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The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts

Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. 

 

Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.

 

From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!

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Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com 
 
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“No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
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You've Got Decisions: My Man Wants a 3Some but I’m the Jealous Type

Mandii and Weezy are joined by certified sex and relationship coach, board-certified sexologist, and registered nurse Bryanna Gená for an honest and hilarious conversation about purity culture, ethical non-monogamy, and what relationship labels are supposed to mean. Bryanna explains why opening a relationship will not repair the damage caused by cheating, how emotional intimacy can complicate casual sex, and why someone who says they “don't like labels” may simply be misaligned with what you want. The ladies also discuss dating short kings, how late is too late for a date, play Hoetry, and hear Bryanna’s wild story about catching an ex lying through an Instagram club video before discussing her book, 4 Play Starts at Breakfast.
 
“No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
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EP 486: No Label, No Loving! feat. Bryanna Gena

You've Got Decisions: WTF is MGen? + A Good Ol Nasty Birthday

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and headline king Jason “Jah” Lee for a wide-ranging conversation exploring politics, current events, media, sports, internet culture, and accountability. Mandii opens the show by previewing another packed episode [ 00:38 ]. After introducing the producers and celebrating a birthday [ 03:02 ], the crew eases into the conversation with playful banter about Spanish language skills, cultural identity, respectability politics, and internet clapbacks [ 03:25 ][ 07:22 ][ 08:25 ]. Mandii's signature "Ignorant Take" argues that society has lost its sense of humor, using the story of a Welsh man arrested for standing on a hospital roof dressed as the Grim Reaper as an example of where comedy collides with public outrage [ 11:47 ]. That conversation expands after reacting to a viral Tourette syndrome traffic stop video [ 17:42 ], before debating fake medical emergencies, cheating, and the ethics of manipulating sympathy [ 22:56 ]. The segment concludes with discussion surrounding a fatal altercation inside a Tim Hortons, where a 75-year-old customer later died after suffering a medical episode during a fight, prompting questions about accountability, escalation, and public responsibility [ 25:34 ].
 
In "This Is America," the crew return to the Nolan Wells case, providing updates after reports that the official autopsy has been presented to a grand jury [ 28:15 ]. The crew discusses the complications surrounding a second autopsy after several organs were removed, debating how those limitations may affect future legal proceedings while examining whether responsibility extends beyond visible injuries alone [ 32:44 ]. The conversation then pivots toward national politics as the hosts examine growing momentum among progressive candidates heading into the upcoming midterm elections [ 34:16 ], before reacting to Cory Booker's criticism of Democratic leadership, political corruption, and institutional complacency [ 36:28 ]. They also unpack conversations surrounding AIPAC, campaign influence, and congressional term limits [ 40:13 ], while debating how progressive politicians are packaged, marketed, and received by voters [ 46:03 ].
 
Politics remains front and center as the crew reacts to a viral interview featuring Miami restaurateur Chef Creole, who publicly expressed regret over supporting Donald Trump after changes affecting Temporary Protected Status (TPS) created staffing challenges for his business [ 48:23 ]. That conversation expands into a broader discussion about immigration policy, voter expectations, and political consequences, particularly within immigrant communities [50:28 ].
 
The episode then shifts to sports and culture after former NBA players Enes Kanter and Royce White announce plans to declare for the WNBA, framing the move as a challenge to existing gender eligibility policies [ 58:46 ]. The hosts debate the broader implications for women's sports, gender identity, fairness, and public discourse [ 01:04:21], while also discussing reactions surrounding Sophie Cunningham [ 01:08:11 ] and examining whether most fans are genuinely invested in the debate or simply engaging with another viral controversy [ 01:11:49 ][ 01:13:10 ].
 
Closing out the episode, Mandii, A-King and Jah turn their attention to Kenny Smith's third marriage, discussing age gaps, prenuptial agreements, and the financial realities of modern marriage [ 01:14:11 ][ 01:15:31][ 01:17:48 ]. The conversation then shifts to the tragic case of a 24-year-old woman accused of scamming professional athletes who was later found dead in a New Jersey swimming pool, prompting reflections on internet fame, crime, and personal accountability [ 01:18:38 ]. The episode concludes with reactions to A$AP Rocky publicly distancing himself from a graphic designer after a private direct message was shared online, leading to a broader conversation about privacy, clout chasing, professional boundaries, and trust in the social media era [ 01:20:57 ][01:27:14 ]. Wrapping with final thoughts and shoutouts [ 01:35:18 ], the crew delivers another thought-provoking episode blending humor, politics, sports, internet culture, and the complex conversations shaping today's headlines. 
 
No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
 
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Selective Ignorance: Ep. 76 | Dumb Dems, Dumb Men & Dumb DMs

Killah Bee joins Mandii B and Weezy WTF for a hilarious and unfiltered conversation about whether sex-positive women can still find lasting love, when women should stop dating men for their potential, and why lifestyle compatibility can matter more than a paycheck. The trio debates body counts, dating 9-to-5 workers, male best friends with house keys, the lack of attractive men in Atlanta, and how porn can affect pleasure. Killah Bee also reveals why she once tried dating women, Weezy shares a wild story from a gay club, and the episode ends with a brutally funny hookup story involving a man begging his sister for $20.
 
“No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
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Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages
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EP 485: The $20 ICK feat. Killah Bee

Trigger Warning: Domestic Abuse** 
 
Mandii and Weezy reflect on high school reunions, homeownership, motherhood, and whether a $250,000 dream wedding is worth the price. This week’s listener ended a 10-year relationship with her high school sweetheart after years of feeling unappreciated and a frightening physical altercation. Now she wonders if her intense new romance is genuine love or a trauma response as she considers moving in and getting matching tattoos after only three months.
 
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com 
 
Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages
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“No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
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You've Got Decisions: Can You Really Catch Feelings in Three Months?

Matchmaker, author, and Love Match Atlanta personality Shae Primus joins Mandii B and Weezy for a raw conversation about dating successful professionals, what really happens at a vetted play party, and the differences between kink, BDSM, and the lifestyle. Shae opens up about healing from church hurt and sexual trauma, practicing responsible nonmonogamy, having sex without emotional attachment, skipping aftercare, and using sex magic and orgasmic manifestation. The ladies also unpack a shocking marriage dilemma involving a baby mama, six secret dating apps, years of deception, and a wife struggling to decide whether being single is better than staying with a cheating husband. Plus, Shae previews her upcoming book, Touched: Stories of Pleasure, Power and Awakening.

 
“No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
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Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!
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EP 484: Heauxing Responsibly feat.Shae Primus

You've Got Decisions: Update: Do I Make Him Not Feel Bad For Cheating?

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jason Rodriguez, and headline king Jason “Jah” Lee for a wide-ranging conversation exploring American politics, relationships, self-defense laws, free speech, travel, race, and celebrity culture. The episode opens with a preview of the week's biggest stories [ 00:38 ], before the full crew checks in and shares stories about travel mishaps, delayed flights, and the ever-changing airline experience [ 02:28 ][ 04:06 ]. The conversation then shifts to a thought-provoking debate over which underrepresented community has the greatest chance of producing a future President of the United States, examining the political trajectories of figures like Kamala Harris and Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez (AOC) while discussing the unique barriers facing Black women, Muslim Americans, and other marginalized groups [ 07:41 ].
 
In this week's "Double Down or Take It Back," Mandii revisits her viral statement that "marriage is for broke women," explaining the financial philosophy behind the comment while unpacking the realities of marriage, divorce, wealth-building, and treating long-term relationships as business partnerships [ 22:58 ]. The discussion continues in "This Is America," where the hosts examine a controversial Jacksonville, Florida, Stand Your Ground caseinvolving two Black teenagers charged with first-degree murder despite questions surrounding self-defense [ 35:28 ]. The crew explores the legal gray areas surrounding self-defense laws, prosecutorial discretion, and the burden of proof, debating how race and circumstance often shape public perception and courtroom outcomes [ 39:00 ][ 41:15 ].
 
The conversation then pivots to a lighter—but surprisingly divisive—topic after a viral debate about whether Uber passengers should be allowed to curse during rides [ 43:35 ]. The hosts unpack the balance between customer rights, driver expectations, personal boundaries, and respect in shared spaces [ 45:37 ][ 48:46 ]. From there, they discuss reports of an LGBTQ+ cruise being denied entry into Turkey and Egypt, using the story to explore international travel, cultural differences, government policies, and safety concerns for LGBTQ+ travelers abroad [ 56:29 ][ 59:30 ][ 01:07:38 ].
 
Closing out the episode, the crew dives into "Celebrities Say the Darnedest Things," examining the idea of the right message coming from the wrong messenger [ 01:09:13 ]. They briefly revisit ongoing conversations surrounding Ray J's controversial comments about sexually transmitted diseases [ 01:12:53 ], before questioning Safaree's credibility and the importance of who delivers advice in public discourse [ 01:14:03 ][ 01:14:57 ]. The discussion expands after reacting to a white content creator's comments about Black women, sparking a broader debate about dating preferences, racial bias, beauty standards, and the difference between personal preference and systemic prejudice [ 01:16:45 ][ 01:18:30 ][ 01:24:09 ]. The episode concludes with a conversation inspired by Stephen A. Smith's daughter joking about placing him in a nursing home, prompting reflections on elder care, family responsibility, community support, and how different cultures approach caring for aging parents [ 01:27:25 ][01:30:26 ][ 01:36:38 ]. Wrapping up with final thoughts and weekly plugs [ 01:40:01 ], the crew delivers another engaging blend of humor, cultural commentary, and nuanced discussion on the stories shaping today's conversations. 
 
No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
 
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Selective Ignorance: Ep. 74 | Right Message, Wrong Messenger

Mandii B and Weezy sit down with Troy Millings and Rashad Bilal of Earn Your Leisure for a candid conversation about how money shapes dating, marriage and business. They break down financial due diligence before marriage, the risks of combining debt and assets, buying a house before the wedding, expensive ceremonies, bringing romantic partners into a company, workplace attraction and whether image plays a role in business success. The conversation also turns to OnlyFans, the business of sex, the barriers Black women face in podcasting, mainstream brand support and why Black-owned platforms must do more to champion one another, before ending with a wild discussion about IG baddies and the economics of modern dating.
 
“No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
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Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages
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Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!
Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions

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EP 485: The $20 ICK feat. Killah Bee

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