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Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. 

 

Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.

 

From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!

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On this episode of Decisions, Decisions, Mandii B and Weezy are joined by Joshua Adams, better known as Mr. What Chair, for an honest and unfiltered conversation about sex, dating, disability, and the search for real intimacy. Joshua opens up about losing his virginity to a sex worker, spending years in transactional sexual relationships, navigating dating in a wheelchair, and why he has never experienced a traditional romantic relationship. He also gets candid about wheelchair sex, threesomes, rejection, childhood trauma, mental health, therapy, and learning to see himself as a blessing instead of a burden. From hilarious demonstrations to deeply emotional revelations, this episode challenges assumptions about disability while exploring what it truly means to feel desired, supported, and loved.

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“No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
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EP 482: A Freak in the seats feat. Mr.Whatchair (Joshua Adams)

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You've Got Decisions: C0rn May Be Ruining Me! Help!

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and Jason “Jah” Lee, for a timely conversation covering hip-hop culture, media legacy, politics, sports, race, and misinformation. The episode opens with Mandii's monologue and a preview of the week's biggest conversations [00:57 ], before A-King introduces Dreamville's new 144-page print magazine, The Falloff [ 02:28 ]. The crew celebrates the publication's commitment to long-form hip-hop journalism and reflects on its featured tribute to Combat Jack, using the moment to discuss the enduring impact of The Combat Jack Show on podcasting, rap journalism, and today's media landscape [ 04:02 ][ 08:33 ]. After Jason joins the conversation, the crew jokes about missing Jay-Z's historic Yankee Stadium performances and the cultural significance surrounding the concerts [13:07 ], before Mandii recaps her experience working Essence Festival and exploring New Orleans, sharing observations about the city's culture, music, and community [ 14:26 ]. That experience leads into an unexpected encounter with Hebrew Israelite street preachers on Canal Street, prompting an honest discussion about ideology, misogyny, and religious extremism [ 19:50 ][ 28:11 ].
 
The conversation then returns to Jay-Z, as the crew revisits his Yankee Stadium concerts [ 29:33 ], including a humorous detour before breaking down his viral freestyle and the political references woven throughout the performance [ 34:13 ][ 38:00 ]. The hosts unpack Jay-Z's comments surrounding Target boycotts, Colin Kaepernick, and corporate activism [ 40:20 ], while clarifying misconceptions about Kaepernick's NFL settlement and the persistent myths surrounding non-disclosure agreements [ 48:09 ][ 52:12 ]. They also examine the importance of offering thoughtful criticism without falling into fan culture or blind loyalty [ 55:18 ], before debating whether modern boycotts remain effective tools for creating lasting change [ 57:19 ].
 
The latter half of the episode turns toward justice and public accountability with updates in the Nolan Wells case, including discussions surrounding independent investigations and Colin Kaepernick's support for funding a private autopsy [ 58:43 ]. The hosts examine the ongoing concerns many Black families have about safety in predominantly white spaces, institutional accountability, and recurring patterns that continue to shape public trust [ 01:03:28 ][01:08:59 ], while reflecting on allyship, proximity, and the responsibilities of those who claim to stand in solidarity [01:15:26 ].
 
Closing out the episode, the crew reacts to the political controversy surrounding Caitlin Clark and the WNBA, discussing a letter from Republican lawmakers alleging racial bias against the league's biggest star [ 01:18:26 ]. The hosts unpack the intersections of race, misogyny, media narratives, and "white knighting" in women's sports [01:22:00 ][ 01:33:49 ], before addressing Kodak Black's comments suggesting a "KKK" alliance involving Kanye West and Kendrick Lamar [ 01:37:46 ]. The conversation concludes by firmly debunking the false online claim that the Ku Klux Klan was originally founded by Black people, emphasizing the importance of historical accuracy, responsible media consumption, and challenging misinformation before it spreads [ 01:41:21 ]. The episode wraps with final reflections and the crew's signature sign-off [ 01:53:31 ], delivering another thought-provoking blend of cultural commentary, historical context, and informed debate. 
 
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Selective Ignorance: Ep. 72 | 3 Nights, White Knights and Israelites

On this solo episode of Decisions, Decisions, Mandii and Weezy get back in their niche with a hilarious and honest catch-up about fan pushback, age-gap relationships, platforming love, Anwar’s viral appeal, pets interrupting intimacy, robots, aliens, and why people might be scarier than both. The conversation gets deeper as they unpack friendship breakups, messy behavior, political differences, family dynamics, Pride Month, mom shaming, boundaries, and identity, before jumping into “We Listen & We Judge” with a funny but real conversation about backhanded compliments, hair, relationships, skincare, fans putting dirt on their names, pillow talking, and what gets you exiled from the group chat.
 
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EP 481: Happy Heauxs Ain’t Hatin’

You've Got Decisions: How Do I Make Him Not Feel Bad For Cheating? + Coke Can D

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, Jason “Jah” Lee, and Yomi for a wide-ranging conversation examining American politics, Black identity, race, parenting, religion, celebrity culture, and the social issues shaping today's headlines. The episode opens with discussions surrounding the 2028 presidential landscape and speculation about Kamala Harris' political future [ 02:52 ], before the crew reflects on the Fourth of July and the complicated relationship many Black Americans have with patriotism and national celebrations [06:03 ]. From there, they take a nostalgic detour into the influence of '90s R&B and hip-hop on sexuality, relationships, and cultural norms [ 08:55 ], before shifting toward today's economic realities with conversations about the housing crisis, affordability, and the financial pressures facing everyday Americans [ 11:55 ]. The discussion continues by unpacking the political complexities surrounding the Israel-Gaza conflict and America's role in global affairs [ 15:03], leading into a thoughtful conversation about patriotism, national identity, and the historical relationship between Black Americans and military service [ 18:00 ][ 20:53 ]. The opening segment concludes with reflections on what these ongoing issues could mean for the country's future [ 23:55 ].
 
As the conversation resumes, the crew examines the silence of influential artists and public figures on major political issues, while debating whether financial interests often outweigh activism [ 37:42 ]. They then turn their attention to Texas legislation requiring Bible instruction in public schools, unpacking the constitutional, political, and educational debates surrounding religion in the classroom [ 38:41 ][ 39:59 ]. The hosts explore the historical relationship between religion and American government [ 41:25 ], while questioning the broader implications of mandatory Bible readings and the intersection of faith, politics, and public education [ 43:04 ][ 44:30 ].
 
The latter half of the episode tackles difficult conversations around child neglect, obesity, and parental responsibility, using a recent case study to examine where personal accountability, public health, and government intervention intersect [48:13 ][ 51:07 ]. The discussion expands into the often-overlooked relationship between mental health and obesity, encouraging a more compassionate and nuanced perspective on wellness [ 56:33 ]. From there, the crew reacts to Amber Rose's comments about race, success, and privilege, using the moment to explore the ongoing realities of racial inequality in America [ 01:04:05 ]. The conversation closes by examining the challenges of raising children in a racially and culturally complex society [ 01:15:31 ], discussing the influence of celebrity culture on young people [ 01:18:10 ], and debating how music, entertainment, and popular culture shape behavior, values, and public perception [01:23:44 ][ 01:29:45 ][ 01:35:26 ]. Blending humor, social commentary, and thoughtful debate, the episode challenges listeners to think critically about politics, identity, parenting, and the cultural forces influencing everyday life. 
 
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Selective Ignorance: Ep. 71 | Bible Thumpers & Bad Parenting

*TRIGGER WARNING* - Mentions of depression and s*icide This week on Decisions, Decisions, Mandii B and Weezy link up with Maiya The Don for a real, honest, and super relatable convo about leveling up. Fresh off dropping her latest album Precious Cargo, Maiya gets into her journey with sobriety, staying disciplined, hitting the gym, and even choosing celibacy while putting herself first. She also keeps it real about body image, weight loss, and protecting her peace at all costs. Of course, they dive into dating too—Maiya talks about setting her standards high and navigating relationships her way, no compromises.
 
“No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
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EP 480: How To Spot A Dusty (feat. Maiya the Don)

You've Got Decisions: Decade Long Stagnant Relationship

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, Jason “Jah” Lee, and Yomi for a wide-ranging conversation unpacking current events, immigration, celebrity culture, criminal justice, sports, and the court of public opinion. The episode opens with introductions and a preview of the week's biggest stories [ 00:00 ][ 01:07 ], before the crew settles into lighthearted beach and producer banter [ 03:31 ] and a detour into farmers market culture [ 06:16 ]. They quickly revisit and correct last week's IVF mix-up, clarifying the facts surrounding the widely discussed case and reflecting on the importance of accountability when discussing breaking news [ 08:22 ]. From there, the conversation shifts to broader discussions around relationships and gender expectations [ 12:28 ], before reacting to Megyn Kelly's comments celebrating the revocation of Temporary Protected Status for Haitian immigrants [ 13:44 ]. Mandii shares her experience attending the Haiti vs. Morocco World Cup match, sparking a larger discussion about geography, cultural awareness, and why so many Americans mistakenly fail to recognize Morocco as part of Africa [ 18:04 ]. The crew continues with a thoughtful conversation about immigration, Haiti's history, and the importance of historical context in today's political debates [ 22:58 ].
 
The discussion then pivots toward crime, accountability, and internet discourse, beginning with the latest Knicks social media debates [ 30:27 ] before unpacking the Terrion Arnold-linked Tampa kidnapping and robbery case [ 31:20]. As more details emerge—including the stolen Bible call [ 32:55 ], text messages allegedly connecting those involved [ 34:27 ], and debates over retaliation, justice, and so-called "lick back" culture [ 39:07 ][ 43:18 ]—the hosts examine how social media often blurs the line between accountability and entertainment. The conversation also touches on systemic education challenges through a discussion about cursive instruction [ 45:54 ], before shifting to the viral story of a JPMorgan Chase DEI director who lost her job after dumping the contents of a Knicks trash can into the street [ 48:47 ]. The crew debates workplace ethics, public behavior, and viral accountability [ 52:08 ][ 54:57 ], while also discussing the role of bystander videos, cell phone footage, and "snitching" culture [ 58:23 ].
 
The latter half of the episode focuses heavily on the Big Tigger domestic abuse case, beginning with discussion of the now-viral Ring camera footage [ 59:08 ][ 59:42 ]. The hosts break down Georgia's battery statute [ 01:00:23 ], explore why public opinion has been divided [ 01:01:49 ], and examine how a person's past can shape internet reactions to present-day allegations [ 01:06:42 ]. Comparisons to other high-profile international cases [ 01:08:55 ], conversations about emotional blind spots [ 01:11:30 ], and a broader debate around morality, accountability, and the seven deadly sins [ 01:15:15 ] all lead into updates on the case itself [ 01:20:55 ].
 
Closing out the episode, the crew turns to entertainment and music, beginning with reactions to Oprah Winfrey's story about Whitney Houston and the resulting online backlash [ 01:26:34 ][ 01:33:22 ], before examining the complicated relationship many audiences have with Oprah herself [ 01:36:20 ]. After a brief detour into NBA merchandise, Knicks collectibles, and sneaker culture [ 01:38:05 ][ 01:38:33 ][ 01:39:23 ], the conversation shifts to Lizzo's criticism of label support amid declining album sales [ 01:39:48 ]. The hosts unpack the realities of music marketing in the streaming era [ 01:41:01 ], public opinion [ 01:42:43 ], body positivity [ 01:44:10 ], and conversations surrounding image, audience perception, and media narratives [ 01:47:38 ][ 01:50:00 ]. They also discuss politics, album branding, commercial performance, and accountability in today's music industry [ 01:51:39 ][ 01:53:24 ][ 01:54:36 ], before celebrating the BET Awards' Lauryn Hill tribute [ 01:56:11 ] and reflecting on her enduring influence through the lens of "Ex-Factor" [ 01:58:18 ]. The episode concludes with thoughts on legacy, prayers for former NFL star Chris Johnson following his ALS diagnosis, Essence Fest, a preview of the upcoming bonus episode, one final mystery surrounding the infamous Knicks trash can, and the show's signature sign-off [ 02:00:48 ][ 02:02:46 ][ 02:04:57 ][02:06:30 ][ 02:08:15 ]. 
 
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Selective Ignorance: Ep. 70 | Court Of Public Opinion Strikes Again

Mandii and Weezy kick things off solo with laughs, singing, and a new “You Got Decisions” fan mail segment, where a listener writes in asking if her boyfriend is weird or if she’s overthinking it after he didn’t want to have sex while she was pregnant. Then, they’re joined virtually by Chloe Bailey to talk about starring in STRUNG, the psychological thriller directed by Malcolm D. Lee, where she plays a talented violinist who takes a prestigious job tutoring the gifted daughter of an influential and mysterious family, only to get pulled into their luxurious world as dark secrets begin to surface. Chloe opens up about what drew her to the script, learning instruments, filming sex scenes with intimacy coordinators, acting alongside Coco Jones, dating advice, walking away from bad situations, and how the movie challenges her character’s safety, dreams, and sanity.
 
“No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
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EP 480: How To Spot A Dusty (feat. Maiya the Don)

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