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Mark Manson

New episodes every Wednesday. Mark Manson is a three-time #1 New York Times bestselling author and 20-year personal development industry veteran. Solved is the most comprehensive, evidence-based, overly-researched podcast on the planet to help you get an issue in your life, err... solved.

The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck Podcast

We pulled over 2,600 studies and ranked 19 of the most common self-improvement techniques across three dimensions: research quality, consistency of results, and actual effect size. Then we sorted them into four tiers: legitimately works, works sometimes, probably not helping, and straight up bullshit. Microdosing landed in the bullshit tier. Crystal healing outperformed several "serious" techniques. And the number one most effective strategy is something so stupidly simple it's almost annoying.

We also get into why everything at the bottom of the list shares one thing in common, why the middle of the list is mostly a fancy placebo, and why nearly everything at the top has been around for thousands of years.

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Chapters:

0:06:02 CHAPTER 1: Category 4: Bullsh*t

0:27:29 CHAPTER 2: Category 3: Probably Not Helping

0:51:37 CHAPTER 3: Category 2: Works Sometimes

1:23:50 CHAPTER 4: Category 1: Legitimately Works

1:59:19 CHAPTER 5: Conclusion

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Self-Help, Solved

This book has sold over a hundred million copies, billionaires swear by it. But what if it's a lie? Does the effectiveness of the book change if we find out that the author is a huge scammer and quite possibly made up the whole story that spearheaded the book? 

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The Biggest Self-Help Scam in History, Solved

Meditation has been sold to us as a magic pill for so long that the backlash is almost as overblown as the hype. I spent years deep in Buddhist practice, went on retreats, meditated daily — and then slowly discovered that half the gurus evangelizing it were alcoholics, abusers, or running Rolls-Royce-funded cults. Here's what the more careful research actually shows: there are three things meditation does reliably well, and they’re probably not what you've been promised. More importantly, almost everything you've been told about how to do it is wrong — starting with the idea that the goal is to quiet your mind. If your brain turns into a chaotic mess the moment you close your eyes, that's not a failure. That's the whole point. Get your free episode guide: https://solvedpodcast.com/meditation/

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Chapters:
8:15 CHAPTER 1: Skeptic Claim #1: Meditation Is Overhyped
22:45 CHAPTER 2: Skeptic Claim #2: "Meditation Isn't for Me"
48:33 CHAPTER 3: Skeptic Claim #3: The New-Agey, "Woo-Woo" Crowd Turns Me Off
1:01:01 CHAPTER 3: A Secular, Grounded Alternative: Meditation Without Metaphysics
1:17:35 CHAPTER 4: Conclusion: What Meditation Really Is

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Meditation, Solved: Is It Actually Worth It?

If you’ve ever felt stuck, or like you’re doing all the right things but something still feels off, there’s a good chance it’s a values problem. Not a discipline problem, not a productivity problem. A values problem. Most people have never actually sat down and figured out what they care about. Not really anyway.

This clip is from our episode How to Find and Live By Your Values, which came out back in May 2025 and is honestly one of the episodes I’m most proud of. Drew and I go through a bunch of exercises to help you actually figure out what you value, not what you think you’re supposed to value. 

We cover things like: 

 
How to identify your core values with a simple hypothetical scenario.

 
How to clearly define what you want your legacy to be

 
Ways to prioritize your values by making tough decisions.

 
How to turn frustrations into your deepest values.

 
Why the hierarchy of your values is more critical than any single one of them.

 
And why your willingness to sacrifice for something says a lot more about you than just what you think you want in life.

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Solved, Highlights: How to Find Your Values

Focus is one of those things everyone swears they need more of and almost no one is actually addressing correctly. In this episode, we dig into what the science actually says about attention spans (hint: your brain isn't broken, it's just overwhelmed), why the standard advice to "try harder" is probably making things worse, and what's really driving your inability to sit down and get things done. We get into the neuroscience of explore vs. exploit modes, why flow states feel the way they do, and the four hidden triggers behind most focus problems, none of which have anything to do with your phone. Then we get into the practical stuff: environmental design, deep work frameworks, the maker vs. manager schedule, time boxing, batching, and why a dentist appointment in the middle of your morning can ruin your entire day. If you're the kind of person who opens 14 browser tabs, switches between them for 40 minutes, and calls that "working", well, this one's for you. Get the free guide for this episode: https://solvedpodcast.com/focus/https://solvedpodcast.com/focus/

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Chapters:

3:06 CHAPTER 1: The Attention Crisis (Is It Even Real?)

21:55 CHAPTER 2: The Exploit–Explore Dilemma

50:33 CHAPTER 3: The Psychology of Distraction

1:18:50 CHAPTER 4: Flow States and Hyperfocus

1:37:36 CHAPTER 5: Mental Health and the Clinical Realities of Focus

1:56:27 CHAPTER 6: Environmental Design for Focus

2:34:39 CHAPTER 7: Productivity Systems

3:05:29 CHAPTER 8: The 80/20 of Focus

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Focus, Solved

A Hungarian doctor discovered that handwashing saves lives, and was destroyed for proving it. Michael Jordan’s competitiveness made him a legend, then turned him into a prisoner of his own intensity. My ADHD nearly derailed my life and later became the foundation of my career. This video explores an uncomfortable truth: the traits that make you exceptional are often the same ones that create your biggest problems. The real question isn't “How do I change?” but “Is this worth it, and how do I manage it?”

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The Best Thing About You is Also the Worst Thing

We put love on trial — literally. Drew and I squared off in a full debate over whether romantic love is overrated. I made the case that love is basically your brain's con man, a neurochemical hijacking designed to make you delusional about deeply flawed people, and that the most intoxicating relationships are often the most toxic. Drew fought back with the evidence that love is the foundation of social infrastructure, physical health, and long-term happiness. By the end, we came to a gentlemen’s agreement: a framework that explains why we're all chasing the wrong kind of love, and what the right kind actually looks like.

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Chapters

2:21 Round 1: Love is the Brain's Conman

23:33 Round 2: Love as Social Infrastructure

45:33 Round 3: Love and Happiness

1:07:14 Round 4: We're Drawn to People Who Hurt Us

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Romantic Love, Solved

This is a segment from the full episode on procrastination.

Procrastination isn't a time management problem — it's an emotional regulation problem, and once you see that, everything changes. We break down how your brain uses avoidance as a mood-management strategy, why every philosopher from Plato to the Buddhists was partially right (but nobody had the full picture), and the specific internal and external levers you can pull to actually get shit done. We also run through the six types of procrastinators so you can figure out which flavor of self-sabotage you've been perfecting — plus the RAIN method, minimum viable actions, and why making boring things fun isn't just a nice idea, it's the whole game.

 We also put together a free companion guide for the full episode with all the takeaways, references, and tools to help you get your sh*t together once and for all. Download it here: https://solvedpodcast.com/procrastination

 
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Chapters:

0:00 Introduction

1:44 Understanding Emotional Regulation

9:34 The RAIN Method

14:04 The Six Types of Procrastinators

23:09 The 80-20 of Procrastination

43:39 Conclusion

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Solved, Highlights: The Real Reason You Procrastinate

Most people aren’t bad at dating, they’re just trying to solve the wrong problem. We treat dating like a personality test (“Am I attractive enough? Confident enough?”) when it’s actually a multi-stage process, and each stage punishes completely different mistakes. That one misunderstanding explains why dating feels so confusing, why men and women keep blaming each other, why dating apps feel brutal, and why so much dating advice makes things worse instead of better.

In this episode of Solved, Drew and I break down why modern dating feels so broken, and why it actually isn’t. We dig into the evolutionary psychology behind attraction, why men and women are optimizing for different things, how modern culture and dating apps amplify the worst parts of the system, and the three stages of dating that almost nobody understands. We also talk about confidence, rejection, status, attraction, and why avoiding rejection is often the very thing sabotaging your dating life. If you’ve felt stuck, burned out, or quietly wondering “what the hell is wrong with dating?” — this episode is for you.

 We also put together a free companion guide for this episode with all the takeaways, references, and tools to help you get your sh*t together once and for all. Download it here: https://solvedpodcast.com/dating

 
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Chapters:

5:12 CHAPTER 1: Why Is Dating So Complicated?

51:27 CHAPTER 2: A Brief History of Courtship & Dating

1:21:37 CHAPTER 3: Men's and Women's Dating Advice Ecosystems

2:21:27 CHAPTER 4: The Pre-Dating Phase

2:57:48 CHAPTER 5: Meeting People and Getting Dates

3:29:51 CHAPTER 6: Going on Dates

4:14:44 CHAPTER 7: The 80/20

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Dating, Solved: Why Finding the Right Person Feels So Hard

Most people think ego is either something you need to kill off entirely or inflate to take over the world. Both are wrong. In this episode, we dig deep into what ego actually is—how it evolved, why it matters, and how it secretly runs your life without you realizing it.

We hit Freud, Buddhism, David Hume, Jung’s shadow self, and even the Navy SEALs to unpack why your ego isn’t always the enemy—it’s mostly just misunderstood. Then we get into how to quiet your ego without losing your identity, and yes, we talk psychedelics, too. This is everything you were never taught about ego—but should’ve been.

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Chapters:

3:31 CHAPTER 1: Defining the Indefinable — What Is the Ego?

49:29 CHAPTER 2: The Ego’s Evolutionary Architecture — How Evolution Built the Self

1:13:08 CHAPTER 3: When the Ego Becomes a Tyrant

1:47:29 CHAPTER4: The Quiet Ego — Beyond a Strong Ego

2:04:27 CHAPTER 5: The Chemical Dissolution: Ego Death and Psychedelics

2:23:16 CHAPTER 6: 80/20

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How to Quiet Your Ego (Without Losing Yourself), Solved

Friendship is the most important thing nobody talks about. From ancient philosophy to game theory, we break down why friendship isn’t just some social nicety—it’s a biological survival strategy. Plus: the modern forces slowly strangling our ability to connect, and exactly what to do about it. You’ll walk away with a clearer sense of what real friendship looks like, how to build it, and how to stop shooting yourself in the foot every time you try.

 We also put together a free companion guide for this episode with all the takeaways, references, and tools to help you get your sh*t together once and for all. Download it here: https://solvedpodcast.com/friendship

 
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Chapters:

00:04:44 CHAPTER 1: Reframing Resilience — Definitions & Misconceptions

00:23:50 CHAPTER 2: Developmental and Biological Foundations of Resilience

00:38:54 CHAPTER 3: Biological & Physiological Foundations

01:17:17 CHAPTER 4: Psychological, Philosophical & Evidence-Based Frameworks

02:27:00 CHAPTER 5: Sociocultural & Community Dimensions

02:57:28 CHAPTER 6: The 80/20 of Becoming More Resilient

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