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Eric Zimmer

Transformative ideas from the best thinkers on the planet including guests like James Clear, Susan Cain, Michael Pollan, Deepak Chopra, Nicole LaPera, Yung Pueblo, Gabor Mate, Maggie Smith, David Whyte, Macklemore, George Saunders, Anne Lamott, Frank Turner, Mark Manson, Tara Brach, AJ Jacobs, Oliver Burkeman, Ryan Holiday, Parker Palmer. It’s not about perfection; it’s about direction.

The One You Feed

This week we talk to Dr. Gabor Mate´ about addiction
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A renowned speaker, and bestselling author, Dr. Gabor Maté is highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics including addiction, stress and childhood development.
For twelve years Dr. Maté worked in Vancouver’s Downtown Eastside with patients challenged by hard-core drug addiction, mental illness and HIV, including at Vancouver’s Supervised Injection Site.
As an author, Dr. Maté has written several bestselling books including the award-winning In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction; When the Body Says No: The Cost of Hidden Stress; and Scattered Minds: A New Look at the Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder, and co-authored Hold on to Your Kids. His works have been published internationally in twenty languages.
Dr. Maté is the co-founder of Compassion for Addiction, a new non-profit that focusses on addiction. He is also an advisor of Drugs over Dinner.
Dr. Maté has received the Hubert Evans Prize for Literary Non-Fiction; an Honorary Degree (Law) from the University of Northern British Columbia; an Outstanding Alumnus Award from Simon Fraser University; and the 2012 Martin Luther King Humanitarian Award from Mothers Against Teen Violence. He is an adjunct professor in the Faculty of Criminology, Simon Fraser University.

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In This Interview, Gabor Mate´ and I Discuss:

The One You Feed parable
The degree of choice we have in life
What is the Realm of the Hungry Ghosts?
What is addiction?
The characteristics of addiction
Recognizing what addicts get out of their addiction
The fundamental question is not "Why the Addiction" but "Why the Pain"
How all addiction comes out of some hurt or trauma
The different types of trauma
The role of neurotransmitters in addiction
How drugs and alcohol destroy the parts of the brain that allow us to make sound decisions
Whether or not genetics play a significant role in addiction
Whether our culture breeds addiction
How our children get most of their leadership from other children
How the breakup of family, community and clan is contributing to addiction
The critical role of the culture in our the development of our brains
Recognizing our inherent value
To what degree we have freedom over our choices
Without consciousness, there is no freedom
Paths to recovery
How compassion can help with recovery
Developing compassionate curiosity towards ourselves

 

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Dr. Gabor Mate´

In this episode, Brian Klaas explains the concept of whether things are a fluke or fate, and explores how embracing uncertainty can lead to a living a fuller life. Brian makes the case that randomness and chaos might be exactly what makes our lives matter so much, and how we tend to worship at the “Altar of Progress in the Church of Control.” We make plans, set goals, and these are good things, but we only have so much control. And Brian teaches that accepting this can be a relief, because the point isn’t to control everything, but to influence what we can.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • The concept of happiness derived from intrinsic values rather than material possessions and social status.
 • The importance of thoughts and actions in shaping our lives and experiences.
 • Exploration of chaos theory and the unpredictability of life.
 • The idea that we control nothing but influence everything, emphasizing the ripple effects of our actions.
 • Personal stories illustrating how random events can profoundly impact lives.
 • The empowering nature of recognizing the influence of our choices.
 • The tension between control and acceptance of life’s randomness.
 • The critique of societal values that prioritize material success over personal fulfillment and relationships.
 • Encouragement to embrace individual uniqueness and create for personal expression rather than external validation.
 
If you enjoyed this conversation with Brian Klaas, check out these other episodes:
 
What If You’re Wrong? How Uncertainty Makes Us More Human with William Egginton
 
How to Find Zest in Life with Dr. John Kaag
 
Unsafe Thinking with Jonah Sachs
 
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Fluke or Fate? Embracing Uncertainty to Live a Fuller Life with Brian Klaas

Ryan Holiday is one of the world’s foremost thinkers and writers on ancient philosophy and its place in everyday life. He’s a sought-after speaker, strategist, and the author of many best-selling books.

In this episode, Eric and Ryan discuss his book, Courage is Calling: Fortune Favors the Brave

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In This Interview, Eric and Ryan Holiday Discuss Everyday Courage and …

 • His book, 
Courage is Calling: Fortune Favors the Brave • 

 • The 4 cardinal virtues that a good life depends on

 • Courage, both physical and moral, is the willingness to put yourself at risk

 • How fear gets in the way of courage

 • Learning to get specific with our fears

 • Courage is also about sharing our vulnerabilities with others

 • The importance of just getting started

 • How courage requires making decisions

 • Determining and gaining clarity on our personal values

 • Stoicism and how it encompasses the core virtues

 • Similarities and differences between Buddhism and Stoicism

 • Heroism goes beyond courage, doing something for the greater good or greater than oneself

 • How it requires courage to have belief and hope that things can change for the better

 • His courage to open a bookstore in the midst of the pandemic

Ryan Holiday Links:

Ryan’s Website

Twitter

Instagram

Facebook

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If you enjoyed this conversation with Ryan Holiday, you might also enjoy these other episodes:

How to be Fearless with Jessica Hagy

Conscious Leadership with Eric Kaufmann

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Ryan Holiday on Everyday Courage

Richard Schwartz began his career as a systemic family therapist and an academic and has developed Internal Family Systems (IFS) in response to clients’ descriptions of various parts within themselves. He focused on the relationships among these parts and noticed that there were systemic patterns to the way they were organized across clients. Dr. Schwartz found that when the clients’ parts felt safe and were allowed to relax, they would spontaneously experience the qualities of confidence, openness, and compassion that he came to call the Self. He also found that when in that state of Self, clients would know how to heal their parts. Richard is a featured speaker for national professional organizations and has published many books and over fifty articles about IFS.
 
In this episode, Eric and Richard discuss his book, No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model
 
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Richard Schwartz and I Discuss Internal Family Systems and…
 
 • His book, 
No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model • 
 • Defining Internal Family Systems (IFS)
 • Understanding that we all have multiple “parts” within us
 • The parallels of family therapy work to internal family systems
 • Identifying the “Self” among our different parts
 • IFS work is trying to understand what burdens each of our parts is carrying
 • How the Self can take an active leadership role over our parts
 • The roles that our parts take on: exiles, managers, firefighters 
 • How our parts can transform into powerful allies to bring healing
 • Four goals of IFS: Transforming, Restoring Trust, Bringing Harmony, Becoming more Self
 • The 8 C’s – Creativity, Compassion, Confidence, Clarity, Connectedness, Curiosity, Calm, Courageous
 • Trailheads refers to thought patterns or impulses that lead to the part from where it’s emanating
 • How IFS is a type of spiritual practice in learning to access more of your Self
 • The problems with positive thinking in working with your parts
 
Richard Schwartz links:
 
Richard’s Website (IFS Institute)
 
Twitter
 
Instagram
 
Facebook
 
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If you enjoyed this conversation with Richard Schwartz, check out these other episodes:
 
The Energy of Emotions with Ralph De La Rosa (2021)
 
The Mind as Your Teacher with Ralph De La Rosa (2018)
 
Understanding Emotions with Susan David

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Richard Schwartz on Internal Family Systems

Dr. Gabor Maté is a highly sought expert on a wide range of topics such as addiction, stress, and childhood development. He has written many books, of which several are best-sellers, including the award-winning “In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts” , “Close Encounters with Addiction”, and “When the Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease Culture.” Gabor’s work has been published internationally and in more than 30 languages.
 
In this episode, Eric and Dr. Maté discuss his book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture
 
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Dr. Gabor Mate and I Discuss How to …
 
 • His book, 
The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture • 
 • Defining the myths of normal
 • How the increasing anxiety, depression, and other mental health issues are a result of toxic culture
 • Stress and trauma can begin for a child in utero, at childbirth, and throughout childhood
 • The modern stresses of our world contributes to a toxic culture
 • How parents pass down their traumas to their children
 • Defining trauma as a psychic wound that happens inside of you
 • The healing process is the recovery of self
 • Understanding the clash between attachment and authenticity
 • How emotions and immune systems are part of the same system
 • The importance of understanding the important link between emotions and physical health
 • Trauma imposed self beliefs are the main obstacles of healing
 • Remembering that healing is a lifelong process
 • The 4 A’s of healing: authenticity, agency, acceptance, and anger (healthy) 
 
Dr. Gabor Mate Links:
 
Dr. Gabor Mate’s website
 
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Instagram
 
Facebook
 
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If you enjoyed this conversation with Dr, Gabor Maté, check out these other episodes:
 
Dr. Gabor Mate’s Interview from 2016
 
Healing Trauma with Dr. James Gordon

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How to Find Healing From Trauma with Dr. Gabor Mate

In this episode, Anders Hansen explains the purpose of emotions and how we’re not wired for happiness. Anders discusses the evolutionary nature of our minds and how our ancestor’s survival instincts have shaped our modern-day experiences of anxiety and happiness.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • Understand how human emotions have evolved to serve a purpose in our lives
 • Discover the powerful impact of exercise on your mental well-being
 • Learn effective strategies to overcome feelings of loneliness and connect with others
 • Explore the role of inflammation in depression and its potential influence on mental health
 • Recognize the importance of nurturing relationships for your overall happiness and well-being
 
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The Purpose of Emotions and Why We're Not Wired for Happiness with Anders Hansen

In this episode, La Sarmiento explores what it means to embrace imperfection to discover the path to true self-acceptance. La shares their journey of discovering and embracing identity, belonging, and the challenges of living authentically in a world that often demands conformity.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • Learning to feed our “good wolf” through conscious effort and daily choices
 • Balancing the absolute truth of oneness with the relative truth of societal inequalities
 • The role of identity in spiritual practice and the complexities of the “no-self” teaching
 • Creating inclusive spaces in spiritual communities and the challenges of true integration
 • The transformative power of unconditional love through relationships, including animals
 
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Embracing Imperfection: The Path to True Self Acceptance with La Sarmiento

In this episode, Daniel Levitin explores the concept of music as medicine and how rhythm and melody can transform wellness. Delving into the origins of music therapy, he uncovers its historical significance in ancient healing practices and its gradual resurgence in modern times. Daniel illustrates the connection between music and the human brain, emphasizing its ability to evoke deep emotional responses and aid in treating various neurological and psychological conditions.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • Discover the transformative power of music for emotional expression and stress relief
 • Explore the therapeutic potential of music for improving movement and coordination in individuals with movement disorders
 • Uncover the profound impact of music in bringing comfort and joy to individuals living with dementia
 • Learn how music can serve as a powerful tool for reducing and managing chronic pain
 • Delve into the role of music in enhancing memory retention and cognitive function
 
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Music as Medicine: How Rhythm and Melody Transform Wellness with Daniel Levitin

In this episode, Kimmy Culp explores how we can transform our inner dialogue to heal and connect. The discussion includes the complexities of mental health, personal identity, and the power of self-talk. Kimi also shares her journey with bipolar disorder as she emphasizes the importance of community, shared experiences, and the healing power of recognizing one’s struggles.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • Exploration of mental health and personal identity
 • The impact of self-talk on well-being
 • The importance of community and shared experiences in healing
 • The complexities of labels and identity in relation to mental health
 • The concept of comparative suffering and its implications
 • The role of gratitude in mental health and healing
 • The significance of authenticity and vulnerability in relationships
 
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How We Can Transform Our Inner Dialogue to Heal and Connect with Kimi Culp

In this episode, Chris Bailey discusses how to break free from the “more” trap and find balance in a busy life. He explores the concept of ‘stimulation heights,’ the challenges of constant digital stimulation, and practical strategies for creating meaningful, intentional experiences. Chris also shares how learning to cultivate presence can lead to greater calm, focus, and fulfillment in your modern lifestyle.
 
Key Takeaways:
 
 • The misconceptions about calm and its crucial role in productivity
 • How our pursuit of “more” impacts our ability to be present
 • The concept of “super stimuli” and their effect on our brain chemistry
 • Practical strategies for creating boundaries and finding balance
 • The power of savoring and its impact on our overall well-being
 
Connect with Chris Bailey: Website | Instagram
 
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How to Break Free from the 'More' Trap and Find Balance in a Busy Life with Chris Bailey

In this episode with Nedra Glover Tawwab, you'll learn:
 
 • Why it’s important to connect who you are and who you were in relation to your family
 • How we can learn to recognize unhealthy relationships in our family dynamics
 • How shame limits our ability to be honest with ourselves and others
 • Why we need to unlearn certain ideas of what love means
 • How to manage a relationship with someone who won’t change
 • The difference between changing behavior and changing personality
 • How can we move away from unhealthy patterns and learn to love ourselves
 
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How to Manage Family Relationships with Nedra Glover Tawwab

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