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Stephen Mitchell is an author and translator who has dedicated much of his life to Zen practice. Eric and Stephen have an in depth discussion about the questioning mind as well as his work of translating many famous texts, including the Tao Te Ching, Bhagavad Gita, and Rilke’s “Letters To a Young Poet”. Stephen has also co-authored many books with his wife, Byron Katie, who is a former guest on the show. 

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In This Interview, Stephen Mitchell and I Discuss the Questioning Mind and…

 • The parable: how reality cannot be broken into good or bad, it’s just what is.
 • When authentic action that is true to yourself becomes second nature, it’s an expression of your own reality.
 • His wife Katie’s words, “when we believe our thoughts, we suffer; when we question our thoughts, we don’t.”
 • Suffering can end when we awaken to the truth
 • Distinguishing between pain, a physical phenomenon, and suffering, a mental phenomenon
 • Suffering often comes from being stuck in an imagined past or imagined future
 • His translation of the Heart Sutra that is about openness rather than emptiness
 • The “don’t know” or questioning mind and how it doesn’t get stuck in judgement
 • Being immersed in an intense formal Zen practice for 7 years
 • His Koan studies that helped him get to a state of stillness and learn to hold the questioning mind without any content.
 • Defining Koan studies as an existential problem meant to catapult the student into a space of questioning. 
 • If you can rest in that space of not knowing, the answer will present itself to you.
 • The mind’s relationship with it’s contents
 • Difference between the mind and what it thinks.
 • We don’t suffer because of what happens to us, but rather how we think about what happens to us.
 • Self inquiry and asking yourself the question, “Is it true”?
 • How he learns the language of the text he’s translating.
 • His work of translating is more than just learning the meaning of words, but also the music of the words.
 • When translating text, his allegiance is to the spirit of the text and not just the literal meaning of the text.
Joseph and the Way of Forgiveness: A Biblical Tale Retold • is discussed in the post show conversation.

Stephen Mitchell Links:

stephenmitchellbooks.com

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Stephen Mitchell on the Questioning Mind

In this episode, Anders Hansen explains the purpose of emotions and how we’re not wired for happiness. Anders discusses the evolutionary nature of our minds and how our ancestor’s survival instincts have shaped our modern-day experiences of anxiety and happiness.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • Understand how human emotions have evolved to serve a purpose in our lives
 • Discover the powerful impact of exercise on your mental well-being
 • Learn effective strategies to overcome feelings of loneliness and connect with others
 • Explore the role of inflammation in depression and its potential influence on mental health
 • Recognize the importance of nurturing relationships for your overall happiness and well-being
 
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The Purpose of Emotions and Why We're Not Wired for Happiness with Anders Hansen

In this episode, La Sarmiento explores what it means to embrace imperfection to discover the path to true self-acceptance. La shares their journey of discovering and embracing identity, belonging, and the challenges of living authentically in a world that often demands conformity.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • Learning to feed our “good wolf” through conscious effort and daily choices
 • Balancing the absolute truth of oneness with the relative truth of societal inequalities
 • The role of identity in spiritual practice and the complexities of the “no-self” teaching
 • Creating inclusive spaces in spiritual communities and the challenges of true integration
 • The transformative power of unconditional love through relationships, including animals
 
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Embracing Imperfection: The Path to True Self Acceptance with La Sarmiento

In this episode, Daniel Levitin explores the concept of music as medicine and how rhythm and melody can transform wellness. Delving into the origins of music therapy, he uncovers its historical significance in ancient healing practices and its gradual resurgence in modern times. Daniel illustrates the connection between music and the human brain, emphasizing its ability to evoke deep emotional responses and aid in treating various neurological and psychological conditions.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • Discover the transformative power of music for emotional expression and stress relief
 • Explore the therapeutic potential of music for improving movement and coordination in individuals with movement disorders
 • Uncover the profound impact of music in bringing comfort and joy to individuals living with dementia
 • Learn how music can serve as a powerful tool for reducing and managing chronic pain
 • Delve into the role of music in enhancing memory retention and cognitive function
 
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Music as Medicine: How Rhythm and Melody Transform Wellness with Daniel Levitin

In this episode, Kimmy Culp explores how we can transform our inner dialogue to heal and connect. The discussion includes the complexities of mental health, personal identity, and the power of self-talk. Kimi also shares her journey with bipolar disorder as she emphasizes the importance of community, shared experiences, and the healing power of recognizing one’s struggles.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • Exploration of mental health and personal identity
 • The impact of self-talk on well-being
 • The importance of community and shared experiences in healing
 • The complexities of labels and identity in relation to mental health
 • The concept of comparative suffering and its implications
 • The role of gratitude in mental health and healing
 • The significance of authenticity and vulnerability in relationships
 
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How We Can Transform Our Inner Dialogue to Heal and Connect with Kimi Culp

In this episode, Chris Bailey discusses how to break free from the “more” trap and find balance in a busy life. He explores the concept of ‘stimulation heights,’ the challenges of constant digital stimulation, and practical strategies for creating meaningful, intentional experiences. Chris also shares how learning to cultivate presence can lead to greater calm, focus, and fulfillment in your modern lifestyle.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • The misconceptions about calm and its crucial role in productivity
 • How our pursuit of “more” impacts our ability to be present
 • The concept of “super stimuli” and their effect on our brain chemistry
 • Practical strategies for creating boundaries and finding balance
 • The power of savoring and its impact on our overall well-being
 
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How to Break Free from the 'More' Trap and Find Balance in a Busy Life with Chris Bailey

In this episode, Meghan O’Rourke discusses how to find joy and healing while living with chronic illness. Meghan shares her personal journey through years of unexplained symptoms, misdiagnoses, and the frustrating search for answers. She delves into the intricate relationship between mind and body, exploring how our thoughts, emotions, and physical sensations intertwine in ways that challenge conventional medical understanding. We examine the role of stress, expectations, and societal pressures in shaping our experiences of illness and recovery.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • The importance of viewing the body as an interconnected system rather than isolated parts
 • How empathy and understanding from healthcare providers can significantly impact patient outcomes
 • The challenges of managing symptoms like brain fog and fatigue, which can be harder to address than physical pain
 • The need to balance advocating for oneself while resisting catastrophic thinking
 • Rethinking what “healing” means in the context of chronic illness
 
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How to Find Healing with Chronic Illness with Meghan O'Rourke

Struggling to stick to your goals? In the upcoming 6 Saboteurs of Self-Control Workshop, we’ll uncover the six hidden obstacles that sabotage your progress and teach you how to overcome them. From breaking free of autopilot habits to tackling self-doubt and emotional escapism, this live session offers practical tools and strategies to help you make better choices and stay aligned with your values. Join us on Sunday, January 12 at 12pm ET and take the first step toward lasting change.
 
In this episode, Michelle Segar explains the importance of understanding choice points for lasting changes in eating and exercise. She is an expert in sustainable behavior change for health and well-being and provides valuable insights and strategies for implementing consistent and lasting lifestyle changes. Michelle’s insights shed light on the complexities of habit formation, challenging conventional approaches and advocating for a more holistic and compassionate perspective.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • Mastering the art of transforming unskillful behavior into skillful actions for lasting change
 • Overcoming the motivation bubble to unlock the secrets of healthy habit success
 • Unveiling powerful strategies for building and maintaining consistent exercise and eating habits
 • Harnessing the role of executive functions in making healthy choices for a thriving lifestyle
 • Embracing value-based decision making for sustainable and meaningful behavior change
 
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Understanding Choice Points for Lasting Changes in Eating and Exercise with Michelle Segar

Struggling to stick to your goals? In the upcoming 6 Saboteurs of Self-Control Workshop, we’ll uncover the six hidden obstacles that sabotage your progress and teach you how to overcome them. From breaking free of autopilot habits to tackling self-doubt and emotional escapism, this live session offers practical tools and strategies to help you make better choices and stay aligned with your values. Join us on Sunday, January 12 at 12pm ET and take the first step toward lasting change.
 
In this episode, Ralph De La Rosa discusses how to find your path to healing and post-traumatic growth. He explores the importance of understanding trauma, the conditions in which it occurs and explores the intricacies of the human nervous system. Ralph shares many personal reflections and psychological insights that offer a fresh perspective on trauma and how we can learn to overcome it for a more balanced and meaningful life.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • Discover effective strategies for healing from traumatic stress
 • Understand the role of subjectivity in trauma and its impact on personal growth
 • Explore the connection between rejection sensitive dysphoria, ADHD, and post-traumatic growth
 • Uncover powerful post-traumatic growth strategies for personal development
 • Learn about the benefits of the Internal Family Systems model for navigating trauma and fostering growth
 
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How to Find Your Path to Healing and Post-Traumatic Growth with Ralph De La Rosa

In this episode, Rachel Hollis offers a unique approach to changing your life by asking life changing questions to transform your mindset and actions. She shares her journey of overcoming anxious thoughts and the importance of learning to interrupt negative thought patterns. Rachel also emphasizes the need to move beyond seeking more information and instead focus on applying what we already know.
 
Struggling to stick to your goals? In the upcoming 6 Saboteurs of Self-Control Workshop, we’ll uncover the six hidden obstacles that sabotage your progress and teach you how to overcome them. From breaking free of autopilot habits to tackling self-doubt and emotional escapism, this live session offers practical tools and strategies to help you make better choices and stay aligned with your values. Join us on Sunday, January 12 at 12pm ET and take the first step toward lasting change.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • Discover practical actions to manage anxiety and take control of your well-being
 • Uncover the impact of parental anxiety on children and how it shapes their emotional growth
 • Explore the transformative benefits of therapy for overcoming PTSD and anxiety.
 • Learn effective strategies to interrupt and reframe negative thought patterns for a more positive mindset.
 • Elevate your personal growth by understanding the importance of setting higher standards for yourself.
 
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Life Changing Questions to Transform Your Mindset and Actions with Rachel Hollis

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In this mini episode, Eric shares helpful advice and many suggestions on how to deal with strong emotions during this global pandemic. He also offers a hopeful message about the personal growth that can come from such challenges.

 • Allow yourself to be where you are
 • Lower your expectations if you need to
 • Be kinder to yourself and practice self compassion (see 
Kristin Neff episode • )
 • Journaling can be a helpful practice
 • Post traumatic growth - turning adversity into something better
 • Allowing ourselves to explore thoughts and feelings can help not only cope, but create meaning in our lives
 • 7 areas of growth that can come from adversity
 • The importance of routine and structure in our days

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Mini Episode: Allowing Yourself to Feel Everything and Post Traumatic Growth

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