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Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. 

 

Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.

 

From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!

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In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and headline king Jason “Jah” Lee for a layered, culture-driven conversation unpacking comedy, accountability, relationships, and media dynamics. The episode opens with an overview of trending topics and cultural tensions shaping the current discourse [ 00:00 ], before diving into the backlash surrounding Druski’s controversial skit and what it reveals about race, humor, and the boundaries of satire in today’s social climate [ 13:05 ]. The conversation then shifts to the cancellation of The Bachelorette amid domestic violence allegations, prompting a deeper discussion about accountability, media narratives, and how abuse is perceived across different audiences [ 23:40 ].
 
From there, the crew unpack the concept of reactive abuse, exploring the psychological and emotional complexities that often get overlooked in public conversations about toxic relationships [ 30:14 ], followed by a breakdown of viral TikTok trends and how gender dynamics influence online reactions and discourse [ 37:48 ]. The crew then examines Usher’s defense of Diddy, using it as a case study to discuss loyalty, public perception, and the difficulty of holding friends accountable in the public eye [ 46:03 ], which leads into a broader reflection on the complexity of human relationships and moral gray areas [ 55:02 ].
 
As the conversation evolves, the hosts reflect on celebrity accountability and the expectations placed on public figures[ 58:09 ], before transitioning into a nuanced discussion about the art of interviewing in the music industry, including the gap between audience expectations and real-life interactions with artists like J. Cole and Jay-Z [ 01:00:33 ]. They explore the importance of understanding industry relationships and context when conducting interviews [ 01:02:51 ], along with the role of vulnerability and authenticity in shaping meaningful conversations [ 01:06:03 ]. The episode closes with a thoughtful analysis of Jay-Z’s recent interview, unpacking themes of wealth, morality, and evolving public perception [ 01:09:06 ], and ultimately reflecting on the broader tension between success, ideology, and accountability in today’s cultural landscape [01:12:08 ][ 01:18:08 ].
 
No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
 
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Selective Ignorance: Ep. 57 | Whyte Face, Reactive Abuse & The Billies

Keke Palmer joins Mandii B and Weezy for a conversation covering her return to the pod, motherhood, and her evolving approach to wellness, self-awareness, and relationships. She shares stories about an Oscars wardrobe moment, navigating dating and safety, being perceived in the public eye, and how she approaches intimacy, boundaries, and communication. The episode also touches on real conversations on set, generational perspectives on love and identity, a celebrity couple proposition, and broader discussions around healing, confidence, and personal growth, with appearances from Tiffany Haddish stories, being proposed to at SXSW , and reflections on funny women in entertainment.
 
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EP 466: The Sparks Are Sparking (feat. Keke Palmer)

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You Got Decisions: UPDATE: What Did He Say?

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, host Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and headline king Jason “Jah” Lee for a layered, culture-driven conversation that moves from celebrity headlines to deeper discussions on relationships, art, and politics. The episode opens with trending celebrity gossip and current events setting the tone for a lively and unfiltered dialogue [ 00:52 ], before shifting into personal anecdotes and travel experiences that highlight the crew’s perspectives on lifestyle and social interactions [ 02:31 ]. The conversation then dives into polyamory, relationship structures, and evolving dating norms, unpacking how modern relationships challenge traditional expectations [ 07:17 ], followed by a candid discussion on sexuality, consent, and communication, emphasizing the importance of clarity and accountability in intimate dynamics [ 12:13 ]. The hosts expand on accountability within sexual relationships and the social responsibility tied to personal choices [ 18:01 ].
 
From there, the episode pivots into music and artistic expression, exploring how artists navigate social commentary and cultural influence [ 25:23 ], which leads into a broader debate about public outrage and reaction culture in the digital age [ 27:42 ]. The crew examines the tension between creative freedom and community responsibility, particularly in light of controversial artist statements and how audiences respond [ 30:40 ], followed by a discussion on what it means for artists to double down on polarizing viewpoints (ie. LaRussel's "Heaven Sent") [ 33:31 ] and how public perception can shape or derail careers [36:53 ]. Anticipation builds as they discuss Jay-Z’s upcoming performances and his enduring cultural relevance [ 39:27], leading into a nostalgic comparison of classic eras in hip-hop and the evolution of artistry over time [ 49:54 ], alongside reflections on generational shifts and future predictions within the genre [ 55:55 ].
 
The conversation returns to relationships with a focus on miscommunication, expectations, and emotional perception in dating [ 59:35 ], before shifting to sports and equity with a discussion on the WNBA’s recent pay raise and the broader fight for equality in women’s sports [ 01:07:28 ]. The episode closes with a critical look at the current political climate, including TSA challenges, airport security concerns, and the presence of ICE agents, tying these developments to larger societal implications around safety, policy, and civil liberties [ 01:20:01 ]. 
 
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Selective Ignorance: Ep. 56 | This Podcast Is Heaven Sent

This week Mandii and Weezy sit down with Tierra Doll, a professional lifestyle financial dominatrix. After the intro and how Weezy met Tierra, the conversation covers how Tierra began monetizing her content including selling fart jars and making over $50K from it, along with what drives the most revenue. Tierra details the range of kinks she caters to including scat play, specific client requests, and being paid for extreme services, while also discussing platforms like Dark Fans. The episode also explores domination, how she interacts with “sissies,” the popularity of pain content, and how she creates a sense of safety for her clients. Tierra shares parts of her childhood, learning about her father’s fetish, and how living in NYC expanded her experiences, and the episode concludes with insight into her client base and how she approaches dominating someone.
 

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EP 465: With The Sh*ts (feat. Tierra Doll)

You've Got Decisions: My Husband, My Cousin, and a Secret I Can’t Undo

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and headline king Jason “Jah” Lee for a layered, culture-driven conversation unpacking the controversy surrounding the NBA’s canceled Magic City Night, beginning with a breakdown of what the event represented and why its cancellation sparked debate around women’s agency, exploitation, and optics in sports entertainment [ 01:51 ]. The discussion deepens into the complexities of women’s autonomy within adult entertainment spaces and how societal judgment often conflicts with personal choice and economic reality [ 24:40 ], followed by a broader cultural reflection on how strippers are perceived and stigmatized in society despite their influence on music, nightlife, and pop culture [ 29:07 ]. The hosts then examine the role of corporate influence in shaping community narratives, questioning whether brands selectively engage with culture for profit while avoiding accountability [ 34:18 ].
 
From there, the conversation expands into celebrity behavior and public scrutiny, analyzing how high-profile actions shape cultural expectations and discourse [ 36:46 ], alongside a critique of the hypocrisy behind moral outrage in media and online spaces [ 39:40 ]. The crew also highlights Bam Adebayo’s record-breaking performance and the mixed reactions it received, using it as a lens to explore how athletes are celebrated or minimized depending on narrative framing [ 41:30 ], before diving into the broader impact of celebrity influence on societal standards and behavior [46:48 ]. A deeper conversation follows around morality in sports, accountability, and the gray areas within personal relationships [ 51:45 ], including discussions on violence, responsibility, and how society assigns blame [ 57:21 ].
 
The episode then shifts toward family dynamics and communication, particularly the importance of honest dialogue between parents and children in navigating identity and societal expectations [ 01:13:35 ], before expanding into the broader impact of celebrity culture on social issues and public opinion [ 01:16:59 ]. The hosts also examine Jay-Z’s role within capitalism and community responsibility, debating what obligation influential figures have to the communities they come from [ 01:17:28 ]. Closing out the episode, the conversation tackles the intersection of sexuality, masculinity, and public perception [ 01:30:27 ], challenging traditional norms and unpacking how societal expectations continue to shape identity, behavior, and relationships in modern culture [ 01:43:34 ].
 
No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
 
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Selective Ignorance: Ep. 55 | Beers, Buckets & Booger Sugar

On this solo episode of Decisions, Decisions, Mandii B and Weezy talk about a first-class flight experience and airplane etiquette, including a moment involving a flight attendant and confidence in first class, before sharing stories about nightlife and a situation involving a confident dancer. The ladies address fan reactions from the previous episode, respond to comments from listeners, and discuss being called “jezebels,” including reactions to Sarah and conversations around the term. They also read and respond to audience comments, discuss whether Weezy’s list has changed, and talk about advice from Christian friends in their lives, faith-based perspectives on relationships, and the eternal fight with public perception. 
 
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EP 464: Jezebels

You've Got Decisions: The Baby is His How Would You Feel?

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and the king of headlines Jason “Jah” Lee for a wide-ranging conversation that blends current events, personal storytelling, cultural critique, and conspiracy-laced debates. The discussion kicks off with a breakdown of trending headlines and the crew’s signature “ignorant thoughts” on the week’s biggest topics [ 03:01 ], before shifting into personal updates, celebrations, and behind-the-scenes moments from their lives outside the studio [ 06:01 ]. The hosts then share humorous stories involving social experiments and unexpected food adventures that spark commentary about social norms and curiosity-driven experiences [ 09:01 ], leading into a remix-style conversation about pop culture, internet discourse, and shifting cultural narratives [ 11:49 ].
 
The energy continues with nightlife stories and party culture reflections [ 15:10 ], before the conversation pivots toward politics and current affairs, examining the broader social climate and the way media narratives shape public understanding [ 18:13 ]. Technology enters the discussion as the hosts debate the expanding role of AI in media, storytelling, and historical interpretation [ 22:00 ], which leads naturally into conspiracy theories and contentious conversations surrounding COVID-era vaccine debates [ 27:10 ]. The dialogue intensifies as the crew unpacks controversial claims about Epstein’s alleged influence on mRNA technology and elite power structures [ 42:01 ], before transitioning into a deeper examination of the struggles Black men face navigating visibility, opportunity, and stereotyping in Hollywood and entertainment industries [ 51:50 ].
 
From there, the hosts explore the complex dynamics of respect, influence, and power within professional environments [ 01:00:24 ], particularly as it relates to identity, credibility, and gatekeeping in predominantly white industries. The conversation expands into the intersection of race, gender, and workplace authority, highlighting how Black men and women assert their presence while navigating cultural expectations and systemic barriers [ 01:10:02 ]. The episode closes on a lighter note with a spontaneous freestyle segment and playful cultural commentary that captures the crew’s humor, chemistry, and ability to blend serious discussion with entertainment [ 01:15:30 ]. 
 
No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
 
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EP 466: The Sparks Are Sparking (feat. Keke Palmer)

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