How Micromanaging Your Relationship Is Pushing Your Partner Away

Today, John explores how love often uncovers unresolved wounds, revealing the deeper work still to be done. He emphasizes the value of peace in a relationship over the illusion of control, and champions vulnerability and trust as the cornerstones of a lasting connection.

I'm running a 7-Day "Done with the Bullsh*t" Detox — this isn't the kind with green juice and caffeine withdrawals. It's a soul-level cleanse.

Here’s what you’ll detox each day:

Day 1: Cancel old contracts — the silent agreements you never meant to make.

Day 2: Break up with people-pleasing and reclaim your no.

Day 3: Unfollow the fantasy and stop chasing someone else’s timeline.

Day 4: Mute your inner critic and replace it with compassion.

Day 5: Cut out comparison and come back to your own path.

Day 6: Starve the reflex to fix everything — choose stillness instead.

Day 7: Fast from the noise and finally hear yourself again.

This isn’t about becoming someone new. It’s about coming home to who you’ve always been.

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