Can A Physical Abuser Like Diddy Ever Change?

In the podcast episode of 'Hidden Killers With Tony Brueski,' psychotherapist and author Shavaun Scott discusses the allegations against Sean "Diddy" Combs, focusing on the difficulty of changing abusive behaviors, particularly for someone with a long history of such actions. Scott highlights that Combs, at 57, is unlikely to change his sadistic tendencies. The conversation also explores the common fantasy among victims that their abusers can change, a belief often rooted in trauma and cognitive distortion. They discuss how therapy can help victims recognize and break free from these harmful patterns. Scott explains the concept of trauma bonding, where victims may develop a distorted affection for their abusers, making it difficult to leave abusive relationships. They emphasize the importance of grounding hope in reality, as unrealistic hope can leave victims vulnerable to further harm. The discussion concludes with a critique of Combs' public apology and skepticism about its sincerity and effectiveness.

Main Points

- Sean "Diddy" Combs faces new allegations and potential charges, with a federal grand jury convening to hear from accusers.

- Combs' history of abusive behavior and the low likelihood of change at his age.

- Victims often hold onto the fantasy that their abusers can change, a belief rooted in trauma and cognitive distortion.

- Therapy can help victims recognize and break free from harmful patterns and trauma bonds.

- Trauma bonding explains why victims might develop a distorted affection for their abusers.

- Emphasis on the importance of grounding hope in reality to avoid further harm.

- Critique of Combs' public apology as insincere and ineffective in addressing his abusive behavior.

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Release date

Lydbog: 7. juni 2024