Julie Lythcott-Haims on the Power of Telling Your Truth

In this powerful conversation from the Mindfulness Exercises Podcast, Sean Fargo speaks with Julie Lythcott-Haims — New York Times bestselling author, activist, politician, and former Stanford dean — about how mindfulness can help us face shame, rewrite old stories, and create space for authentic belonging.

Julie shares how she first discovered mindfulness in her 30s, how body awareness helped her get out of her own way, and how storytelling became a tool for healing unprocessed pain. She reflects on writing Real American, her memoir on race and belonging, and the liberation that came from releasing stories she had carried for decades.

⏱️ Chapters

00:00 – Intro

04:11 – mindfulness as a path to self-awareness

06:40 – Writing as emotional release

10:35 – Holding space with compassion

14:41 – The courage of vulnerability

21:16 – Helicopter Parenting: lesson in parenting and self-growth

30:25 – Post-It notes of connection

33:00 – Freeing others through your story

36:57 – Releasing fear and finding courage to be seen

38:25 – A moment of belonging with a taxi driver

41:03 – Building bridges across difference

46:25 – Living authentically with compassion

🔗Know more about Julie

• Julie Lythcott-Haims: julielythcotthaims.com • Substack: julielythcotthaims.substack.com • TED Talk: How to Raise an Adult • Books: How to Raise an Adult, Real American, Your Turn: How to Be an Adult

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