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Why Can AI Teach Us to Better Understand Our Children?

“My child is a human being, not a machine!” You might reflexively object like that. Please don’t rush to reject the idea. The original intention of this book is absolutely not to “mechanize” parenting, and even less to teach you to replace your warm embrace with some complicated app or surveillance device. On the contrary, this book hopes to draw lessons from the five most core, most battle-tested algorithmic ways of thinking that emerged during decades of artificial intelligence development, and offer you a brand-new perspective that is both highly logical and deeply warm, so you can decode those confusing, sometimes infuriating “secret codes” in your child’s behavior at different stages of growth.

Voices from Parents: Have you ever felt the same?

Before we embark on this journey, let’s honestly listen to some real parental thoughts that surface in the middle of the night. See if any of these have also lingered in your mind:

“Looking at the parenting book that says ‘feed on a schedule,’ then looking at the little devil in my arms who never follows the rules, I really feel like a failure. Are everyone else’s babies angels and only mine is this difficult?”

“My son is two years old and says ‘no’ more times a day than he eats meals. I feel like I’m fighting with him every single day; my patience is almost worn out. I just want to know: when will this terrible phase finally end?”

“Ever since my daughter started elementary school, we fight every day over homework. Threats, bribes—I’ve tried everything, but the effect always wears off quickly. I’m really worried: does she hate studying from the very beginning?”

Behind these voices lies a dilemma shared by modern parents: we live in an era of information explosion. We can easily access massive amounts of parenting knowledge, yet that knowledge is often fragmented or even contradictory. We are surrounded by all kinds of “standard answers” and “success stories.” The moment our own child deviates from that “perfect growth curve,” we immediately fall into deep self-doubt and anxiety.

AI thinking is precisely the key to breaking this dilemma. It does not provide any “absolutely correct” answer; instead, it gives you a “problem-solving thinking framework.” It teaches you to act like an excellent engineer:

- Observe data (your child’s behavior) - Analyze patterns (the needs behind the behavior) - Form hypotheses (try different parenting approaches) - Validate results (observe your child’s reactions) - Continuously iterate and optimize

It helps you shift from the mindset of “looking for a universal standard answer” to “building a unique model that fits your own child.”

How Does AI Thinking Dissolve Parenting Anxiety?

Inspired by AI thinking, you will be pleasantly surprised to discover that parenting is no longer a chaotic war full of uncertainty, but a logical process that can be continuously optimized. You will learn to observe, understand, and guide your child in a more systematic way, thereby freeing yourself from needless anxiety and becoming a more relaxed, wiser, and happier parent.

About the Author

Zhang Yinglun PhD in AI Algorithms (U.S.), father of one daughter. Minored in educational psychology; technology writer. Specializes in translating AI logic into everyday life strategies. Has long researched “how technological thinking can improve family decision-making.” He hopes every parent can understand their child as systematically as one fine-tunes a model.

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E-bog: 4. december 2025