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Eric Zimmer

Transformative ideas from the best thinkers on the planet including guests like James Clear, Susan Cain, Michael Pollan, Deepak Chopra, Nicole LaPera, Yung Pueblo, Gabor Mate, Maggie Smith, David Whyte, Macklemore, George Saunders, Anne Lamott, Frank Turner, Mark Manson, Tara Brach, AJ Jacobs, Oliver Burkeman, Ryan Holiday, Parker Palmer. It’s not about perfection; it’s about direction.

The One You Feed

In this episode, Amanda Montell explores the age of magical overthinking and why our minds keep doubling down. She discusses how cognitive biases and irrational thinking shape our perceptions and behaviors in the information age. Amanda also explains shine theory, zero-sum and sunk cost biases, and the allure of manifestation and conspiracy thinking. Through personal stories and humor, Amanda and Eric discuss how understanding these mental patterns can help us navigate modern life more consciously and compassionately.

Exciting News!!!Coming in March 2026, my new book, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠How a Little Becomes a Lot: The Art of Small Changes for a More Meaningful Life is now available for pre-orders!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Key Takeaways

 Exploration of cognitive biases and their impact on modern thinking.

 Discussion of irrational thinking in the information age.

 Examination of the parable of the two wolves and its implications for personal behavior.

 Analysis of the shine theory and its relevance to social dynamics, particularly among women.

 Insights into the sunk cost fallacy and its effects on decision-making in relationships.

 Critique of manifestation beliefs and their parallels to conspiracy thinking.

 The role of storytelling in human cognition and its influence on self-perception.

 The relationship between overconfidence bias and self-assessment.

 Challenges of navigating modern life with evolved cognitive shortcuts.

 The impact of social media on decision-making and personal narratives.

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If you enjoyed this conversation with Amanda Montell, check out these other episodes:

Why You Can’t Think Your Way Out of Overthinking with Adam Mastroianni

The Purpose of Emotions and Why We’re Not Wired for Happiness with Anders Hansen

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The Age of Magical Overthinking: Why Our Minds Keep Doubling Down with Amanda Montell

In this episode, Gretchen Rubin shares how to go from chaos to calm and why your environment shapes your habits and happiness. She explores how organizing and decluttering physical spaces can boost mental clarity and emotional well-being. Gretchen also shares practical strategies for habit change, discusses individual differences in preferences for order, and explains how small environmental tweaks can make positive behaviors easier. The conversation also covers managing possessions, letting go of outdated identities, and making intentional life choices.

Exciting News!!!Coming in March 2026, my new book, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠How a Little Becomes a Lot: The Art of Small Changes for a More Meaningful Life is now available for pre-orders!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Key Takeaways

 The relationship between outer order (organization and decluttering) and inner calm (mental and emotional well-being).

 The impact of small environmental changes on habits, mood, and productivity.

 The concept of “feeding the good wolf” from the parable of two wolves, emphasizing intentional living.

 The significance of setting intentions or themes for the new year, such as choosing a “word of the year.”

 The role of “ignition costs” in habit formation and how reducing friction can facilitate positive behaviors.

 The varying responses individuals have to clutter and organization, including “clutter blind” individuals and “abundance lovers.”

 The importance of monitoring habits and recognizing progress to encourage continued growth.

 Strategies for managing possessions and making decisions about what to keep or discard.

 The psychological challenges of letting go of items tied to past identities or aspirations.

 The concept of “choosing the bigger life” as a decision-making framework to guide intentional choices.

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If you enjoyed this conversation with Gretchen Rubin, check out these other episodes:

Living Skillfully with Gretchen Rubin (2020)

Designing a Life That Supports You: Presence, Beauty, and the Power of Environment with Nate Berkus

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From Chaos to Calm: Why Your Environment Shapes Your Habits and Happiness with Gretchen Rubin

In this episode, Jay Vidyarthi discusses how to reclaim your mind and build a healthier relationship with technology. He explores common pitfalls—like avoidance, anxiety, and judgment—and shares practical strategies for using digital tools consciously. Jay emphasizes personal agency, setting boundaries, and the value of both online and offline connections. This conversation challenges the idea that technology is inherently good or bad, instead encouraging listeners to cultivate awareness, compassion, and intentional habits to foster well-being and authentic relationships in a tech-driven world.

Exciting News!!!Coming in March 2026, my new book, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠How a Little Becomes a Lot: The Art of Small Changes for a More Meaningful Life is now available for pre-orders!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Key Takeaways

 The relationship between technology and mindfulness.

 The tension between the desire for genuine connection and the allure of digital devices.

 The concept of technology as neither inherently good nor bad, but shaped by our relationship with it.

 Strategies for engaging with technology mindfully, as discussed in Jay Viviani's book.

 The "two wolves" parable and its implications for attention and emotional awareness.

 The importance of clarity and awareness in managing emotions related to technology use.

 The role of meditation and mindfulness practices in cultivating a healthier relationship with technology.

 The impact of societal narratives on perceptions of technology and its users.

 The significance of personal agency in setting boundaries and making conscious choices regarding technology.

 The potential for technology to meet emotional and social needs when approached mindfully.

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If you enjoyed this conversation with Jay Vidyarthi, please check out these other episodes:

The Hidden Costs of Technology and Our Search for Selfhood with Vauhini Vara

Distracted or Empowered? Rethinking Our Relationship with Technology with Pete Etchells

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Reclaim Your Mind: How to Build a Healthier Relationship with Technology with Jay Vidyarthi

If you’re feeling overwhelmed and don’t have the luxury of doing less, Overwhelm Is Optional offers simple tools you can use in under ten minutes a day. Learn more at⁠⁠⁠ oneyoufeed.net/overwhelm⁠⁠⁠

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In this second part of the 2-part episode with James Clear, we explore practical, research-backed strategies for habit formation, including making habits obvious, attractive, easy, and satisfying. Through personal stories and examples, they discuss how environment, social groups, and small behavioral tweaks can help build good habits and break bad ones. The episode emphasizes starting small, celebrating progress, and designing supportive surroundings, offering listeners actionable advice for lasting behavior change.

Exciting News!!!Coming in March 2026, my new book, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠How a Little Becomes a Lot: The Art of Small Changes for a More Meaningful Life is now available for pre-orders!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Key Takeaways

 Practical strategies for habit formation and behavior change

 The role of environment in shaping habits

 Techniques for making habits obvious and accessible

 The concept of habit stacking (anchoring new habits to existing ones)

 The importance of social groups and community in habit adoption

 The impact of technology on finding supportive communities for habit change

 The significance of reducing friction for positive habits and increasing friction for negative ones

 The “two-minute rule” for simplifying habit initiation

 The emotional payoff and satisfaction associated with habits

 The importance of tracking progress and celebrating small victories in habit formation

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⁠⁠Tiny Habits for Behavior Change with BJ Fogg⁠⁠

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Unlocking the Power of Identity: How Small Changes Lead to Big Transformations in Your Life with James Clear (Part 2)

If you’re feeling overwhelmed and don’t have the luxury of doing less, Overwhelm Is Optional offers simple tools you can use in under ten minutes a day. Learn more at⁠⁠ oneyoufeed.net/overwhelm⁠⁠

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In this part 1 of a 2-part episode, James Clear, discusses how to unlock the power of identity and how small changes can lead to big transformation in your life. They explore the compounding power of habits, the importance of focusing on systems over goals, and how identity shapes behavior. James explains practical strategies for building good habits and breaking bad ones, emphasizing patience, persistence, and the role of self-perception in lasting change. The conversation offers actionable insights for anyone seeking to improve their habits and overall well-being.

Exciting News!!!Coming in March 2026, my new book, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠How a Little Becomes a Lot: The Art of Small Changes for a More Meaningful Life is now available for pre-orders!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Key Takeaways

 The compounding effect of habits over time and their significance in personal growth.

 The metaphor of the "two wolves" illustrating the choice between positive and negative habits.

 The importance of patience and persistence due to the hidden lag time in habit formation.

 The distinction between focusing on systems versus goals for achieving lasting change.

 The concept of the "goal trap" and how it can hinder happiness and satisfaction.

 The role of identity in behavior change and how self-perception influences habits.

 The mechanics of habit formation, including the stages of cue, craving, response, and reward.

 The impact of environmental cues on habit formation and the challenges of changing habits.

 The four laws of behavior change as a framework for building good habits and breaking bad ones.

 The relationship between happiness, desire, and practicing contentment in the pursuit of growth.

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Unlocking the Power of Identity: How Small Changes Lead to Big Transformations in Your Life (Part 1) with James Clear

If you’re feeling overwhelmed and don’t have the luxury of doing less, Overwhelm Is Optional offers simple tools you can use in under ten minutes a day. Learn more at⁠ oneyoufeed.net/overwhelm⁠

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In this episode, Katy Milkman explains why you keep falling off track and shares tools that will help you start again. She shares why lasting behavior change is so difficult—and what science reveals about how people actually change. Katy also delves into impulsivity, motivation, confidence, habit formation, and why willpower alone so often fails. Katy shares research-backed tools like temptation bundling, commitment devices, and fresh starts. Listeners will walk away with a clearer understanding of why they get stuck, practical strategies to move forward, and permission to stop striving for perfection and start building change that can survive real life. If you’ve ever felt frustrated by starting over—or wondered why good intentions aren’t enough—this conversation offers both clarity and compassion.

Exciting News!!!Coming in March 2026, my new book, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠How a Little Becomes a Lot: The Art of Small Changes for a More Meaningful Life is now available for pre-orders!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Key Takeaways

 vior change through a diagnostic, personalized approach

 The role of impulsivity (present bias) in undermining long-term goals

 Understanding internal barriers to change instead of relying on willpower

 Making goal-aligned behaviors more enjoyable to increase persistence

 Temptation bundling as a strategy for aligning short-term rewards with long-term outcomes

 The importance of confidence and self-efficacy in sustaining change

 Using advice-giving and mentoring to strengthen belief in one’s ability to change

 Commitment devices as tools for overcoming procrastination and self-control challenges

 Flexible habit formation versus rigid routines for long-term consistency

 Embracing fresh starts and setbacks as part of the change process

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How to Stay Motivated with Ayelet Fishbach

Tiny Habits for Behavior Change with BJ Fogg

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Why You Keep Falling Off Track—and the Tools That Help You Start Again with Katy Milkman

If you’re feeling overwhelmed and don’t have the luxury of doing less, Overwhelm Is Optional offers simple tools you can use in under ten minutes a day. Learn more at oneyoufeed.net/overwhelm

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In this episode, Dr. BJ Fogg, explains why willpower isn’t enough and the science behind his tiny habits method. He explores the psychology of habit formation, emphasizing that lasting change comes from starting small, celebrating successes, and practicing self-compassion rather than relying on willpower or self-criticism. Dr. Fogg shares practical strategies for designing habits that fit individual contexts, explains his behavior model, and discusses how positive reinforcement and flexibility foster sustainable transformation. Personal stories and vivid analogies illustrate how anyone can create meaningful change by nurturing tiny habits and focusing on progress over perfection.

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Key Takeaways

 Behavior change and habit formation

 The “Tiny Habits” method and its principles

 The importance of positivity in personal transformation

 Breaking down aspirations into small, manageable actions

 Embracing mistakes as learning opportunities

 The role of self-compassion in habit formation

 The Fogg Behavior Model: motivation, ability, and prompts

 The significance of context in habit design

 Strategies for troubleshooting and enhancing behavior change

 The impact of celebrating small successes on habit reinforcement

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Why Willpower Isn’t Enough: The Tiny Habits Method Explained with Dr. BJ Fogg

In this episode, Dr. Jud Brewer explains why anxiety is a habit and how curiosity breaks that habit loop. He explores the difference between the feeling of anxiety and the mental habit of worry, and why curiosity and self-compassion are essential for real change. Drawing from his clinical work and research on digital therapeutics and AI-supported therapy, Dr. Brewer shows how learning from setbacks—and building distress tolerance—helps us recognize progress, unwind shame, and create lasting transformation.

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Key Takeaways

 Exploration of mental health and the role of habits in anxiety management.

 Discussion of the parable of the two wolves and its relation to neuroscience and habit reinforcement.

 Examination of the science of habit formation and the limitations of traditional habit replacement strategies.

 Insights into digital therapeutics and the development of app-based mental health treatments.

 Analysis of the potential and challenges of AI in therapy, including ethical considerations.

 The importance of human connection in therapy and the unique value of human therapists.

 The role of curiosity in managing anxiety and the distinction between anxiety as a feeling and worrying as a behavior.

 The impact of self-criticism and shame on behavior change and the importance of self-compassion.

 Techniques for cultivating distress tolerance and the gradual process of emotional growth.

 Mindfulness practices, such as noting, to enhance awareness and reduce reactivity in challenging situations.

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How to Manage Your Hunger Habit with Dr. Jud Brewer

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Why Anxiety is a Habit - and How Curiosity Helps Break the Loop with Dr. Jud Brewer

Here’s a preview of a new show from our friends at Pushkin Industries and the Atira Health and Research Institute. On Decoding Women’s Health, Dr. Elizabeth Poynor makes the science of women’s health accessible—from hormones to metabolism to longevity—so you can thrive at any stage of life. A world-renowned gynecologic oncologist and advanced pelvic surgeon, Dr. Poynor speaks with leading physicians, researchers, and educators to share the latest science on women’s wellness, disease prevention, and what it really means to age on your own terms.

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Listen Now: Decoding Women’s Health with Dr. Elizabeth Poynor

In this episode, Nate Berkus explores what it really means to design a life that supports you—not through perfection, but through presence, beauty, and the power of environment. Drawing from decades of work and his own personal journey, Nate reflects on how our surroundings quietly shape our habits, emotions, and sense of self. He shares how moving through profound loss changed the way he understands home, meaning, and the moments that matter most. Through deeply human stories—including a transformative Oprah makeover—Nate reveals how small, intentional changes and genuine listening can create spaces that support healing, authenticity, and connection.

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Key Takeaways

 The influence of environment and design on personal growth and habits.

 The parable of the two wolves and its relevance to personal choices and mindset.

 The significance of “the moments in between” in fostering genuine connections.

 The impact of parenting on awareness and presence in daily life.

 The importance of meaningful design that reflects personal stories and aspirations.

 The relationship between emotional well-being and physical spaces.

 The transformative power of small, intentional changes in one’s environment.

 The role of gratitude in overcoming past hardships and shaping identity.

 The necessity of human connection and understanding in design and life.

 The balance between personal taste and collaboration in shared living spaces.

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Designing a Life That Supports You: Presence, Beauty, and the Power of Environment with Nate Berkus

Please Support The Show With a Donation This week we talk to Colin Gawel Colin Gawel is the guitarist of the American rock band, Watershed. Colin also has a solo career both with and without his backing band - Colin Gawel and the Lonely Bones. The album Superior - The Best of Colin Gawel was released in Dec 2016. Colin also lead writer, editor, and founder of the website Pencilstorm and the owner of the legendary Colin's Coffee in Columbus, Ohio. This conversation was recorded live in Colin's kitchen and is focused on fatherhood in honor of Father's Day this weekend. In This Interview, Colin Gawel and I Discuss... Father's Day His song, Dad Can't Help You Now The challenge of watching your child live life beyond your protection What it feels like as a parent for your child to leave home Talking to your children about addiction in their family history Being on the little league baseball team together as kids How important it is to come back from adversity Doing things for the love of doing them rather than for the anticipated outcome His time in the band, Watershed Keeping things in balance in life That time is precious How we find resilience in life The importance of the people you surround yourself with How he writes about what it's like to be an adult in his music His song, The Words We Say How different people react and interpret his songs differently How unusual it is that as a musician, he prefers to perform sober rather than high on something That he's conscious of how his son sees him consuming alcohol Our mutual love of music His song, Try a Little Faith Please Support The Show with a DonationSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Colin Gawel: Fatherhood and Resilience

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