App Store

Google Play

DK - Details page - Device banner - 894x1036

Nyd den ubegrænsede adgang til tusindvis af spændende e- og lydbøger - helt gratis

Lyt når som helst, hvor som helst 

iHeartPodcasts

Transformative ideas from the best thinkers on the planet including guests like James Clear, Susan Cain, Michael Pollan, Deepak Chopra, Nicole LaPera, Yung Pueblo, Gabor Mate, Maggie Smith, David Whyte, Macklemore, George Saunders, Anne Lamott, Frank Turner, Mark Manson, Tara Brach, AJ Jacobs, Oliver Burkeman, Ryan Holiday, Parker Palmer. It’s not about perfection; it’s about direction.

The One You Feed

This week we talk to Dr. Gabor Mate´ about addiction
Get a free download of Eric's key quotes and ideas from Dr. Mate's work. 
A renowned speaker, and bestselling author, Dr. Gabor Maté is highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics including addiction, stress and childhood development.
For twelve years Dr. Maté worked in Vancouver’s Downtown Eastside with patients challenged by hard-core drug addiction, mental illness and HIV, including at Vancouver’s Supervised Injection Site.
As an author, Dr. Maté has written several bestselling books including the award-winning In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction; When the Body Says No: The Cost of Hidden Stress; and Scattered Minds: A New Look at the Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder, and co-authored Hold on to Your Kids. His works have been published internationally in twenty languages.
Dr. Maté is the co-founder of Compassion for Addiction, a new non-profit that focusses on addiction. He is also an advisor of Drugs over Dinner.
Dr. Maté has received the Hubert Evans Prize for Literary Non-Fiction; an Honorary Degree (Law) from the University of Northern British Columbia; an Outstanding Alumnus Award from Simon Fraser University; and the 2012 Martin Luther King Humanitarian Award from Mothers Against Teen Violence. He is an adjunct professor in the Faculty of Criminology, Simon Fraser University.

 Our Sponsor this Week is Fracture
Visit Fracture and use the promo code “wolf” to get 10% off!!

 

In This Interview, Gabor Mate´ and I Discuss:

The One You Feed parable
The degree of choice we have in life
What is the Realm of the Hungry Ghosts?
What is addiction?
The characteristics of addiction
Recognizing what addicts get out of their addiction
The fundamental question is not "Why the Addiction" but "Why the Pain"
How all addiction comes out of some hurt or trauma
The different types of trauma
The role of neurotransmitters in addiction
How drugs and alcohol destroy the parts of the brain that allow us to make sound decisions
Whether or not genetics play a significant role in addiction
Whether our culture breeds addiction
How our children get most of their leadership from other children
How the breakup of family, community and clan is contributing to addiction
The critical role of the culture in our the development of our brains
Recognizing our inherent value
To what degree we have freedom over our choices
Without consciousness, there is no freedom
Paths to recovery
How compassion can help with recovery
Developing compassionate curiosity towards ourselves

 

Get a free download of Eric's key quotes and ideas from Dr. Mate's work.
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dr. Gabor Mate´

Oliver Burkeman is a British journalist and writer based in New York. He is well known not only for his amazing books, but he also wrote a popular weekly column on psychology called “This Column will Change Your Life” which was printed weekly between 2006 and 2020. 

Oliver joins Eric for a third time on the show, and in this episode, they discuss many things, including his new book, “Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals”

But wait – there’s more! The episode is not quite over!! We continue the conversation and you can access this exclusive content right in your podcast player feed. Head over to our Patreon page and pledge to donate just $10 a month. It’s that simple and we’ll give you good stuff as a thank you!

Oliver Burkeman and I Discuss Time Management for Mortals and …

 • His book, 
“Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals” • 

 • How we invest more energy and focus on trying to escape certain feelings

 • Finitude and understanding that life is finite

 • Time and how we relate to it as something we have and use

 • The idea that we 
are • time rather than we 
have • time

 • Accepting the truth of your finitude allows you to live more in the present

 • Confusing meaningful with extraordinary

 • Cosmic insignificance therapy suggests that we reexamine the threshold of what makes a meaningful life

 • Our tendency to want to define and measure what is meaningful in life

 • How the pursuit of using time well can lead us to live in the future rather than being present

 • Asking ourselves if something is expanding or contracting to us

 • The modern attention economy and being aware if we are choosing where our attention goes

 • How the things that matter most to us can provoke unpleasant emotions that lead to seeking distractions

 • The problem isn’t how things are, but rather how we think they should be

 • Trying too hard to be present in the moment 

 • Accepting the impossibility of complete control 

Oliver Burkeman Links:

Oliver’s Website

Twitter

Oliver’s Posts

Calm App: The app designed to help you ease stress and get the best sleep of your life through meditations and sleep stories. Join the 85 million people around the world who use Calm to get better sleep. Get 40% off a Calm Premium Subscription (a limited time offer!) by going to www.calm.com/wolf

If you enjoyed this conversation with Oliver Burkeman, you might also enjoy these other episodes:

Oliver Burkeman on Modern Time Management (2019)

Oliver Burkeman (2014)

Living Between Worlds with James Hollis

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Oliver Burkeman on Time Management for Mortals

Dr. Gabor Maté is a highly sought expert on a wide range of topics such as addiction, stress, and childhood development. He has written many books, of which several are best-sellers, including the award-winning “In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts” , “Close Encounters with Addiction”, and “When the Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease Culture.” Gabor’s work has been published internationally and in more than 30 languages.
 
In this episode, Eric and Dr. Maté discuss his book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture
 
But wait, there’s more! The episode is not quite over!! We continue the conversation and you can access this exclusive content right in your podcast player feed. Head over to our Patreon page and pledge to donate just $10 a month. It’s that simple and we’ll give you good stuff as a thank you!
 
Dr. Gabor Mate and I Discuss How to …
 
 • His book, 
The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture • 
 • Defining the myths of normal
 • How the increasing anxiety, depression, and other mental health issues are a result of toxic culture
 • Stress and trauma can begin for a child in utero, at childbirth, and throughout childhood
 • The modern stresses of our world contributes to a toxic culture
 • How parents pass down their traumas to their children
 • Defining trauma as a psychic wound that happens inside of you
 • The healing process is the recovery of self
 • Understanding the clash between attachment and authenticity
 • How emotions and immune systems are part of the same system
 • The importance of understanding the important link between emotions and physical health
 • Trauma imposed self beliefs are the main obstacles of healing
 • Remembering that healing is a lifelong process
 • The 4 A’s of healing: authenticity, agency, acceptance, and anger (healthy) 
 
Dr. Gabor Mate Links:
 
Dr. Gabor Mate’s website
 
Twitter
 
Instagram
 
Facebook
 
By purchasing products and/or services from our sponsors, you are helping to support The One You Feed and we greatly appreciate it. Thank you!
 
If you enjoyed this conversation with Dr, Gabor Maté, check out these other episodes:
 
Dr. Gabor Mate’s Interview from 2016
 
Healing Trauma with Dr. James Gordon

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

How to Find Healing From Trauma with Dr. Gabor Mate

In this episode, Yoni Ashar explains the elements of neuroplastic pain and offers hope for healing chronic pain. In his work with”Pain Reprocessing Therapy” he delves into how this unique approach differs from traditional pain management techniques. Yoni’s research challenges our understanding of pain and opens up new possibilities for healing and well-being.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • The role of fear and threat perception in maintaining pain
 • Key indicators that your pain might be neuroplastic
 • The three components of somatic tracking in working through pain
 • How to create a sense of safety around pain sensations
 
For full show notes, click here!
 
Connect with the show:
 
 • Follow us on YouTube: 
@TheOneYouFeedPod • 
 • Subscribe on 
Apple Podcasts • or 
Spotify • 
 • Follow us on 
Instagram • 
 
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hope for Healing Chronic Pain with Yoni Ashar

In this episode, Anders Hansen explains the purpose of emotions and how we’re not wired for happiness. Anders discusses the evolutionary nature of our minds and how our ancestor’s survival instincts have shaped our modern-day experiences of anxiety and happiness.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • Understand how human emotions have evolved to serve a purpose in our lives
 • Discover the powerful impact of exercise on your mental well-being
 • Learn effective strategies to overcome feelings of loneliness and connect with others
 • Explore the role of inflammation in depression and its potential influence on mental health
 • Recognize the importance of nurturing relationships for your overall happiness and well-being
 
For full show notes, click here!
 
Connect with the show:
 
 • Follow us on YouTube: 
@TheOneYouFeedPod • 
 • Subscribe on 
Apple Podcasts • or 
Spotify • 
 • Follow us on 
Instagram • 
 
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The Purpose of Emotions and Why We're Not Wired for Happiness with Anders Hansen

In this episode, La Sarmiento explores what it means to embrace imperfection to discover the path to true self-acceptance. La shares their journey of discovering and embracing identity, belonging, and the challenges of living authentically in a world that often demands conformity.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • Learning to feed our “good wolf” through conscious effort and daily choices
 • Balancing the absolute truth of oneness with the relative truth of societal inequalities
 • The role of identity in spiritual practice and the complexities of the “no-self” teaching
 • Creating inclusive spaces in spiritual communities and the challenges of true integration
 • The transformative power of unconditional love through relationships, including animals
 
For full show notes, click here!
 
Connect with the show:
 
 • Follow us on YouTube: 
@TheOneYouFeedPod • 
 • Subscribe on 
Apple Podcasts • or 
Spotify • 
 • Follow us on 
Instagram • 
 
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Embracing Imperfection: The Path to True Self Acceptance with La Sarmiento

In this episode, Daniel Levitin explores the concept of music as medicine and how rhythm and melody can transform wellness. Delving into the origins of music therapy, he uncovers its historical significance in ancient healing practices and its gradual resurgence in modern times. Daniel illustrates the connection between music and the human brain, emphasizing its ability to evoke deep emotional responses and aid in treating various neurological and psychological conditions.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • Discover the transformative power of music for emotional expression and stress relief
 • Explore the therapeutic potential of music for improving movement and coordination in individuals with movement disorders
 • Uncover the profound impact of music in bringing comfort and joy to individuals living with dementia
 • Learn how music can serve as a powerful tool for reducing and managing chronic pain
 • Delve into the role of music in enhancing memory retention and cognitive function
 
For full show notes, click here!
 
Connect with the show:
 
 • Follow us on YouTube: 
@TheOneYouFeedPod • 
 • Subscribe on 
Apple Podcasts • or 
Spotify • 
 • Follow us on 
Instagram • 
 
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Music as Medicine: How Rhythm and Melody Transform Wellness with Daniel Levitin

In this episode, Kimmy Culp explores how we can transform our inner dialogue to heal and connect. The discussion includes the complexities of mental health, personal identity, and the power of self-talk. Kimi also shares her journey with bipolar disorder as she emphasizes the importance of community, shared experiences, and the healing power of recognizing one’s struggles.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • Exploration of mental health and personal identity
 • The impact of self-talk on well-being
 • The importance of community and shared experiences in healing
 • The complexities of labels and identity in relation to mental health
 • The concept of comparative suffering and its implications
 • The role of gratitude in mental health and healing
 • The significance of authenticity and vulnerability in relationships
 
For full show notes, click here!
 
Connect with the show:
 
 • Follow us on YouTube: 
@TheOneYouFeedPod • 
 • Subscribe on 
Apple Podcasts • or 
Spotify • 
 • Follow us on 
Instagram • 
 
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

How We Can Transform Our Inner Dialogue to Heal and Connect with Kimi Culp

In this episode, Chris Bailey discusses how to break free from the “more” trap and find balance in a busy life. He explores the concept of ‘stimulation heights,’ the challenges of constant digital stimulation, and practical strategies for creating meaningful, intentional experiences. Chris also shares how learning to cultivate presence can lead to greater calm, focus, and fulfillment in your modern lifestyle.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • The misconceptions about calm and its crucial role in productivity
 • How our pursuit of “more” impacts our ability to be present
 • The concept of “super stimuli” and their effect on our brain chemistry
 • Practical strategies for creating boundaries and finding balance
 • The power of savoring and its impact on our overall well-being
 
Connect with Chris Bailey: Website | Instagram
 
For full show notes, click here!
 
Connect with the show:
 
 • Follow us on YouTube: 
@TheOneYouFeedPod • 
 • Subscribe on 
Apple Podcasts • or 
Spotify • 
 • Follow us on 
Instagram • 
 
 

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

How to Break Free from the 'More' Trap and Find Balance in a Busy Life with Chris Bailey

In this episode, Meghan O’Rourke discusses how to find joy and healing while living with chronic illness. Meghan shares her personal journey through years of unexplained symptoms, misdiagnoses, and the frustrating search for answers. She delves into the intricate relationship between mind and body, exploring how our thoughts, emotions, and physical sensations intertwine in ways that challenge conventional medical understanding. We examine the role of stress, expectations, and societal pressures in shaping our experiences of illness and recovery.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • The importance of viewing the body as an interconnected system rather than isolated parts
 • How empathy and understanding from healthcare providers can significantly impact patient outcomes
 • The challenges of managing symptoms like brain fog and fatigue, which can be harder to address than physical pain
 • The need to balance advocating for oneself while resisting catastrophic thinking
 • Rethinking what “healing” means in the context of chronic illness
 
For full show notes, click here!
 
Connect with the show:
 
 • Follow us on YouTube: 
@TheOneYouFeedPod • 
 • Subscribe on 
Apple Podcasts • or 
Spotify • 
 • Follow us on 
Instagram • 
 
 

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

How to Find Healing with Chronic Illness with Meghan O'Rourke

In this very special episode, Eric meets with several students from a school in Colorado. Their counselor, Ms. Rebecca has shared and discussed the parable of the two wolves with her students, and with the parents’ permission, invited Eric to “interview” the students.
 
You’ll discover just how early the bad wolf starts appearing in our lives. But even at this young age, they have their own ways of trying to ensure they feed their good wolf.
 
Themes discussed in this episode:
 
 • Dealing with dissatisfaction or discontentment
 • Managing the inner critic
 • Learning from our mistakes
 • How comparison undermines self confidence and joy
 
To learn more, click here!

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Special Episode: Eric talks to Kids About Their Good and Bad Wolves!

Lyt når som helst, hvor som helst

Other podcasts you might like ...