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Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. 

 

Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.

 

From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!

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You've Got Decisions: The Baby is His! How Would You Feel?

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and the king of headlines Jason “Jah” Lee for a wide-ranging conversation that blends current events, personal storytelling, cultural critique, and conspiracy-laced debates. The discussion kicks off with a breakdown of trending headlines and the crew’s signature “ignorant thoughts” on the week’s biggest topics [ 03:01 ], before shifting into personal updates, celebrations, and behind-the-scenes moments from their lives outside the studio [ 06:01 ]. The hosts then share humorous stories involving social experiments and unexpected food adventures that spark commentary about social norms and curiosity-driven experiences [ 09:01 ], leading into a remix-style conversation about pop culture, internet discourse, and shifting cultural narratives [ 11:49 ].
 
The energy continues with nightlife stories and party culture reflections [ 15:10 ], before the conversation pivots toward politics and current affairs, examining the broader social climate and the way media narratives shape public understanding [ 18:13 ]. Technology enters the discussion as the hosts debate the expanding role of AI in media, storytelling, and historical interpretation [ 22:00 ], which leads naturally into conspiracy theories and contentious conversations surrounding COVID-era vaccine debates [ 27:10 ]. The dialogue intensifies as the crew unpacks controversial claims about Epstein’s alleged influence on mRNA technology and elite power structures [ 42:01 ], before transitioning into a deeper examination of the struggles Black men face navigating visibility, opportunity, and stereotyping in Hollywood and entertainment industries [ 51:50 ].
 
From there, the hosts explore the complex dynamics of respect, influence, and power within professional environments [ 01:00:24 ], particularly as it relates to identity, credibility, and gatekeeping in predominantly white industries. The conversation expands into the intersection of race, gender, and workplace authority, highlighting how Black men and women assert their presence while navigating cultural expectations and systemic barriers [ 01:10:02 ]. The episode closes on a lighter note with a spontaneous freestyle segment and playful cultural commentary that captures the crew’s humor, chemistry, and ability to blend serious discussion with entertainment [ 01:15:30 ]. 
 
No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
 
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Selective Ignorance: Ep. 54 | A.I. Dead Presidents, Epstein DNA & The Angry Black Man

On this episode of Decisions, Decisions, Sarah Fontenot joins Mandii B and WeezyWTF for a candid conversation about marriage, commitment, and modern relationships. The group discusses whether marriage should be the goal, Mandii’s hesitation around long-term commitment, and what emotional independence looks like in dating. Sarah also shares the story of leaving her boyfriend for the man who became her husband, the speed of their relationship, and how they went from friends to marriage. Later, the hosts debate expectations in partnerships, Cam Newton and marriage, and whether Mandii might actually be afraid of becoming a wife before Sarah closes out the episode with the three things that are important to her in life in order of importance.
 
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EP. 463: Letting Go Of Your Boyfriend For Your Husband Pt. 2 (feat. Sarah Fontenot)

You've Got Decisions: Did Cheating in High School Ruin My relationship?

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B joined by super producer A-King, and king of the headlines Jason “Jah” Lee, deliver a culturally sharp discussion spanning Black History Month, Women’s History Month, politics, reparations, and celebrity influence, beginning with reflections on the importance of honoring Black and women’s contributions beyond performative celebration [01:55]. The conversation quickly pivots to the controversial partnership between the Atlanta Hawks and Magic City, unpacking what it says about Atlanta’s identity, capitalism, and cultural branding [02:52], before settling into guest introductions and commentary on podcast dynamics and media chemistry [03:45]. The hosts address online criticism and gender discourse in digital spaces [05:10], share anecdotes from a night out in Atlanta that spark conversations about networking, optics, and influence [09:17], and reflect on ignorance in the context of current events and viral headlines [14:29].
 
The episode deepens with a historical lens on the NAACP’s rebranding efforts and legacy [15:50], followed by a candid dialogue about exceptionalism within the Black community and the pressures it creates [20:07]. A thoughtful debate on reparations, land ownership, and economic justice unfolds [23:01], layered with broader commentary on Atlanta’s evolving cultural identity [25:52]. Later, the crew analyzes the viral Tez Johnson proposal controversy and what it reveals about social expectations and public judgment [36:27], before shifting into urgent discussions around the Epstein files, political apologies, and elite accountability [43:14]. The hosts confront difficult societal conversations surrounding pedophilia and institutional complicity [51:58], examine rising geopolitical tensions and concerns about global conflict [57:02], and close with a powerful call to action encouraging awareness, civic engagement, and informed participation in today’s socio-political climate [01:11:27]. Blending cultural commentary, political analysis, and social critique, this episode underscores the importance of engagement, accountability, and historical literacy in navigating modern America.
 
No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
 
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Selective Ignorance: Ep. 53 | Missiles, Magic City & Mythical Negros

***TRIGGER WARNING***** Mentions of DV 
 

This week on Decisions, Decisions, Mandii B and Weezy are joined by Sarah Fontenot for an unfiltered conversation about love, marriage, and everything they don’t tell you before you say “I do.” Sarah opens up about waiting until marriage, navigating dating in Canada, and the realities of going from friend to wife, plus her three rings and two very different engagements. The episode dives into marriage counseling, gossiping as adults, and whether you should ever let your man propose at a baby shower. Things get spicy as the trio debates cheating, sex workers and accountability, side chick energy, emotional affairs, independence in relationships, and the boundaries around husbands having close female friends. 
 
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Ep. 462: Third Engagement’s The Charm Pt. 1 (feat. Sarah Fontenot)

You've Got Decisions: What Did He Say??

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and king of the headlines Jason “Jah” Lee for a layered, culture-forward conversation unpacking race, sports, media, and accountability. The episode opens with reflections on Black History Month and the intersection of sports and cultural celebration [00:55], before shifting into personal stories and sharp observations about Atlanta culture, identity, and lived experience in the city [03:46]. The crew adds humor with tales of strip club adventures and the role of food culture in shaping Atlanta’s social scene [07:26], which leads into a spirited debate about Atlanta’s evolving cultural identity and its influence on music, media, and migration trends [13:04].
 
The conversation deepens with an analysis of the WNBA’s labor negotiations and ongoing pay disparities, highlighting the broader conversation about gender equity in professional sports [20:15], followed by a sobering discussion about the healthcare crisis, rising medical costs, and celebrity GoFundMe campaigns that expose systemic failures in access to care [33:22]. From there, the hosts examine representation in media through the lens of Captain Durag, unpacking how Black culture is framed, commodified, and consumed across digital platforms [39:53]. Hip-hop drama resurfaces as they break down the ongoing feud between 50 Cent and T.I., exploring how personal attacks intersect with legacy, ego, and the broader culture of celebrity conflict [50:14].
 
The episode widens into current events and social commentary, emphasizing civic awareness and cultural responsibility [01:01:17], before closing with a critical discussion of the Epstein files, power dynamics, and the urgent need for community engagement and informed action [01:21:55]. Blending humor, nostalgia, and serious political critique, this episode delivers sharp insight into Black culture, sports economics, healthcare inequality, media representation, and hip-hop controversy in today’s social climate.
 
No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
 
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Mandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps
 
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@itsaking
 
@jaysonrodriguez
 
@mrhiphopobama
 
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Instagram @selectiveignorancepod
Tiktok @selective.ignorance
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Selective Ignorance: Ep. 52 | Durags, Wifi Games & Tequilla

Mandii B and Weezy return for a solo episode where they catch up on recent experiences, from being labeled the “Pee Pee Girls” and awkward moments that ruin intimacy to Alexa interruptions and music choices during sex. The conversation moves through nightlife encounters, calling Assante for advice, discussions around gay-baiting, body compliments, and appearance, before getting into tops and bottoms, cities known for threesomes and open relationships, bringing up partners in conversation, and a round of Kinky Court. Later, they react to public carpet engagements, play “We Listen and We Judge” with incel discourse included, address a man extending his time with an escort before the COPS are called. Finally we get to our reactionary, where we talk about how long we need to wait after a break-up before finally being on the search for another.
 
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EP 461: So You Think I’m Skinnyyyyy?

You've Got Decisions: We’re Non Monogamous But He Made a Baby with Her!

Mandii and Weezy are back with their FIRST guest of 2026. Joining the ladies this episode is entertainment reporter, TV personality and producer, Zuri Hall! The ladies kick things off unpacking the realities of egg freezing, why no one was talking about it when we were younger, and the emotional, financial, and relational layers that come with planning your future as a woman. The conversation goes even deeper into questioning motherhood, costs, having kids with a partner, and what choosing a surrogate really looks like.
 
 
 
Egg Freezing In Chicago:
https://ovaeggfreezing.com/
 
If you love great conversations, this one’s for you. Emmy-winning TV host Zuri Hall flips the script with NOT ABOUT SPORTS, with new episodes every other week on YouTube. Watch the show here: http://youtube.com/@zurihall 
Zuri goes one-on-one with your sports faves, diving deep into everything except the game — the people behind the headlines, the relationships, the identity shifts, and the moments that actually matter. 
From love and purpose to passion and legacy, it’s about finding new reasons to cheer for the humans behind the game.
 

OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
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Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages
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EP 455: The Truth About Egg Freezing (feat. Zuri Hall)

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