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Transformative ideas from the best thinkers on the planet including guests like James Clear, Susan Cain, Michael Pollan, Deepak Chopra, Nicole LaPera, Yung Pueblo, Gabor Mate, Maggie Smith, , David Whyte, Macklemore, George Saunders, Anne Lamott, Frank Turner, Mark Manson, Tara Brach, AJ Jacobs, Oliver Burkeman, Ryan Holiday, Parker Palmer. It’s not about perfection; it’s about direction.

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Martha Beck is a bestselling author, life coach, and speaker who specializes in helping individuals and groups achieve greater levels of personal and professional success. She is the author of nine nonfiction books and one novel, and has been a longtime contributor to O, The Oprah Magazine. Her most recent book is The Way of Integrity: Finding the Path to Your True Self 
 
Eric and Martha discuss how to live in integrity and find the path to your true self.
 
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Martha Beck and I Discuss The Path to Your True Self and …
 
 • Her book, 
The Way of Integrity: Finding the Path to Your True Self\ • How what we often want is influenced by our culture
 • Asking ourselves what we yearn for as opposed to what you want
 • The repetitive cycle of thoughts that cause fear
 • How our culture reinforces the fear 
 • Learning to move from fear to curiosity
 • How humor and using your senses can turn down our fear
 • The dilemma of when our nature conflicts with our culture
 • Psychological suffering comes from the thoughts we choose to believe
 • Why suffering is needed to make us pay attention and can actually be our ally
 • Understanding that we have different “internal parts” that make up our whole self (Ref. to Richard Schwartz’s Internal Family Systems
 • Her New Year’s resolution to not lie for a year and the healing that she found
 • Navigating her way out of the Mormon religion
 • How switching our identity to a material self to a limitless state of being brings joy
 • Learning to imagine the good that will come from facing our discomfort
 • The power of small, incremental, and repetitive actions to change your life
 
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If you enjoyed this conversation with Martha Beck, check out these other episodes:
 
Byron Katie on The Work
 
Richard Schwartz on Internal Family Systems

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Martha Beck on The Path to Your True Self

In this episode, Lisa Feldman Barrett explores the science of how your brain really works. Eric and Lisa discuss a variety of practical strategies to improve your emotional well-being and resilience, based on the latest neuroscience research. Get ready to see your brain in a whole new light as you learn about the inner workings of your brain.
 
In this episode, you will be able to:
 
 • Discover how social interactions directly impact your nervous system and overall well-being
 • Uncover the brain’s crucial role in regulating your body and maintaining balance
 • Explore the significance of emotional granularity for enhancing your overall well-being and self-awareness
 • Learn effective strategies for managing body budget deficits and improving your emotional resilience
 • Understand the pivotal role of the predictive brain in shaping your everyday experiences and emotions
 
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Understanding How the Brain Works with Lisa Feldman Barrett

In this episode, Anders Hansen explains the purpose of emotions and how we’re not wired for happiness. Anders discusses the evolutionary nature of our minds and how our ancestor’s survival instincts have shaped our modern-day experiences of anxiety and happiness.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • Understand how human emotions have evolved to serve a purpose in our lives
 • Discover the powerful impact of exercise on your mental well-being
 • Learn effective strategies to overcome feelings of loneliness and connect with others
 • Explore the role of inflammation in depression and its potential influence on mental health
 • Recognize the importance of nurturing relationships for your overall happiness and well-being
 
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The Purpose of Emotions and Why We're Not Wired for Happiness with Anders Hansen

In this episode, La Sarmiento explores what it means to embrace imperfection to discover the path to true self-acceptance. La shares their journey of discovering and embracing identity, belonging, and the challenges of living authentically in a world that often demands conformity.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • Learning to feed our “good wolf” through conscious effort and daily choices
 • Balancing the absolute truth of oneness with the relative truth of societal inequalities
 • The role of identity in spiritual practice and the complexities of the “no-self” teaching
 • Creating inclusive spaces in spiritual communities and the challenges of true integration
 • The transformative power of unconditional love through relationships, including animals
 
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Embracing Imperfection: The Path to True Self Acceptance with La Sarmiento

In this episode, Daniel Levitin explores the concept of music as medicine and how rhythm and melody can transform wellness. Delving into the origins of music therapy, he uncovers its historical significance in ancient healing practices and its gradual resurgence in modern times. Daniel illustrates the connection between music and the human brain, emphasizing its ability to evoke deep emotional responses and aid in treating various neurological and psychological conditions.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • Discover the transformative power of music for emotional expression and stress relief
 • Explore the therapeutic potential of music for improving movement and coordination in individuals with movement disorders
 • Uncover the profound impact of music in bringing comfort and joy to individuals living with dementia
 • Learn how music can serve as a powerful tool for reducing and managing chronic pain
 • Delve into the role of music in enhancing memory retention and cognitive function
 
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Music as Medicine: How Rhythm and Melody Transform Wellness with Daniel Levitin

In this episode, Kimmy Culp explores how we can transform our inner dialogue to heal and connect. The discussion includes the complexities of mental health, personal identity, and the power of self-talk. Kimi also shares her journey with bipolar disorder as she emphasizes the importance of community, shared experiences, and the healing power of recognizing one’s struggles.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • Exploration of mental health and personal identity
 • The impact of self-talk on well-being
 • The importance of community and shared experiences in healing
 • The complexities of labels and identity in relation to mental health
 • The concept of comparative suffering and its implications
 • The role of gratitude in mental health and healing
 • The significance of authenticity and vulnerability in relationships
 
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How We Can Transform Our Inner Dialogue to Heal and Connect with Kimi Culp

In this episode, Chris Bailey discusses how to break free from the “more” trap and find balance in a busy life. He explores the concept of ‘stimulation heights,’ the challenges of constant digital stimulation, and practical strategies for creating meaningful, intentional experiences. Chris also shares how learning to cultivate presence can lead to greater calm, focus, and fulfillment in your modern lifestyle.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • The misconceptions about calm and its crucial role in productivity
 • How our pursuit of “more” impacts our ability to be present
 • The concept of “super stimuli” and their effect on our brain chemistry
 • Practical strategies for creating boundaries and finding balance
 • The power of savoring and its impact on our overall well-being
 
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How to Break Free from the 'More' Trap and Find Balance in a Busy Life with Chris Bailey

In this episode, Meghan O’Rourke discusses how to find joy and healing while living with chronic illness. Meghan shares her personal journey through years of unexplained symptoms, misdiagnoses, and the frustrating search for answers. She delves into the intricate relationship between mind and body, exploring how our thoughts, emotions, and physical sensations intertwine in ways that challenge conventional medical understanding. We examine the role of stress, expectations, and societal pressures in shaping our experiences of illness and recovery.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • The importance of viewing the body as an interconnected system rather than isolated parts
 • How empathy and understanding from healthcare providers can significantly impact patient outcomes
 • The challenges of managing symptoms like brain fog and fatigue, which can be harder to address than physical pain
 • The need to balance advocating for oneself while resisting catastrophic thinking
 • Rethinking what “healing” means in the context of chronic illness
 
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How to Find Healing with Chronic Illness with Meghan O'Rourke

Struggling to stick to your goals? In the upcoming 6 Saboteurs of Self-Control Workshop, we’ll uncover the six hidden obstacles that sabotage your progress and teach you how to overcome them. From breaking free of autopilot habits to tackling self-doubt and emotional escapism, this live session offers practical tools and strategies to help you make better choices and stay aligned with your values. Join us on Sunday, January 12 at 12pm ET and take the first step toward lasting change.
 
In this episode, Michelle Segar explains the importance of understanding choice points for lasting changes in eating and exercise. She is an expert in sustainable behavior change for health and well-being and provides valuable insights and strategies for implementing consistent and lasting lifestyle changes. Michelle’s insights shed light on the complexities of habit formation, challenging conventional approaches and advocating for a more holistic and compassionate perspective.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • Mastering the art of transforming unskillful behavior into skillful actions for lasting change
 • Overcoming the motivation bubble to unlock the secrets of healthy habit success
 • Unveiling powerful strategies for building and maintaining consistent exercise and eating habits
 • Harnessing the role of executive functions in making healthy choices for a thriving lifestyle
 • Embracing value-based decision making for sustainable and meaningful behavior change
 
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Understanding Choice Points for Lasting Changes in Eating and Exercise with Michelle Segar

Struggling to stick to your goals? In the upcoming 6 Saboteurs of Self-Control Workshop, we’ll uncover the six hidden obstacles that sabotage your progress and teach you how to overcome them. From breaking free of autopilot habits to tackling self-doubt and emotional escapism, this live session offers practical tools and strategies to help you make better choices and stay aligned with your values. Join us on Sunday, January 12 at 12pm ET and take the first step toward lasting change.
 
In this episode, Ralph De La Rosa discusses how to find your path to healing and post-traumatic growth. He explores the importance of understanding trauma, the conditions in which it occurs and explores the intricacies of the human nervous system. Ralph shares many personal reflections and psychological insights that offer a fresh perspective on trauma and how we can learn to overcome it for a more balanced and meaningful life.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • Discover effective strategies for healing from traumatic stress
 • Understand the role of subjectivity in trauma and its impact on personal growth
 • Explore the connection between rejection sensitive dysphoria, ADHD, and post-traumatic growth
 • Uncover powerful post-traumatic growth strategies for personal development
 • Learn about the benefits of the Internal Family Systems model for navigating trauma and fostering growth
 
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How to Find Your Path to Healing and Post-Traumatic Growth with Ralph De La Rosa

This week on The One You Feed our guest is Oliver Burkeman. Oliver is a journalist for the Guardian and the author of a wonderful book called The Antotdote: Happiness for People who Hate Positive Thinking. 
 In This Interview Oliver Burkeman and I discuss...

The One You Feed parable.
Why you should ask yourself: "What is the worst thing that could happen".
Do you have a problem right now?.
What musterbation is and why you should avoid it.
Why positive thinking isn't all it's cracked up to be.
Why focusing too much on your goals can be counterproductive.
How many wars were started in world history because somebody forgot their coffee in the AM.
What pop songs can Oliver not get out of his head.
Why positive thinking abhors a mystery.
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Oliver Burkeman

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