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Margarita Nazarenko

Welcome to BEING HER with Margarita Nazarenko, where we talk about womanhood, self development and the journey to BECOMING the best version of HER.

BEING HER with Margarita Nazarenko

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Your nice girl personality has got you this far. But it's also why you're exhausted, resentful, and running on empty.

In this episode, Margarita breaks down why selfishness isn't a flaw it's the missing ingredient keeping you from the life you actually want.

– Nice girls abandon themselves before anyone else can

– The world rewards agreeable women until it doesn't

– Selfless women become resentful — and it poisons everything

– People don't respect women who don't respect themselves

– Being needed is not the same as being loved

– Stop auditioning — you already have the role

– Selfish women ask for more and get more

– Boundaries don't lose good people — they expose bad ones

– Stop managing everyone else's emotions

– Every successful woman disappoints someone

– Selfish women actually give more — that's the paradox

– Becoming your own favourite person

If you've ever felt like you give everything and still feel invisible, resentful but unable to explain why, or like your whole identity is 

built around being useful — this episode is for you.

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172: Selfish Girl Blueprint: Stop Being Nice and Get The Life You Want

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Not everyone in your life is going to like you. Your mother in law. Your colleagues. People online. And the harder you try to convince them otherwise, the worse it gets.

In this episode, Margarita breaks down exactly what to do when you're surrounded by people who don't like you, are jealous of you, or quietly resent you and why trying to be "enough" for them will never work.

In this episode:

— Stop trying to convince people who've already decided who you are

— Jealousy is usually not about you, it's about them

— Not everyone deserves access to you

— Never shrink yourself to make others comfortable

— Success reveals people

— The opposite of jealousy is inspiration

— Never complain, never explain

— You don't have to attend every argument you're invited to

— Stop making peace your responsibility alone

If you've ever felt exhausted from trying to explain yourself to people who won't listen, or like your success makes certain people uncomfortable this episode is for you.

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171: How to Deal With Jealous People

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You were taught that selfishness is a bad word for a woman to be.

Margarita disagrees and she's about to prove it.

In this episode, Margarita breaks down why selfishness is the missing ingredient in your manifestation, your relationships, your boundaries, and your life and why self-sacrifice has been quietly running you dry.

05:46 – #1: Selfish women ask for what they want

08:04 – #2: Selfish women don't volunteer for self sacrifice

10:23 – #3: Selfish women are not afraid to disappoint people

12:11 – #4: Selfish women spend money on themselves

14:56 – #5: Selfish women protect their energy

16:24 – #6: Selfish women have higher standards

17:39 – #7: Selfish women understand the irony of life

If you've ever felt depleted from doing everything for everyone, resentful in your relationships but unable to say why, or afraid to 

ask for what you actually want this episode is for you.

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170: Why Selfish Women Get The Life You Want

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Chasing clarity from someone who won't give it to you?

That's just begging with extra steps.

In this episode, Margarita breaks down the 7 things unbothered women never do — the habits, patterns, and behaviours that keep you stuck, small, and auditioning for a life that should already be yours.

02:38 – #1: They never chase clarity (it's just begging)

08:16 – #2: They never make men the centre of their lives

11:37 – #3: They never audition for love

13:18 – #4: They never let anxiety make decisions

16:43 – #5: They never confuse being chosen for being valuable

18:26 – #6: They never over function

21:28 – #7: The unbothered mindset — I want this, not I need this

If you've ever felt anxious, overlooked, and exhausted in love and life, this episode is going to hit.

Because an unbothered woman isn't a woman who cares less. She's a woman who trusts herself more.

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169: 7 Things Unbothered Women Never Do

Unbothered is no longer just a word. It's a book. It's a movement. It's on morning TV. And honestly? It's blowing my mind.

In this episode, Margarita takes you behind the scenes of the Unbothered book launch and answers the questions from her sold-out book signing event — so whether you're in America, Lithuania, or Uganda, you're in the room.

We get into what being unbothered actually looks like in real life, how the detachment movement started, the two characters at the heart of the book, why self sacrifice will never get you the love you're looking for, and what it means to truly be seen rather than just advised.

Plus the story of recording an audiobook with a newborn, why intimacy will always beat a studio setup, and what is coming next including a US trip that may or may not be happening.

This episode is for everyone who wanted a seat at the book signing but couldn't get one. Consider this your invite.

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168: From Anxious to Unbothered

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Your 20s are one of the most psychologically violent decades of your life. You're insecure but pretending you're not. You think every decision is permanent. You think everyone else has it figured out.

They don't.

In this episode, Margarita shares 10 unhinged truths she genuinely wishes she knew earlier.. the ones that would have saved her years of being extremely bothered. Because nobody sat you down and told you the truth.

So here it is.

This episode covers the 10 truths nobody told you in your 20s from why your anxiety is lying to you, to why your next glow up has nothing to do with your appearance, and everything to do with your nervous system.

Plus Margarita answers your voice messages on how many kids to have, what to do when your partner hasn't worked in years, and how to stay grounded when the people in your life are used to you putting them first.

If you've ever felt like everyone else had a manual you never received, stuck in anxiety you mistook for intuition, afraid of aging, being alone, or starting over, or like you've been living for everyone except yourself — this one is for you.

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167: 10 Unhinged Truths I Wish I Knew In My 20s

Have you ever quietly wondered if motherhood means losing yourself?

Your identity, ambition, femininity, relationship, peace, dreams.

In this deeply honest episode, we're talking about motherhood, mum guilt, burnout, identity loss, feminine energy, ambition, relationships after kids, and how to raise children without completely abandoning yourself in the process.

Because somewhere along the way, women were sold the idea that being a "good mother" means self-sacrifice, exhaustion, over-functioning, and quietly disappearing.

I disagree.

In this episode, I'm sharing my honest thoughts on:

- how to be a present mother without losing your identity

- mum guilt and why it can quietly run your life

- balancing motherhood, business, ambition, and family

- feminine energy after children

- why burnout is not a badge of honour

- over-functioning, resentment, and emotional exhaustion

- relationships after children and why standards matter more, not less

- asking for help, support systems, and why support is not failure

- how to stay connected to yourself while raising young children

- why your children benefit from a mother who is emotionally regulated, 

fulfilled, and alive

If you've ever felt overwhelmed as a mother, guilty for wanting more, scared of losing yourself after kids, emotionally exhausted from doing everything, anxious about balancing motherhood and ambition, or like becoming a mother meant losing the woman you used to be.. this episode is for you.

Motherhood should expand you. Not erase you.

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166: How To Be A Mother Without Losing Yourself, Your Femininity, Or Your Ambition

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What happens when you stop making men the emotional centre of your life?

In this episode, we’re having a very honest conversation about what changes when you stop obsessing over dating, relationships, texting, validation, and what men think and start putting that energy back into your own life.

Because the truth is, many women don’t actually have a “man problem” they have a focus problem.

We’re talking about:

✨ why obsession is not femininity

✨ how over-focusing on men creates anxiety, overthinking, and emotional dependence

✨ why male validation can quietly become an addiction

✨ how to stop making relationships your identity

✨ what actually makes a woman magnetic

✨ why decentering men doesn’t mean becoming cold, bitter, or anti-love

✨ how to become more secure, grounded, and genuinely attractive

If you constantly find yourself:

- overthinking texts

- checking his social media

- needing reassurance

- making dating your main emotional focus

- feeling anxious in relationships

- losing yourself when you like someone

…this episode is for you.

The most magnetic women are not the women obsessing over men. They’re the women deeply engaged in their own lives.

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165: Decenter Men & Watch Your Entire Life Change

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If you constantly overthink your relationship, analyse every text, question his tone, or feel anxious even when you’re with a genuinely good man… this episode is for you.

Because relationship anxiety isn’t always a sign that something is wrong with the relationship.

Sometimes, it’s a sign that your nervous system doesn’t yet know how to feel safe in love.

In this episode, we’re talking about:

- why reassurance never fixes anxiety long-term

- why healthy love can feel unfamiliar (and even boring) at first

- how overthinking creates distance in relationships

- anxious attachment, emotional regulation, and self-trust

- how to stop spiraling and actually feel secure in love

If you’ve ever:

 • over-analysed a delayed text

 • needed constant reassurance

 • felt anxious in a healthy relationship

 • struggled with anxious attachment

 • found it hard to relax in love

…this will explain exactly why.

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Love you lots like jelly tots xx

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164: How To Stop Overthinking Your Relationship

If you’ve ever felt confused, over-invested, or like you’re doing everything in your relationships… this episode is going to clear things up very quickly.

In today’s episode, I’m sharing some unhinged truths about men that most women only learn the hard way. Not because you’re doing something wrong, but because no one actually tells you how men think, what they value, and why certain patterns keep repeating.

We’re talking about:

– why a man’s behaviour matters more than his words

– why you feel confused when he’s not serious about you

– why over-giving and over-functioning actually backfires

– how to stop chasing, overthinking, and losing yourself in relationships

– and what actually makes a man value and choose you

These are the kinds of truths that shift how you date, how you show up, and who you choose.

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170: Why Selfish Women Get The Life You Want

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