How do you grapple with resistance when writing about personal stories from your past? As today’s guest learned, “When you get to the pain, slow down.” Darls Centola is a psychotherapist, educator, and author of Finding Truth with Michael: A Memoir of Friendship, Faith, and First Love.” In our conversation, Darls shares stories from her book including what it was like growing up as a Jehovah’s Witness in 1970s Los Angeles, being friends with Michael Jackson, and how her sister got them enrolled in a prestigious private school where they met the Jacksons. She also talks about her curiosity with neurobiology, the many paths she took to discover her calling, seeing people as they are, how doubt was the beginning of how to think, learning to listen to herself, and healing her relationship with her mother. Darls also provides practical advice on writing, discovering her adult voice, and how she worked on her craft in workshops and with coaches.
Show Links
Darls Centola, LCSW
Finding Truth with Michael: A Memoir of Friendship, Faith, and First Love • by Darls Centola
The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma • by Bessel van der Kolk, M.D.
Somatic Experiencing
Internal Family Systems
The Emerald Tablet: Alchemy of Personal Transformation • by Dennis William Hauck
The War of Art: Break Through the Blocks and Win Your Inner Creative Battles • by Steven Pressfield
• Episode photo from Envato Elements: Fresh Lemons Pattern Background. Copy space. Top view.