper discussion about accountability, media narratives, and how abuse is perceived across different audiences [ 23:40 ].
 
From there, the crew unpack the concept of reactive abuse, exploring the psychological and emotional complexities that often get overlooked in public conversations about toxic relationships [ 30:14 ], followed by a breakdown of viral TikTok trends and how gender dynamics influence online reactions and discourse [ 37:48 ]. The crew then examines Usher’s defense of Diddy, using it as a case study to discuss loyalty, public perception, and the difficulty of holding friends accountable in the public eye [ 46:03 ], which leads into a broader reflection on the complexity of human relationships and moral gray areas [ 55:02 ].
 
As the conversation evolves, the hosts reflect on celebrity accountability and the expectations placed on public figures[ 58:09 ], before transitioning into a nuanced discussion about the art of interviewing in the music industry, including the gap between audience expectations and real-life interactions with artists like J. Cole and Jay-Z [ 01:00:33 ]. They explore the importance of understanding industry relationships and context when conducting interviews [ 01:02:51 ], along with the role of vulnerability and authenticity in shaping meaningful conversations [ 01:06:03 ]. The episode closes with a thoughtful analysis of Jay-Z’s recent interview, unpacking themes of wealth, morality, and evolving public perception [ 01:09:06 ], and ultimately reflecting on the broader tension between success, ideology, and accountability in today’s cultural landscape [01:12:08 ][ 01:18:08 ].
 
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Selective Ignorance: Ep. 57 | Whyte Face, Reactive Abuse & The Billies

Keke Palmer joins Mandii B and Weezy for a conversation covering her return to the pod, motherhood, and her evolving approach to wellness, self-awareness, and relationships. She shares stories about an Oscars wardrobe moment, navigating dating and safety, being perceived in the public eye, and how she approaches intimacy, boundaries, and communication. The episode also touches on real conversations on set, generational perspectives on love and identity, a celebrity couple proposition, and broader discussions around healing, confidence, and personal growth, with appearances from Tiffany Haddish stories, being proposed to at SXSW , and reflections on funny women in entertainment.
 
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Ep. 468: Pretty Girls Deserve Facials (feat. Emanny)

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