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Larry Hagner

The Dad Edge Podcast is a movement. It is a strong community of Fathers who all share a set of values.

Larry Hagner, founder of The Dad Edge, breaks down common challenges of fatherhood, making them easy to understand and overcome.  Tackling the world of Fatherhood can be a daunting task when we try to do it alone.

The mission of The Dad Edge Podcast is to help you become the best, strongest, and happiest version of yourself so that you can help guide your kids to the best version of themselves. Simple as that.  

Everything you need and all of our resources can be found at thedadedge.com/podcast

The Dad Edge Podcast

In this Q&A episode, Uncle Joe and I dive into one of the most common—and misunderstood—struggles in marriage: emotional connection. We respond to a powerful question from Alex, a husband who genuinely wants to show up better for his wife but feels stuck, unsure how to respond to her emotions, and frustrated that his efforts don't seem to land.
 
 
 
This conversation breaks down why men default to "fix-it mode," why that instinct actually creates disconnection, and how emotional safety—not solutions—is what most women are truly seeking. We unpack practical, real-world skills for listening, validating, and reconnecting with your wife, especially after years of habit and complacency. If your wife has ever said, "I don't feel connected to you," this episode will give you clarity, direction, and a better way forward.
 
 
 
 
 Timeline Summary 
[0:00] Introduction
 
[1:02] Opening conversation about Valentine's Day and intentional connection
 
[2:55] Alex's question about building emotional connection with his wife
 
[4:10] Hearing hard feedback: "I don't feel connected or loved"
 
[5:14] How long-term habits quietly shape marriage dynamics
 
[6:03] Why men feel uncomfortable with big emotions
 
[7:12] The difference between fixing problems and creating connection
 
[8:10] Why women share emotions—to feel seen, not saved
 
[9:00] Transactional conversations vs. emotional safety
 
[10:14] Joe explains why feedback is actually a gift
 
[10:59] Pebbles vs. boulders and minimizing your wife's feelings
 
[11:56] Why "it's not a big deal" damages trust
 
[12:17] Understanding how your wife feels loved
 
[13:19] Acts of service and practical ways to reduce her stress
 
[14:11] Real-life example of how small actions rebuild connection
 
[15:19] Curiosity as the foundation of emotional intimacy
 
[16:46] Leading with humility and listening through awkward silence
 
[17:31] Treating your wife like you did when you first dated
 
[19:02] Complacency as the silent killer of attraction
 
[20:13] Why long-term relationships require intentional effort
 
[21:09] Being challenged as an act of love
 
[22:11] Brotherhood, faith, and the mission of the Dad Edge Alliance
 
[23:08] Invitation to the Dad Edge Alliance preview call
 
[23:47] Closing encouragement and next steps
 
 
 
 
 Five Key Takeaways Emotional connection is built through presence, not problem-solving. Fixing minimizes feelings—listening creates safety. What feels small to you may feel huge to your wife. Curiosity and humility rebuild intimacy faster than tactics. Treating your wife like you did in the beginning keeps the relationship alive. 
 
 
 
 Links & Resources Dad Edge Alliance Preview Call (RSVP): • 
http://thedadedge.com/preview Dad Edge Alliance (Marriage, Parenting, Health, Leadership): • 
https://thedadedge.com/alliance Episode Show Notes & Resources: • 
https://thedadedge.com/1438 
 
 
 
 Closing Remark 
If this episode gave you language or perspective you didn't have before, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Emotional connection isn't about being perfect—it's about being present, curious, and consistent. From my heart to yours, go out and live legendary.

Fixing Your Wife's Problems Is Hurting Your Marriage (What to Do Instead)

Some men are shaped by comfort. Others are forged in chaos. In this episode, I sit down with Kelly Siegel, founder of the Harder Than Life movement, to unpack what it actually takes to break generational cycles, rebuild trust with yourself, and lead your family with discipline and integrity—no matter where you came from.
 
 
 
Kelly shares his raw story of growing up in extreme abuse, addiction, and instability, and how sobriety, radical self-discipline, and daily non-negotiable routines completely transformed his life. We talk about nervous system healing, trusting yourself again, enforcing boundaries instead of talking about them, and what it looks like to be the father you never had. This conversation is intense, honest, and deeply hopeful for any man who refuses to let his past dictate his future.
 
 
 
 
 Timeline Summary 
[0:00] Why excuses keep men stuck and how discipline breaks the cycle
 
[1:39] Introducing Kelly Siegel and the Harder Than Life movement
 
[2:22] Growing up in extreme chaos, abuse, and addiction
 
[2:50] Turning trauma into fuel instead of identity
 
[5:21] Seven years of sobriety and the decision that changed everything
 
[7:31] Handling judgment, criticism, and online hate without losing integrity
 
[8:55] Keeping your word to yourself when no one is watching
 
[10:10] Childhood abuse and how it dysregulates the nervous system
 
[12:03] Why sobriety unlocked clarity, discipline, and purpose
 
[14:48] Cutting off toxic family relationships to protect healing
 
[18:52] Forgiveness as freedom—not reconciliation
 
[19:48] EMDR, hypnotherapy, and deep therapeutic work
 
[22:03] Kelly's exact daily routine and why structure creates safety
 
[24:26] Learning to love yourself when you never experienced it growing up
 
[26:04] Cooking breakfast daily and building connection with his daughter
 
[27:53] Asking better questions to deepen parent-child connection
 
[29:38] Trusting yourself as the foundation of confidence
 
[33:04] Boundaries vs. standards—and the power of enforcement
 
[35:36] Why hard challenges build unshakeable self-trust
 
[40:33] Breaking generational cycles and raising a confident daughter
 
[45:44] Finding the gifts inside even the most painful childhoods
 
[50:31] Why you don't owe access to people who hurt you
 
[54:03] Strong fathers as the solution to cultural chaos
 
[57:29] Healing yourself to heal the world
 
 
 
 
 Five Key Takeaways Discipline creates freedom 1. , especially for men who grew up in chaos.
 Trust is built by keeping promises to yourself, not by motivation or hype. Boundaries only work when they're enforced, not just talked about. Healing your nervous system changes how you lead, parent, and love. You can break generational cycles 2. , even if no one modeled it for you.
 
 
 
 
 Links & Resources Kelly Siegel on Instagram: • 
https://www.instagram.com/kelly.siegel.71/ Kelly Siegel on Facebook: • 
https://www.facebook.com/officialkellysiegel Kelly Siegel on LinkedIn: • 
https://www.linkedin.com/in/kelly-siegel-0146a3/ Harder Than Life Podcast: https://www.harderthanlife.com/podcasts/ Episode Show Notes & Resources: • 
https://thedadedge.com/1437 
 
 
 
 Closing Remark 
 
 
If this episode challenged you to stop making excuses and start keeping promises to yourself, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Your past does not define you—but your daily discipline will. From my heart to yours, go out and live legendary.

Discipline Is the Path to Healing and Strength in Fatherhood featuring Kelly Siegel

Most men and women enter marriage wildly untrained—and then wonder why connection, intimacy, and trust slowly erode over time. In this powerful and deeply thought-provoking conversation, I sit down with January Donovan, founder of the Woman School and Wholeness Coaching School, to explore why information alone will never change a marriage—and why training is the missing ingredient for lasting connection.
 
 
 
January shares her personal story of trauma, mentorship, and formation, and explains how emotional command, discipline, tonality, and boundaries shape the way men and women show up in relationships. We talk about why modern culture resists discipline, how "freedom" without formation leads to loneliness, and why both men and women must train intentionally if they want marriages that actually get better over time. This episode will challenge the way you think about growth, leadership, and what it really means to live fully alive.
 
 
 
 
 Timeline Summary 
[0:00] Why most people feel unprepared for marriage and parenting
 
[2:06] Introducing January Donovan and her work training women globally
 
[3:02] Why information alone never leads to real change
 
[4:10] January's origin story and the wounds that led her to this work
 
[6:12] The power of mentorship and intentional formation
 
[8:33] Growing up with deep insecurity and identity wounds
 
[10:17] Unprocessed trauma, abortion, and living in quiet desperation
 
[11:52] How disciplined training reshaped January's life
 
[13:18] Why women resist the word "discipline"
 
[14:50] Formation vs. freedom and the danger of untrained choice
 
[16:07] Emotional command and generational anxiety
 
[17:37] Why marriage requires the same training as any profession
 
[19:35] Decision-making, tonality, and communication gaps
 
[21:12] Why motherhood feels overwhelming without training
 
[22:02] Studying your spouse as a form of love
 
[23:12] Larry reflects on minimal marriage prep vs. decades of marriage
 
[25:10] Why people resist investing in growth
 
[27:06] Distraction, shallow desires, and information overload
 
[28:35] Re-educating sexuality and restoring healthy masculinity and femininity
 
[32:30] Dad Edge Alliance preview call invitation
 
[36:14] Why training together is the future for men and women
 
[40:18] Micro-skills that shape daily life and marriage
 
[43:07] Tonality and how women can build or break men emotionally
 
[47:02] Proactivity, masculinity, and relational safety
 
[49:25] Gossip, integrity, and protecting your spouse's reputation
 
[53:20] Excellence, interior freedom, and choosing your highest good
 
[59:02] Casting a long-term vision for marriage and legacy
 
 
 
 
 Five Key Takeaways Marriage doesn't fail because people don't care—it fails because they were never trained. Information without formation leads to frustration, not transformation. Discipline and emotional command create freedom, not restriction. Tonality, presence, and self-regulation shape attraction and safety in marriage. Men and women must train together if they want relationships that thrive long-term. 
 
 
 
 Links & Resources Dad Edge Alliance Preview Call: • 
https://thedadedge.com/preview January Donovan Website: • 
https://januarydonovan.com Instagram: • 
https://www.instagram.com/january.donovan_/ YouTube: • 
https://www.youtube.com/@JanuaryDonovan Episode Show Notes & Resources: • 
https://thedadedge.com/1436 
 
 
 
 Closing Remark 
If this episode challenged how you think about marriage, growth, or leadership, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Beautiful lives don't happen by accident—they're trained for. From my heart to yours, go out and live legendary.

The Missing Training That Builds Strong Marriages and Families featuring January Donovan

In this live Q&A episode, Uncle Joe and I tackle some of the heaviest—and most common—situations men face inside marriage: supporting a wife through serious mental health challenges, staying grounded when divorce is still on the table, and learning how to lead with consistency instead of panic.
 
 
 
We respond to real questions from men inside the Dad Edge Alliance who are walking through postpartum depression, PMDD, emotional volatility, and marital uncertainty. This conversation is about becoming an advocate instead of a victim, choosing consistency over crisis-mode behavior, and learning how to lead yourself well—regardless of whether your marriage outcome is guaranteed. If you're in a season where hope feels thin and the work feels exhausting, this episode will remind you what leadership actually looks like when things are hard.
 
 
 
 
 Timeline Summary 
[000] Opening reflections on fatherhood, sleepless nights, and perspective
 
[3:18] Setting expectations for live Q&A and imperfect conversations
 
[4:41] Corey's question: supporting a wife with postpartum depression and PMDD
 
[6:19] Understanding PMDD as a hormonal sensitivity disorder
 
[8:33] Why mood shifts are not character flaws or choices
 
[9:58] Becoming an advocate instead of minimizing mental health struggles
 
[11:05] Practical leadership: nutrition, structure, and reducing stress
 
[12:25] Why a man's emotional and spiritual health matters most in crisis
 
[13:10] Research on spiritual disciplines and emotional regulation
 
[14:11] Becoming a "merchant of hope" in your household
 
[15:00] Why men must take care of their inner world first
 
[16:02] Corey shares his early experience inside the Dad Edge Alliance
 
[17:02] Playing the long game and resisting discouragement
 
[18:07] Using brotherhood instead of isolation
 
[18:48] Announcement: Dad Edge Alliance preview call
 
[20:15] Where to find episode resources and symptom notes
 
[21:05] Second question: staying consistent while divorce is still mentioned
 
[24:56] Identifying behaviors that contributed to marital breakdown
 
[26:04] Why wives wait to see if change is real
 
[27:16] Consistency as a non-negotiable value
 
[28:46] Doing the work regardless of outcome
 
[31:01] Why self-led change benefits you no matter what
 
[32:24] Showing up as a grounded, playful, present father
 
[33:37] Why it often gets worse before it gets better
 
 
 
 
 Five Key Takeaways Mental health struggles are not character flaws 1. , and leadership starts with education and empathy.
 Consistency builds trust 2. , especially when a spouse is waiting for the "other shoe to drop."
 Men must do the work for themselves first, not as a strategy to save a marriage. Hope is contagious 3. , but only if the man leading the home is grounded and regulated.
 Brotherhood prevents isolation 4. , especially when marriage feels uncertain.
 
 
 Links & Resources Dad Edge Alliance Preview Call (RSVP): • 
https://thedadedge.com/preview Dad Edge Alliance (Marriage, Parenting, Health, Leadership): • 
https://thedadedge.com/alliance All Episode Notes & Symptom Resources (Google Doc): • 
 https://docs.google.com/document/d/1_4GeLtmhvbZg-ZzKvBWQyz5aneCcHCYOYfD-r0uzNnE/edit?usp=sharing Episode Show Notes & Resources: • 
https://thedadedge.com/1435 
 
 
 
 Closing Remark 
If you're walking through a season where leadership feels heavy and outcomes feel uncertain, remember this: your consistency, integrity, and growth still matter. Thank you for being men who show up, ask hard questions, and refuse to drift. From my heart to yours—keep going, and live legendary.

Becoming the Anchor When Your Marriage Is Under Pressure

If you feel inflamed, exhausted, stuck in recovery mode, or like your body just doesn't bounce back the way it used to, this episode is for you. In this conversation, I sit down with Dr. Adam Boender, chiropractor-turned-peptide educator, to unpack how men can reclaim their health, energy, and recovery—without shortcuts or hype.
 
 
 
Dr. Adam shares how peptides actually work at the cellular level, why most men don't have a deficiency problem but a communication problem inside their bodies, and how strategic tools like peptides, nutrition, and movement work best when paired with discipline and intention. We go deep on recovery peptides, fat loss versus weight loss, GLP-1 medications, food quality, inflammation, and why no supplement or peptide replaces doing the hard work. This episode is a masterclass in health, responsibility, and long-term performance for men who want their bodies—and lives—back.
 
 
 Timeline Summary 
[0:00] Why this episode is for men who feel inflamed, tired, and stuck
 
[1:41] How Larry and Dr. Adam connected after a serious knee injury
 
[2:38] Recovering from a ruptured patellar tendon and the urgency to heal
 
[3:03] Dr. Adam's background as a chiropractor turned peptide educator
 
[3:27] Teaching clinicians how to use peptides safely and effectively
 
[4:08] Why peptides are still misunderstood by most men
 
[6:20] From one-on-one practice to helping clinicians impact thousands
 
[8:38] Family illness and the catalyst for Dr. Adam's career shift
 
[10:16] Why "one-to-many" impact matters in healthcare
 
[11:15] How peptides supported Larry's accelerated recovery
 
[12:23] Getting off crutches and braces weeks ahead of schedule
 
[13:33] Why peptides work best when paired with discipline and rehab
 
[16:12] What peptides actually are and how cellular communication works
 
[18:20] Epitalon: the "reset peptide" for sleep, recovery, and longevity
 
[20:37] BPC-157 as the "multivitamin" of peptides
 
[22:10] Gut health, inflammation, and joint recovery explained
 
[24:17] How BPC-157 increases blood flow and healing in joints
 
[26:13] Recovery break and nutrition fundamentals
 
[28:04] Why BPC-157 and TB-500 are often paired together
 
[29:16] TB-500 and stem cell signaling for tissue repair
 
[31:09] Copper peptide for collagen, joints, and longevity
 
[35:09] Injectable vs. oral peptide absorption
 
[36:21] GLP-1 medications explained simply
 
[38:12] Fat loss vs. weight loss and why protein intake matters
 
[41:03] Why muscle preservation is critical during fat loss
 
[43:03] Genetics, obesity, and the myth of "bad genes"
 
[48:36] Peptides as tools—not magic bullets
 
[50:54] Defining true health as the ability to heal
 
[53:05] Why processed food is breaking our bodies
 
[55:07] Eating real food as the foundation of health
 
[57:32] Fueling your body like a high-performance machine
 
 
 
 
 Five Key Takeaways: Peptides improve cellular communication 1. , but they don't replace discipline, movement, or nutrition.
 Inflammation and poor recovery are often communication problems, not deficiencies. Fat loss is not the same as weight loss 2. , and preserving muscle must be the priority.
 Genetics load the gun, but lifestyle pulls the trigger, especially with health outcomes. True health is the body's ability to heal, not just the absence of disease. 
 
 
 
 Links & Resources MicroFactor Pack: • 
https://1stphorm.com/products/micro-factor/?a_aid=dadedge Opti-Greens 50: • 
https://1stphorm.com/products/opti-greens-50/?a_aid=dadedge Post-Workout Stack: • 
https://1stphorm.com/products/postworkout-stack?a_aid=dadedge Collagen with Dermaval: • 
 https://1stphorm.com/products/collagen-with-dermaval/?a_aid=dadedge Episode Show Notes & Resources: • 
https://thedadedge.com/1434 
 
 
 
 Closing Remark 
If this episode challenged how you think about health, recovery, or responsibility, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. There are no shortcuts—only tools, discipline, and intentional action. Take care of your body, and it will take care of the life you're building.

The Path to Men Healing Faster, Improve Recovery, and Reducing Inflammation featuring Dr. Adam Boender

Divorce doesn't just end a marriage—it can shatter a man's identity, confidence, and sense of direction. In this powerful and deeply honest conversation, I sit down with my close friend Ryan Michler, founder of Order of Man, to talk openly about what it really looks like to navigate divorce as a man—and come out stronger on the other side.
 
 
 
Ryan shares his personal experience of being divorced for nearly three years, including the identity loss men feel when they're no longer husbands or full-time dads, the mistakes many men make by orienting their lives around their ex, and why healing starts when you make yourself the project. We also dive into rebuilding relationships with kids, handling co-parenting with integrity, resisting isolation, and why brotherhood is non-negotiable in seasons of separation. If you're divorced, separated, or supporting a man who is—this episode is required listening.
 
 
 
 
 Timeline Summary 
[0:00] Why this episode is for divorced and separated dads
 
[2:35] Introducing Ryan Michler and his journey through divorce
 
[3:37] Losing identity as a husband and father after divorce
 
[4:59] Feeling like "less of a man" after separation
 
[6:02] Why orienting your life around your ex is a mistake
 
[7:21] Making yourself the project after divorce
 
[9:01] Isolation, vices, and the danger of being alone too much
 
[10:45] Why brotherhood accelerates healing
 
[12:15] Journaling, self-regulation, and daily discipline
 
[14:06] Rebuilding physical health and confidence
 
[15:32] Redefining masculinity and self-worth
 
[17:15] Being honest—but appropriate—with kids about divorce
 
[19:02] Staying present in your kids' lives beyond "your time"
 
[21:11] Customizing connection with each child
 
[23:23] Never giving up on estranged relationships
 
[25:08] Civility, boundaries, and co-parenting with integrity
 
[29:02] Why consistency matters more than outcomes
 
[31:22] Divorce Not Death program overview
 
[34:40] The Men's Forge experience and why it's different
 
[38:15] Bringing sons to Men's Forge and legacy building
 
[41:41] What boys learn by watching their fathers lead
 
[45:54] Final encouragement for men navigating divorce
 
 
 
 
 Five Key Takeaways Divorce shakes a man's identity 1. , but it doesn't have to define his future.
 Healing begins when men stop orienting around their ex and start orienting around growth. Isolation amplifies pain 2. , while brotherhood shortens the recovery curve.
 Consistency and integrity rebuild trust with kids, even when relationships feel strained. Men who make themselves the project come out stronger, healthier, and more grounded. 
 
 
 
 Links & Resources Men's Forge Event: • 
https://themensforge.com Dad Edge Alliance: • 
https://thedadedge.com/alliance Dad Edge Alliance Preview Call: • 
https://thedadedge.com/preview 1st Phorm Dad Edge Challenge: • 
https://1stphorm.com/dadedge Divorce Not Death Program: • 
https://divorcenotdeath.com Episode Show Notes & Resources: • 
https://thedadedge.com/1433 
 
 
 
 Closing Remark 
If this episode spoke to where you're at—or where you've been—please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Divorce is not the end of your story. With discipline, brotherhood, and intention, it can be the beginning of a stronger chapter. Go out and live legendary.

Healing From Divorce & Rebuilding Strength, Identity, and Fatherhood featuring Ryan Michler

Connecting with teenage daughters can feel like trying to break through a locked door—especially when rejection, distance, and silence start to replace the closeness you once had. In this Q&A episode, I'm joined by Uncle Joe as we tackle two deeply relatable questions from dads who are doing their best but feel stuck, unsure, and disconnected.
 
 
 
We dive into what it really takes to win a teenage daughter's heart without forcing connection, why consistency matters more than instant results, and how dads can stop taking rejection personally while still staying emotionally available. We also address marriage and money decisions, showing how curiosity, values, and asking better questions can transform conflict into teamwork. This episode is packed with wisdom, reassurance, and practical strategies for dads who refuse to give up on their kids or their marriage.
 
 
 
 
 Timeline Summary 
[0:00] Welcoming listeners to the final Q&A episode of January 2026
 
[2:37] A dad's question about connecting with his 14-year-old daughter
 
[4:10] Why teenage girls often pull away during adolescence
 
[4:33] Recommended reading: Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters
 
[5:12] Learning what matters to your daughter to win her heart
 
[6:35] Why genuine interest builds emotional safety
 
[7:16] Consistency over comfort when facing rejection
 
[8:08] Not internalizing rejection from teenage daughters
 
[8:57] How facial expressions communicate disappointment
 
[9:15] "Aim for the heart" and understanding a child's unique wiring
 
[10:19] Engaging with your daughter's interests without trying to be "cool"
 
[11:21] Alliance member perspective on grit and perseverance
 
[12:37] Why daughters notice effort even when they don't respond
 
[13:03] Dr. Lisa Damour's insights on never giving up
 
[14:08] Why your daughter will remember whether you stayed or quit
 
[15:11] Second question: marriage, money, and trust
 
[16:34] How "telling" shuts down conversations with your wife
 
[17:08] Leading with curiosity instead of control
 
[18:10] Asking questions that invite reflection and teamwork
 
[19:36] Validating your wife's values before problem-solving
 
[21:11] Enabling vs. empowering family members
 
[23:23] Using shared family values as a decision-making framework
 
[26:18] Why aligned values reduce conflict in marriage
 
[29:18] Faith, provision, and living out core values
 
[30:57] Resources for dads raising teenagers
 
[31:16] Where to find all episode links and next steps
 
 
 
 
 Five Key Takeaways Winning a teenage daughter's heart requires consistency, not instant validation. Rejection isn't personal—it's developmental, and dads must stay steady through it. Genuine curiosity builds connection 1. far more than control or correction.
 Asking better questions reduces marriage conflict 2. , especially around money and family decisions.
 Shared values create clarity 3. , alignment, and peace in family decision-making.
 
 
 
 
 Links & Resources Guiding Teenage Girls Into Adulthood (Dad Edge Episode): • 
 https://thedadedge.com/guiding-teenage-girls-into-adulthood-with-dr-lisa-damour/ Dr. Lisa Damour Website: • 
https://drlisadamour.com/ Dr. Lisa Damour on Instagram: • 
https://www.instagram.com/lisa.damour/ Dr. Lisa Damour on YouTube: • 
 https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLSt8mu1taNYAHTufbYwqglFHoevbZgNQl Dr. Lisa Damour on Twitter/X: • 
https://twitter.com/Ldamour Dr. Lisa Damour on Facebook: • 
https://www.facebook.com/lisadamourphd Dr. Lisa Damour Podcast: • 
https://drlisadamour.com/resources/podcast/ How to Manage a Meltdown (PDF): • 
 https://drlisadamour.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/LD_Bookmarks_How_to_Manage_a_Meltdown.pdf Meg Meeker on The Dad Edge Podcast: • 
https://thedadedge.com/meg-meeker/ Episode Show Notes & Resources: • 
https://thedadedge.com/1432 
 
 Closing Remark 
If this episode encouraged you to stay the course with your kids or approach your marriage with more curiosity and patience, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Your consistency today becomes your children's security tomorrow. Go out and live legendary.

Raising Teenage Daughters Without Losing Connection or Confidence

In this solo episode, I pull back the curtain on everything happening inside the Dad Edge ecosystem as we close out January and head into February. If your marriage feels disconnected, your health slipped during the holidays, or you've been looking for real skills—not motivation—this episode lays out exactly what's available and how to plug in.
 
 
 
I share my own story of marriage struggle, why only a small percentage of couples truly feel connected, and how becoming a student of marriage completely changed the trajectory of my relationship. From February's marriage-focused tactical agenda inside the Dad Edge Alliance, to the 1st Phorm 8-week challenge, to major announcements around preview calls and the Men's Forge event, this episode is about clarity, opportunity, and intentional action for men who want their marriage and leadership to look different in 2026.
 
 
 
 
 Timeline Summary: 
[0:00] Keeping the blooper and why imperfection matters in fatherhood
 
[1:35] Larry reflects on the first 10–12 years of marriage struggles
 
[2:27] When marriage turns into co-parenting and roommate syndrome
 
[3:07] Becoming a student of marriage and why things finally changed
 
[3:27] Only 12% of marriages report deep connection
 
[3:52] Introducing the Dad Edge ecosystem
 
[4:11] Overview of the Dad Edge Alliance
 
[4:50] February tactical agenda inside the Alliance
 
[5:09] Why February always focuses on marriage skills
 
[5:28] Week 1: Attraction, identity, and masculine presence
 
[6:11] Week 2: Leading without chasing or needy energy
 
[6:35] Week 3: Boundaries that create desire
 
[6:55] Week 4: Emotional safety and attraction
 
[7:39] Why February is the best month to join the Alliance
 
[8:01] Roommates to Soulmates cohort selling out quickly
 
[8:41] Holiday weight gain and the need for a physical reset
 
[9:01] 1st Phorm Dad Edge 8-week challenge overview
 
[9:42] Challenge dates and community support
 
[10:19] January Dad Edge 1st Phorm Dad of the Month recognition
 
[11:01] Alliance preview call announcement
 
[11:24] What men will learn on the preview call
 
[12:17] Moving away from social media noise
 
[14:06] Men's Forge 2026 announcement
 
[14:51] Why this event is different
 
[15:41] Where to find all links and next steps
 
[16:04] Gratitude and closing encouragement
 
 
 
 
 Five Key Takeaways Most men were never taught how to lead a marriage 1. , which is why skill-building—not willpower—creates change.
 Attraction in marriage evolves 2. , and men must adapt leadership, presence, and identity.
 Boundaries and emotional safety create desire, not chasing or people-pleasing. Physical health fuels confidence and leadership, especially inside marriage. Community accelerates growth 3. , when men commit to accountability and action.
 
 
 
 
 Links & Resources: Dad Edge Alliance (Marriage, Parenting, Health, Leadership): • 
https://thedadedge.com/alliance Dad Edge Alliance Preview Call: • 
https://thedadedge.com/preview 1st Phorm Dad Edge 8-Week Challenge: • 
https://1stphorm.com/dadedge Men's Forge 2026 Event: • 
https://themensforge.com All Episode Resources: • 
https://thedadedge.com/1431 
 
 
 
 Closing Remark 
Gentlemen, if you want your marriage, health, and leadership to look different in 2026, this is your moment to engage. Thank you for your continued support, your reviews, and your commitment to doing the work. From my heart to yours—let's continue to live legendary.

The Skills Men Need for Marriage Health and Leadership at Home

In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Nicole McNichols, psychologist, professor at the University of Washington, and author of You Could Be Having Better Sex, for one of the most honest, research-backed conversations we've ever had about sex, intimacy, and connection in long-term marriage.
 
 
 
This isn't about sex positions, tricks, or "trying harder." It's about why good marriages lose momentum over time, how pressure and expectations quietly kill desire, and why emotional connection is often the real foreplay. Dr. Nicole breaks down why scheduling sex can backfire, how shame and guilt around sex are learned early, and how curiosity—not performance—creates the kind of intimacy couples actually crave. I also share personal stories from my own marriage about connection, timing, and why mediocre sex just to "check the box" no longer works. If you want a healthier, more connected sex life, this episode gives you a roadmap grounded in science and real-life experience.
 
 
 
 
 Timeline Summary 
[0:00] Why this episode isn't about sex positions or tricks
 
[1:26] Introducing Dr. Nicole McNichols and her background
 
[2:09] Why scheduling sex can quietly backfire
 
[2:36] How pressure and expectation kill intimacy
 
[2:58] Emotional connection as the real foreplay
 
[3:36] Why intimacy dates matter more than sex calendars
 
[5:18] How Dr. Nicole became a "sex professor" by accident
 
[6:10] Loneliness, disconnection, and the role of sexual health
 
[7:08] Shame, stigma, and misinformation around sex—especially for women
 
[9:14] Why healthy sex improves forgiveness, health, and longevity
 
[10:25] The failure of shame-based sex education
 
[12:10] Countries with sex-positive education and better outcomes
 
[13:18] Identifying the sources of shame we carry into marriage
 
[15:09] Why sex shouldn't be the first thing sacrificed in busy seasons
 
[16:07] Why conversations about sex should happen with clothes on
 
[17:00] Using curiosity instead of pressure to improve intimacy
 
[18:11] Announcement: Dad Edge Alliance February focus on intimacy and attraction
 
[20:03] Curiosity vs. agenda in hard conversations
 
[21:17] Why scheduling sex alone doesn't work
 
[22:09] Creating the right context and mood for intimacy
 
[23:24] Sexual effort that creates pressure instead of desire
 
[24:55] Emotional lead-up and responsive desire
 
[26:01] Initiation–rejection cycles and resentment
 
[27:23] "Intimacy dates" and reconnecting outside the bedroom
 
[29:11] Larry shares a personal story about connection over convenience
 
[31:26] Choosing quality connection over mediocre sex
 
[33:17] Maintenance sex vs. meaningful sexual connection
 
[35:04] Balancing connection and realistic expectations
 
[37:22] Long-term rejection cycles and rebuilding intimacy
 
[39:00] Hormones, menopause, and why libido changes aren't personal
 
[41:29] Division of labor, resentment, and loss of identity
 
[43:48] Gottman research and why distance doesn't heal intimacy
 
[45:43] Making your partner feel seen and heard
 
[47:23] Listening vs. fixing in emotional conversations
 
[49:13] Resources for better conversations with your wife and kids
 
[49:31] Dr. Nicole's book and New York Times features
 
[50:44] Where to find Dr. Nicole and her work
 
[53:08] Why improving your sex life is a powerful way to start 2026
 
 
 
 
 Five Key Takeaways Pressure and expectation kill desire 1. , while curiosity and emotional safety create attraction.
 Emotional connection is often the real foreplay, especially in long-term marriages. Scheduling sex without context can backfire 2. if couples don't create space to reconnect first.
 Sexual shame is learned 3. , and identifying its sources is the first step toward healthier intimacy.
 Better sex isn't about frequency—it's about quality, safety, and connection. 
 
 
 
 
 
 Links & Resources 25 Intimate Conversation Starters: • 
https://thedadedge.com/25questions Conversation Cards for Kids (Ages 5–Teen): • 
https://thedadedge.com/kidquestions Dr. Nicole McNichols – Faculty Spotlight (University of Washington): https://psych.uw.edu/newsletter/summer-2020/faculty/faculty-spotlight-on-nicole-mcnichols New York Times – Modern Love Podcast Feature: https://www.nytimes.com/2026/01/07/podcasts/modern-love-better-sex-tips.html Book — You Could Be Having Better Sex Episode Show Notes & Resources: • 
https://thedadedge.com/1430 
 
 
 
 Closing Remark 
If this episode gave you language, clarity, or hope around intimacy in your marriage, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Strong marriages don't drift into great sex—they build it intentionally, with curiosity, connection, and courage.

What Couples Get Wrong About Sex in Long-Term Relationships featuring Dr. Nicole McNichols

In this Q&A episode, I'm joined once again by Uncle Joe for a deep, honest conversation around one of the most painful places a man can find himself—feeling unwanted, disconnected, and hopeless in his marriage. We respond to a question from a husband who hasn't felt physical or emotional connection from his wife in over two years, and we unpack what really breaks down in marriages long before intimacy disappears.
 
 
 
This conversation goes far beyond surface-level advice. We talk about why most men were never trained for marriage, how resentment quietly builds, why treating marriage like a contract destroys connection, and how changing your internal narrative can shift everything. We also bring in perspectives from men inside the Dad Edge Alliance to show how humility, coachability, and intentional skill-building can restore trust, safety, and leadership at home. If your marriage feels distant or stuck, this episode offers clarity, hope, and a path forward.
 
 
 
 
 Timeline Summary 
[0:00] Welcoming listeners to the third Q&A episode of January 2026
 
[1:19] Uncle Joe returns and the power of community-driven wisdom
 
[2:13] Introducing a listener's marriage question about rejection and hopelessness
 
[2:55] Why only 12% of married couples report feeling deeply connected
 
[3:33] Asking the most important question: what have you actually learned about marriage?
 
[4:26] Joe reflects on personal failure, divorce, and hard-earned lessons
 
[5:14] Why hope exists if attraction once existed
 
[5:35] How complacency and busyness quietly push marriage to the back burner
 
[6:02] Marriage compared to learning an instrument—you can't wing it
 
[7:21] Resentment, skill gaps, and whether marriages can truly be restored
 
[8:05] Marriage as a covenant, not a contract
 
[8:55] How destructive inner narratives shape behavior and connection
 
[9:43] Transactional expectations and why they kill intimacy
 
[10:41] Why "nice guy" energy erodes respect and attraction
 
[11:30] Listening to understand instead of listening to defend
 
[12:12] Mutual submission, humility, and shared leadership in marriage
 
[13:15] Alliance member insight on asking for feedback from your wife
 
[14:16] Faith, unity, and intentionally doing life together
 
[15:49] Receiving feedback without ego or defensiveness
 
[17:14] Emotional bank accounts and the power of daily deposits
 
[18:50] Gottman's 5:1 and 10:1 ratios for healthy marriages
 
[19:40] Giving your wife permission to coach you
 
[20:45] Why conflict isn't the enemy—avoidance is
 
[22:00] Reframing the role of a wife as a strengthener, not a subordinate
 
[23:17] "It's not me vs. you, it's us vs. the problem"
 
[23:43] Larry shares a personal season of anger and choosing humility
 
[25:16] How couples can build something better than what they had before
 
[25:51] Episode wrap-up and where to find resources
 
 
 
 
 Five Key Takeaways Most men were never taught how to lead a marriage 1. , and guessing your way through it creates disconnection.
 Marriage breaks down through narratives and resentment long before intimacy disappears. Treating marriage like a covenant—not a contract—changes everything. Emotional deposits made consistently rebuild trust and safety over time. When couples unite against the problem instead of each other, restoration becomes possible. 
 
 
 
 Links & Resources Dad Edge Alliance: • 
https://thedadedge.com/alliance The Legendary Marriage Book: • 
https://thedadedge.com/legendarybook Episode Show Notes & Resources: • 
https://thedadedge.com/1429 
 
 
 
 Closing Remark 
If this episode resonated with where you're at in your marriage, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. You don't have to figure this out alone—skill-building, humility, and brotherhood can change the direction of your marriage and your family. From my heart to yours, go out and live legendary.

When Marriage Feels Hopeless How to Rebuild Connection and Attraction

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