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Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. 

 

Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.

 

From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!

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You've Got Decisions: Decade Long Stagnant Relationship

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, Jason “Jah” Lee, and Yomi for a wide-ranging conversation unpacking current events, immigration, celebrity culture, criminal justice, sports, and the court of public opinion. The episode opens with introductions and a preview of the week's biggest stories [ 00:00 ][ 01:07 ], before the crew settles into lighthearted beach and producer banter [ 03:31 ] and a detour into farmers market culture [ 06:16 ]. They quickly revisit and correct last week's IVF mix-up, clarifying the facts surrounding the widely discussed case and reflecting on the importance of accountability when discussing breaking news [ 08:22 ]. From there, the conversation shifts to broader discussions around relationships and gender expectations [ 12:28 ], before reacting to Megyn Kelly's comments celebrating the revocation of Temporary Protected Status for Haitian immigrants [ 13:44 ]. Mandii shares her experience attending the Haiti vs. Morocco World Cup match, sparking a larger discussion about geography, cultural awareness, and why so many Americans mistakenly fail to recognize Morocco as part of Africa [ 18:04 ]. The crew continues with a thoughtful conversation about immigration, Haiti's history, and the importance of historical context in today's political debates [ 22:58 ].
 
The discussion then pivots toward crime, accountability, and internet discourse, beginning with the latest Knicks social media debates [ 30:27 ] before unpacking the Terrion Arnold-linked Tampa kidnapping and robbery case [ 31:20]. As more details emerge—including the stolen Bible call [ 32:55 ], text messages allegedly connecting those involved [ 34:27 ], and debates over retaliation, justice, and so-called "lick back" culture [ 39:07 ][ 43:18 ]—the hosts examine how social media often blurs the line between accountability and entertainment. The conversation also touches on systemic education challenges through a discussion about cursive instruction [ 45:54 ], before shifting to the viral story of a JPMorgan Chase DEI director who lost her job after dumping the contents of a Knicks trash can into the street [ 48:47 ]. The crew debates workplace ethics, public behavior, and viral accountability [ 52:08 ][ 54:57 ], while also discussing the role of bystander videos, cell phone footage, and "snitching" culture [ 58:23 ].
 
The latter half of the episode focuses heavily on the Big Tigger domestic abuse case, beginning with discussion of the now-viral Ring camera footage [ 59:08 ][ 59:42 ]. The hosts break down Georgia's battery statute [ 01:00:23 ], explore why public opinion has been divided [ 01:01:49 ], and examine how a person's past can shape internet reactions to present-day allegations [ 01:06:42 ]. Comparisons to other high-profile international cases [ 01:08:55 ], conversations about emotional blind spots [ 01:11:30 ], and a broader debate around morality, accountability, and the seven deadly sins [ 01:15:15 ] all lead into updates on the case itself [ 01:20:55 ].
 
Closing out the episode, the crew turns to entertainment and music, beginning with reactions to Oprah Winfrey's story about Whitney Houston and the resulting online backlash [ 01:26:34 ][ 01:33:22 ], before examining the complicated relationship many audiences have with Oprah herself [ 01:36:20 ]. After a brief detour into NBA merchandise, Knicks collectibles, and sneaker culture [ 01:38:05 ][ 01:38:33 ][ 01:39:23 ], the conversation shifts to Lizzo's criticism of label support amid declining album sales [ 01:39:48 ]. The hosts unpack the realities of music marketing in the streaming era [ 01:41:01 ], public opinion [ 01:42:43 ], body positivity [ 01:44:10 ], and conversations surrounding image, audience perception, and media narratives [ 01:47:38 ][ 01:50:00 ]. They also discuss politics, album branding, commercial performance, and accountability in today's music industry [ 01:51:39 ][ 01:53:24 ][ 01:54:36 ], before celebrating the BET Awards' Lauryn Hill tribute [ 01:56:11 ] and reflecting on her enduring influence through the lens of "Ex-Factor" [ 01:58:18 ]. The episode concludes with thoughts on legacy, prayers for former NFL star Chris Johnson following his ALS diagnosis, Essence Fest, a preview of the upcoming bonus episode, one final mystery surrounding the infamous Knicks trash can, and the show's signature sign-off [ 02:00:48 ][ 02:02:46 ][ 02:04:57 ][02:06:30 ][ 02:08:15 ]. 
 
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Selective Ignorance: Ep. 70 | Court Of Public Opinion Strikes Again

Mandii and Weezy kick things off solo with laughs, singing, and a new “You Got Decisions” fan mail segment, where a listener writes in asking if her boyfriend is weird or if she’s overthinking it after he didn’t want to have sex while she was pregnant. Then, they’re joined virtually by Chloe Bailey to talk about starring in STRUNG, the psychological thriller directed by Malcolm D. Lee, where she plays a talented violinist who takes a prestigious job tutoring the gifted daughter of an influential and mysterious family, only to get pulled into their luxurious world as dark secrets begin to surface. Chloe opens up about what drew her to the script, learning instruments, filming sex scenes with intimacy coordinators, acting alongside Coco Jones, dating advice, walking away from bad situations, and how the movie challenges her character’s safety, dreams, and sanity.
 
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EP 479: Green Zones (feat. Chloe Bailey)

You've Got Decisions: SubDom Dilemma

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, headline king Jason “Jah” Lee, and Yomi for a wide-ranging conversation that blends culture, history, politics, gender dynamics, ethics, music, and modern social norms. The episode opens with a humorous discussion about dog owners, pet culture, and the ways people project social expectations onto public spaces [ 03:14 ], before transitioning into conversations about conspiracy theories, historical narratives, and the importance of understanding context when discussing major societal issues [ 06:10 ]. The crew reflects on the significance of Juneteenth and its place within American history and Black cultural identity [ 09:05 ], while also engaging in a spirited debate about regional identity, cultural geography, and whether Oklahoma belongs to the Midwest or the South [ 11:50 ]. The discussion circles back to the growing presence of pets in public spaces and the evolving expectations surrounding modern pet ownership [ 14:50 ].
 
As the episode progresses, the hosts tackle more nuanced conversations surrounding gender roles, societal expectations, and the ways women and men often reinforce traditional norms [ 23:53 ]. This leads into a broader discussion about platforming controversial figures, political discourse, and the responsibilities that come with amplifying certain viewpoints [ 33:02 ]. The crew examines conservative ideologies, gender dynamics, and the complexities of modern political identity [ 36:03 ], while also debating the balance between rights, responsibilities, and civic engagement in society [ 39:32 ]. The conversation then pivots into difficult ethical territory, exploring a controversial debate around cruel and unusual punishment [ 44:34 ], followed by a thought-provoking discussion about an IVF mix-up involving a Black child raised by a white family and the moral questions surrounding parenthood, race, and identity [ 47:52 ].
 
In the final stretch of the episode, the hosts unpack the ongoing conversation around vasectomies, family planning, and modern masculinity [ 58:30 ], leading into a candid debate about condom usage, birth control, and shared responsibility within relationships [ 01:06:17 ][ 01:07:57 ]. The discussion then shifts to music, with reflections on the legacy and influence of producer Tay Keith [ 01:12:44 ], before examining the business realities of music royalties, ownership, and financial longevity in the entertainment industry [ 01:15:05 ]. The crew closes out the episode with a conversation about legacy, reputation, and the impact individuals leave behind [ 01:19:59 ], before ending with a lively and nostalgic debate surrounding the highly anticipated B2K vs. Pretty Ricky Verzuz matchup and the lasting cultural significance of both groups [ 01:20:30 ]. Packed with humor, debate, and cultural insight, this episode explores how history, identity, relationships, and entertainment continue to shape the conversations happening today. 
 
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Selective Ignorance: Ep. 69 | Scammers, Shea Butter Baby & Sunday Service

Kyle Dion joins Mandii B and Weezy WTF for a wild episode of Decisions, Decisions as they talk terrible side quests, chaotic drug run stories, Barcelona adventures, dating in queer spaces, and the realities of being open about sexuality. Kyle opens up about meeting Weezy, his last sexual experience, dating men versus women, orgy stories, sex parties in Amsterdam, and what nightlife can teach you during your hoe phase. The crew also gets into squirting, smells, bisexuality, coming out for the community, Kehlani openly singing to women, afties etiquette, bad sexual experiences, and Weezy shares a nasty story that leaves the room stunned.

Now entering a new chapter, Dion releaes the deluxe edition of SOULAR on Juneteenth (June 19, 2026), featuring three brand new tracks, including focus single “Vanilla Skies” featuring Duckwrth continuing his tradition of pushing creative boundaries while staying rooted in the soulful artistry that defines him.
 
 
 
SOULAR Deluxe album - Stream link: https://kyle-dion.ffm.to/soular_deluxe
 
“No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
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EP 478: Going On A Side Quest (feat. Kyle Dion)

You've Got Decisions: Platonic Intimacy

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by A-King, Jason “Jah” Lee, and Yomi for a wide-ranging conversation that blends sports, politics, culture, technology, and modern relationships through the show's signature lens of curiosity and critical thinking. The episode opens with the crew celebrating the New York Knicks' Finals victory and the energy surrounding New York sports culture [ 02:00 ], before shifting into a discussion about the highly debated Karmelo Anthony trial and the public reaction surrounding the case [ 09:53 ]. The hosts reflect on the excitement of game-day experiences in New York City [ 19:51 ], highlighting the unique connection between sports, community, and civic pride. The conversation then expands into the upcoming FIFA World Cup and the ongoing challenge of increasing American soccer awareness and engagement [ 30:12 ], leading into a broader debate over whether the event is positioned to become one of the most controversial tournaments in recent memory [ 34:44 ].
 
As the discussion continues, the crew examines reports of discrimination, public embarrassment, and unequal treatment within international sports [ 38:04 ], while also addressing cultural misunderstandings and the impact of mispronunciations, stereotypes, and global ignorance [ 40:31 ]. They explore the evolution of football and soccer culture in America [ 42:22 ], as well as the unique experiences of fans navigating major international sporting events [45:30 ]. From there, the conversation pivots toward deeper societal issues, including racial bias within the legal system and the unequal application of justice [ 54:07 ], before emphasizing the importance of political engagement, civic responsibility, and community activism [ 01:01:32 ]. The hosts reflect on historical movements and the lessons they provide for modern struggles surrounding equality and justice [ 01:07:12 ].
 
The final stretch of the episode takes a fascinating turn into discussions about deception, manipulation, and the real-world consequences of unchecked lies, inspired by a documentary that sparks a broader conversation about accountability and trust [ 01:10:49 ]. The crew then examines Elon Musk’s rise to trillionaire status and the controversies surrounding his business practices [ 01:17:13 ], leading into a thoughtful debate on the ethical implications of technology, individualism, artificial intelligence, and innovations like Neuralink [ 01:22:51 ]. Closing out the episode, the hosts explore how economic realities are reshaping modern dating, relationships, and expectations between partners [ 01:37:44 ], advocating for a more empathetic and human-centered approach to connection in an increasingly transactional world. Blending humor, cultural commentary, and thought-provoking analysis, this episode offers a compelling look at the forces shaping society today. 
 
No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
 
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Selective Ignorance: Ep. 68 | Racism is Alive, Bigot Bot Hive & The Knicks In Five

We’re recapping the SOLD-OUT live show where Weezy finally popped out with her fiancé onstage (yes, in front of his family) and the brand-new audience game inspired by No Holds Barred. Then Weezy tells the full Central Park engagement story... yes engagement! Weezy also shares the emotional moment of telling her dad, plus a real talk convo on why marriage isn’t a status symbol and why nobody should be scared to leave. Finally, they get into wedding/bachelorette ideas like a warehouse rager, caviar & jollof, and more. 
 
“No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
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Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages
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Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!
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EP 479: Green Zones (feat. Chloe Bailey)

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