Meet The Adelsons, The All-American Narcissistic Family

In a recent episode of "Hidden Killers," Tony Brueski discussed the intriguing case of the Adelson family with psychotherapist and author Shavaun Scott. The conversation centered around Donna Adelson's involvement in the murder of her former son-in-law, Dan Markel, and the subsequent jailhouse calls that led to her arrest. But what does this case reveal about the psychological dynamics of the Adelson family?

Scott described the Adelsons as a prime example of a narcissistic family system. "It's really striking how much this is like the core of how they relate to each other," she observed, referring to the self-aggrandizing and contemptuous nature of their conversations. This led to a discussion about the rarity of encountering a whole family exhibiting such extreme narcissistic traits.

Brueski and Scott delved into the potential defense strategies for Donna Adelson. Given the narcissistic bond within the family, Scott doubted that Donna would betray her son, Charlie, despite it being a clear defense route. "They just double down on it," Scott said, explaining the family's likely approach to sticking together as a unit.

The conversation then shifted to Wendy Adelson, whose possible involvement in the crime has been a subject of speculation. Scott's take on Wendy was that she appeared arrogant and self-satisfied, believing herself to be above the law. "She comes off very arrogant and very self-satisfied," Scott noted, suggesting a sense of entitlement and disregard for consequences.

The discussion concluded with an exploration of the family's possible justification for their actions. Scott believed that the Adelsons likely rationalized their actions as necessary, with a deep-seated belief in their own righteousness. "They're not reflective, they're not self-aware," she stated, implying that the family likely believes their actions were justified, despite the legal and moral implications.

As the case continues to unfold, one question remains: Will the Adelson family's apparent narcissism and contempt for others ultimately be their downfall, or will their tight-knit bond enable them to weather the legal storm together?

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