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Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. 

 

Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.

 

From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!

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You've Got Decisions: Homie Hopping

Join us in this special year-end wrap-up episode of 'Decisions. Decisions.' as we celebrate our first year as a rebranded podcast. We revisit our top favorite episodes from 'Decisions. Decisions' and 'Whorible Decisions,' share our personal highlights, set goals for the future, and discuss memorable moments from the past year. From sex clubs and unique love stories to hilarious and revealing celebrity interviews, we’ll take you through the laughter and lessons that defined our 2025. Don't miss the funny, raw, and intimate clips from our favorite episodes, and get a sneak peek into what we have planned for 2026. Happy New Year, and thank you for being part of our journey!
 
 
 
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EP 453: Our Favorite Moments Of 2025!

You've Got Decisions: I’m Developing a Crush on a Married man...But Hear Me Out

In this holiday edition of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and journalist Jayson Rodriguez for a layered, reflective conversation unpacking the cultural, emotional, and commercial realities of the holiday season. The episode opens with a warm introduction to the holidays and the shifting energy that comes with this time of year [00:00], setting the tone for a discussion rooted in nostalgia, cultural awareness, and modern-day realities.
 
The hosts reflect on childhood Christmas memories and past holiday crazes, revisiting the toys, traditions, and moments that defined earlier eras [02:47], before examining how Christmas hits differently in adulthood—especially when navigating single life, expectations, and social pressure during the season [06:05]. From there, the conversation expands into cultural perspectives on how Christmas is celebrated across communities, highlighting both shared traditions and meaningful differences [08:56].
 
A deeper historical lens is applied as the crew breaks down the origins and evolution of Christmas, unpacking how religion, capitalism, and culture have reshaped the holiday over time [12:05]. That history connects directly to a discussion on Christmas crazes, consumer trends, and the role of marketing, questioning what gets lost when tradition becomes transactional [14:57]. The symbolism of Santa Claus and cultural identity is also explored, challenging how myths are constructed and who they are designed to serve [18:07].
 
As the episode progresses, the conversation turns toward historical revisionism and dominant cultural narratives, examining how certain stories are amplified while others are erased [37:37]. This naturally leads into a candid discussion about Black identity, the African American experience, and cultural inclusion during the holidays [39:34], followed by a thoughtful breakdown of Kwanzaa as a cultural alternative that emphasizes community, heritage, and self-determination [42:58].
 
Lighter moments balance the depth as the hosts touch on sports as part of holiday traditions [46:35], before diving into the timeless role of Christmas movies and holiday music in shaping seasonal mood and memory [54:41]. The conversation then turns to celebrity commentary and controversies surrounding Christmas, highlighting how public figures influence cultural debates during the season [01:00:51].
 
As the episode winds down, Mandii, A-King, and Jayson discuss the realities of navigating family plans and emotional boundaries during the holidays [01:01:19], along with the often-overlooked workplace dynamics, expectations, and burnout that come with end-of-year professional life [01:05:36]. The episode closes with reflective energy, positioning the holiday season as both a moment of pause and a bridge into the new year ahead. 
 
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Selective Ignorance: Ep.43 | Christmas: Capitalism, Christianity & The Claus

This episode of Decisions, Decisions features the OMG Girlz as they stop by for a wide-ranging conversation covering their growth into womanhood, zodiac signs, ice breakers, and the realities of motherhood. The group talks about DMs, celebrity crushes, fanning out over famous faces, and the artists that shaped their sound, before jumping into playful moments like a dare with an acapella nursery rhyme and a quick-pick debate between finances and “sizes” (IYKYK) . The discussion continues into dating dynamics, navigating men who see multiple people, dating criminals, crashing out on a man, lessons learned from regret, and what fans can expect from their upcoming music.
 
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EP 452: I Need Me A Criminal (feat. OMG Girlz)

You've Got Decisions: Two Bold Empowered Women Helped Me Find My Freedom

In this 2025 Year-End Wrap-Up episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by a special roundtable featuring Deante Kyle, Jason “Jah” Lee, and JoJo Alonzo for a wide-ranging reflection on the defining political, cultural, and personal moments of 2025. The conversation opens with a sweeping review of the year’s political climate and cultural shifts [00:52], setting the tone for a thoughtful breakdown of how public policy, media narratives, and social movements shaped everyday life.
 
From there, the panel transitions into personal reflections on navigating 2025 as individuals [03:37], leading into an honest discussion around neurodivergence and identity [04:06], including how language, labels, and self-definition evolved throughout the year [05:22]. The group examines stereotypes and community dynamics [08:03], before unpacking the lasting societal impact of the pandemic [10:15] and how it reshaped ideas around corporate responsibility, humanity, and social justice [11:59].
 
As the conversation deepens, the hosts challenge modern ideas of victimhood and accountability [13:12], segueing into a critical analysis of celebrity involvement in politics [16:33] and the outsized influence public figures wield within Black communities [18:19]. They discuss the rise of controversial personalities [20:56], emphasizing the urgent need for stronger, more intentional Black voices in media [23:08] and increased investment in Black-owned platforms and storytelling [25:56].
 
The episode also interrogates celebrity idolization through the lens of figures like Diddy [27:48], expanding into broader conversations around cultural representation in entertainment [30:09], performative allyship [32:00], and the dangers of celebrity worship [34:19]. The panel revisits the complexity of victimhood narratives [36:34], questioning how money, power, and morality intersect in public discourse [39:12].
 
In the final stretch, the discussion turns toward the future—examining the rapid evolution of AI and technology [41:15], the environmental concerns tied to innovation [46:41], and what these developments mean for humanity moving forward. The episode concludes with reflective final thoughts on lessons learned in 2025 and the importance of individual action, community care, and accountability as society looks ahead [50:22].
 
This year-end conversation offers a layered, unfiltered look at politics, culture, technology, and identity—cementing Selective Ignorance as a space for critical thought, honest dialogue, and forward-thinking reflection.
 
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Selective Ignorance: Ep. 42 | 2025 Year End Wrap Up (Sort Of) Part. 1 feat. Deante Kyle, JoJo Alonzo & Jason "Jah" Lee

This week the ladies are joined by comedian Tahir Moore for a conversation covering everything from food debates and big group dinners to navigating parenting moments like his daughter bringing a boy home. Tahir shares his experience living in an open and poly relationship, including how it started, traveling with partners, dealing with jealousy, going to therapy, and the reactions from his therapist and his children. The trio also talks about the dynamics within multiple-partner households, boundaries around voyeurism, partner disagreements, and how presence is shared among everyone involved. During Truth and Dare they explore desires, assertiveness, intimacy challenges, early experiences, and a vibrator sales dare before moving into Heauxtry and closing with Tahir’s biggest lesson from being poly.
 

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EP 451: Our Poly Family Getaway (feat. Tahir Moore )

You've Got Decisions: How Should I Feel? He May Have a Baby!

In this expansive episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B sits down with super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and Jason “Jah” Lee for a deep, multilayered conversation that bridges culture, technology, ethics, and identity. The episode opens with Mandii’s intro and book promo [00:00] before the crew dives into the evolving intersection of sci-fi and reality [00:54], exploring how futuristic concepts—from AI to virtual identity—are rapidly becoming part of everyday life.
 
They quickly shift into the impact of celebrity controversies and the algorithm-driven world of social media [02:17], highlighting how online behavior distorts public perception. This leads to a candid exploration of ignorance in social interactions [03:49], examining the blurred lines between intention, offense, and personal accountability.
 
The discussion broadens into cultural biases and stereotypes [21:25], unpacking how upbringing, environment, and media shape the ways people interpret the world. That conversation sets the stage for a rich breakdown of Apple TV’s Pluribus[31:45], where the group examines its philosophical themes, including collective identity [34:44], the pursuit of happiness [37:39], and the role of suffering in defining human experience [40:11].
 
As the hosts navigate cultural perspectives and language barriers [42:28], they reflect on autonomy, free will, and the human experience [45:18], tying these concepts to larger societal structures like capitalism versus socialism [48:09]. This flows into a discussion on the ripple effects of individual actions [51:34], especially in relation to convenience, overconsumption, fast fashion, and how happiness often comes with hidden ethical costs [54:38].
 
The complexity of choice becomes a major theme, as the group unpacks the illusion of choice and the manufactured nature of happiness [01:00:02], eventually highlighting why genuine choice remains essential to humanity [01:02:44].
 
Race, identity, and internal community dynamics surface next, with an honest conversation about colorism and its impact within the Black community [01:11:55]. From there, the hosts turn to tipping culture and stereotypes [01:17:06], exposing how social expectations shape perceptions of class, service, and respect. That leads to a humorous yet pointed discussion on punctuality [01:23:45], exploring the deeper cultural meanings behind being late—or being on time.
 
The episode wraps with a reflection on accountability and growth in public discourse [01:28:59], and finally, the complexities of family dynamics, misinformation, and how beliefs evolve over generations [01:37:11].
 
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Selective Ignorance: Ep. 41 | AI vs. Autonomy, Decade Old Tweets & Non-Apologies feat. Jason "Jah" Lee

In this powerful episode, certified dating and relationship coach Allison Wellington joins Mandy and Weezy to break down the realities of modern dating for high-achieving women.
From income gaps to non-monogamy, political dealbreakers to long-distance ultimatums—no topic is off-limits. Whether you’re swiping through apps or managing a million-dollar business, this episode Alison delivers strong advice and hard truths for navigating love, relationships, and self-worth.
 
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EP 419: Dating Woes For High Achieving Women (Ft. Alison Wellington)

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