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10% Happier

Self-help for smart people. World-class insights and practices from experts in modern science and ancient wisdom. Hosted by veteran journalist and best-selling author, Dan Harris.

Ten Percent Happier with Dan Harris

It’s good to apologize when you’ve hurt someone’s feelings, but there’s more to “making up” than simply an apology. We’re bringing you some of our favorite gems from the archives, as chosen by our staff, and this week we’re hearing from parenting expert and psychologist Dr. Becky Kennedy about taking the next step when you’ve made a mistake.
 

 
Full Episode: 
 
 How to Repair the Damage After a Fight | Dr. Becky Kennedy
 
The Single Most Important Parenting Strategy | Becky Kennedy | TED
 
 
 
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Get ready for another Meditation Party at Omega Institute! This in-person workshop brings together Dan with his friends and meditation teachers, Sebene Selassie, Jeff Warren, and for the first time, Ofosu Jones-Quartey. The event runs October 24th-26th. Sign up and learn more at eomega.org/workshops/meditation-party-2025.
 
 
 
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How To Repair the Damage After An Argument | Dr. Becky Kennedy

How to (constructively) lower the bar on your meditation practice.
 
 
 
Ofosu Jones-Quartey is a meditation teacher, hip-hop artist, and author based in the DC area. He’s a certified teacher with over 20 years of experience bringing mindfulness, self-compassion, and creativity to people of all ages. His stage name is “Born I,”, and his new book is called Lyrical Dharma: Hip-Hop as Mindfulness.
 
 
 
In this episode we talk about:
 
 • The definition of open-awareness meditation 
 • How it differs from classical concentration practices (such as focusing on your breath, or loving kindness phrases)
 • Why Ofosu chose open-awareness meditation (in direct response to his struggles with OCD)
 • How you can practice open-awareness meditation 
 • The benefits of a technique called “mental noting”
 • The “practice self-assessment tapes” that we run in our mind
 • Self-compassion and “lowering the bar” in your meditation practice
 • The relationship between neurodiversity and meditation in general
 • How to depersonalize the experience of suffering
 • And we hear some of Ofosu’s music and the life experiences that inspired it
 

 

 
Related Episodes:
 
 How to Become a Regular Meditator (and More) | Alexis Santos A More Relaxed Way to Meditate | Alexis Santos 

 

 
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Additional Resources: 
 
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Lyrical Dharma Music Playlist
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Get ready for another Meditation Party at Omega Institute! This in-person workshop brings together Dan with his friends and meditation teachers, Sebene Selassie, Jeff Warren, and for the first time, Ofosu Jones-Quartey. The event runs October 24th-26th. Sign up and learn more here.
 
 
 
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Think You Suck at Meditation? This Conversation Could Help. | Ofosu Jones-Quartey

An expert in failure shows us how to find success in the most counterintuitive way.
 
 
 
Manu Kapur is currently the Director of the Singapore-ETH Center, and Professor for Learning Sciences and Higher Education at ETH Zurich, Switzerland, where he also directs The Future Learning Initiative (FLI). Manu is also the Founding Chair of the ETH Zurich – EPFL Joint Doctoral Program in the Learning Sciences.
 

 

 
In this episode we talk about:
 
 • The definition of Productive Failure (a concept Manu developed that allows you to design for and harness failure for deeper learning)
 • Why we learn more from failing than from succeeding
 • The difference between desirable and undesirable failure
 • The neuroscience of curiosity
 • Practical ways to incorporate productive failure into your daily life
 • How to get into your “failure zone” 
 • Cool concepts like the looking back and moving the Gold posts
 • How to normalize failure and create environments in which other people feel safe to fail 
 • The role of psychological safety and a growth mindset
 • And much more
 

 

 
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Additional Resources: 
 
 Productive Failure Manu’s Ted Talk 

 

 
Get ready for another Meditation Party at Omega Institute! This in-person workshop brings together Dan with his friends and meditation teachers, Sebene Selassie, Jeff Warren, and for the first time, Ofosu Jones-Quartey. The event runs October 24th-26th. Sign up and learn more at eomega.org/workshops/meditation-party-2025.
 
 
 
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Let’s Normalize Failure (The Right Kind) | Manu Kapur

Sharing an episode today from our friend Gretchen Rubin’s podcast, Happier. Gretchen and her sister Elizabeth Craft discuss the idea of the “familect” and why it might be fun to create a dictionary for our own familect. They also talk about a hack that makes it easier to use a smartphone, and they share dozens of listeners’ thought-provoking “Secrets of Adulthood.”
 
Get ready for another Meditation Party at Omega Institute! This in-person workshop brings together Dan with his friends and meditation teachers, Sebene Selassie, Jeff Warren, and for the first time, Ofosu Jones-Quartey. The event runs October 24th-26th. Sign up and learn more here!
 
 
 
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Pods We Love: Happier with Gretchen Rubin

We’re bringing you some of our favorite gems from the archives, as chosen by our staff. This week, we’re hearing from therapist Dick Schwartz, as chosen by Mani Chandy from our Substack team. Schwartz is the founder of Internal Family Systems, a way of looking at all of the various “parts” that we have inside ourselves, and how they can work together or make things harder for us. 
 
Full Episodes:
 How to Handle Your Demons | Richard Schwartz
How (and Why) To Hug Your Inner Dragons | Richard Schwartz
 
Get ready for another Meditation Party at Omega Institute! This in-person workshop brings together Dan with his friends and meditation teachers, Sebene Selassie, Jeff Warren, and for the first time, Ofosu Jones-Quartey. The event runs October 24th-26th. Sign up and learn more here!
 
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A Surprisingly Effective Way to Deal With Your Inner Critic

An avalanche of practical advice and brief (but powerful) life lessons.
 
 
 
Gretchen Rubin is a New York Times bestselling author and happiness expert who explores human nature and habits. She’s a highly acclaimed writer, host of the podcast Happier with Gretchen Rubin and the founder of the award-winning Happier app. 
 
 
 
In this episode we talk about:
 
 • What aphorisms are, and why they’re useful 
 • How to make decisions that lead to a “bigger life"
 • Why you should pay special attention to anything you lie about or hide 
 • The argument against task-sharing 
 • The dangers of being indecisive 
 • Why offering emotional validation can often be more powerful than offering solutions
 • Why you should pay close attention when people repeat themselves over and over
 • And much more
 

 

 
Related Episodes:
 
 The Happiness Project: Revisited • 
 How To Use Your Five Senses To Reduce Anxiety, Increase Creativity, and Improve Your Relationships • 
 Small Ways to Improve Your Everyday Life Right Now • 
 Outer Order, Inner Calm • 
 'The Four Tendencies' • 
 Gretchen Rubin (Our Long-Lost Pilot Episode) 
 
 
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Additional Resources: 
 
 Gretchen’s books The “Five Things Making Me Happy” Newsletter Gretchen on Substack: Secrets of Adulthood 
 
 
Get ready for another Meditation Party at Omega Institute! This in-person workshop brings together Dan with his friends and meditation teachers, Sebene Selassie, Jeff Warren, and for the first time, Ofosu Jones-Quartey. The event runs October 24th-26th. Sign up and learn more here.
 
 
 
 
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How To Handle Dilemmas, Drift, Indecision, and Difficult People | Gretchen Rubin

A conversation with a Cornell professor who is attempting to rebrand the concept of defiance.
 
Dr. Sunita Sah started her career as a physician but then switched over to organizational psychology. At Cornell, she conducts research on influence, authority, compliance, and defiance. She is the author of Defy: The Power of No in a World That Demands Yes.
 
In this episode we talk about:
 
 • How Dr. Sah defines defiance 
 • The costs of compliance 
 • The five stages of defiance
 • How to make defiance a practice
 • The upside of tension 
 • The importance of knowing your values — how to articulate them, and how this relates to our biology, specifically our hormones 
 • The gender components of defiance 

 
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 Smalls: For a limited time only, get 60% off your first order PLUS free shipping when you head to Smalls.com/HAPPIER. 
 
 
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Why You Say Yes When You Shouldn’t — And How To Say No When It Matters Most | Dr. Sunita Sah

We’re in the midst of an exciting evolution of the overall 10% Happier project. In our quest to make this podcast more actionable – to help you operationalize all the game-changing ideas you encounter on this pod – we’re now offering guided meditations to accompany each full episode of the show, available to paid subscribers at DanHarris.com. For the month of August, those meditations will come from Kaira Jewel Lingo, a Buddhist teacher who spent 15 years as a monastic in the Plum Village tradition.
 
In this bonus episode, you’ll hear our head of content, DJ Cashmere, in conversation with Kaira Jewel, sharing some of her fascinating backstory. From a communal Christian community in Chicago, to a Zen monastery in the south of France, to making her life as an independent teacher in New York, you’ll hear how the thread of “voluntary simplicity” runs through all of it. 
 
Related Episodes:
 
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 How To Keep Your Relationships On the Rails | Kaira Jewel Lingo
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 A Buddhist Recipe for Handling Turmoil | Kaira Jewel Lingo
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Get ready for another Meditation Party at Omega Institute! This in-person workshop brings together Dan with his friends and meditation teachers, Sebene Selassie, Jeff Warren, and for the first time, Ofosu Jones-Quartey. The event runs October 24th-26th. Sign up and learn more here!
 

 
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Are You Overcomplicating Your Life? | Kaira Jewel Lingo

A conversation with singer-songwriter Sara Bareilles and psychologist Dacher Keltner, recorded at the New York Times Well Festival, moderated by Dan. All three of them have dealt with anxiety and continue to work with it, and they discuss the ways they look for joy and sustainable wellness. 
 
Related Episodes:
 
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 Sara Bareilles: Anxiety, Anger, and Art
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 The Evolutionary Case for Kindness | Dacher Keltner
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 This Scientist Says One Emotion May Be the Key to Happiness. Can You Guess What It Is? | Dacher Keltner
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Get ready for another Meditation Party at Omega Institute! This in-person workshop brings together Dan with his friends and meditation teachers, Sebene Selassie, Jeff Warren, and for the first time, Ofosu Jones-Quartey. The event runs October 24th-26th. Sign up and learn more at eomega.org/workshops/meditation-party-2025.
 
 
 
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How To Find Joy In an Anxious World | Sara Bareilles and Dacher Keltner

Reclaim your power from the news, booze, shopping, or denial.
 
Ayya Anandabodhi is the spiritual director of Pārāyana Vihāra, a monastic residence in Port Townsend, WA. She was raised in Wales, in the UK, and first encountered Buddhism in her early teens and began training as a nun at age 24. You can listen to some of her Dharma talks, here. 
 
 
 
In this episode we talk about:
 
 • What centering means – and how to do it in the midst of chaos or calamity (Including some very practical tips)
 • The difference between centering vs equanimity 
 • How to break out of old patterns 
 • The power of pausing
 • How anger is justified, but it doesn’t help
 • A quick but deep dive into the Four Noble truths, a foundational Buddhist list
 • We tackle the tricky topic of “true nature”
 • We talk about the vital role of that treacly and often misunderstood term, compassion
 
 
 
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Anxious? Confused? Powerless? A Four-Part Recipe for Staying Centered From a Buddhist Nun. | Ayya Anandabodhi

Jewel, whose poetic songs about relationships and heartache dominated the airwaves in the '90s, used writing as an outlet to deal with anxiety through a tough childhood and later, homelessness. She began looking for ways to "re-wire" her brain, change her life for the better, and came to Mindfulness. The Grammy-nominated recording artist wrote a memoir, "Never Broken: Songs Are Only Half the Story," and stars in the upcoming Hallmark movie, "Framed for Murder: A Fixer-Upper Mystery," airing Sunday, April 2.

Jewel, Grammy-Nominated Singer-Songwriter, Actress (Bonus!)

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