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Intended to inspire and entertain, best friends Jaci Marie & Chelsey Jade talk candidly about health, business, relationships, life, etc. You can expect the girls to be joined by occasional guests, reading friends' & fans' stories, & offering unsolicited but heartfelt advice. | Introduction music by Lowercase Committee | Cover art by Chloe Bruderer.

What We Said

This week on the What We Said Podcast, the girls are back with another advice column episode, diving into your dilemmas. Listeners wrote in asking how to deal with gifts you definitely don’t want to keep (and the clutter guilt that comes with them), how to navigate mom guilt in a world where way too much is expected of women, coming to terms with the possibility that your family or future might not look the way you once imagined, and many more juicy questions. Along the way, Jaci and Chelsey also share their thoughts on the latest hit series False Prophet and the devastating realities so many women have faced while living in cult environments like the one depicted on the show.

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WOMEN ARE TIRED

It’s been a while since Jaci and Chelsey have taken a trip down memory lane, and this time it’s less about how they met (we’ve covered that before) and more about how their lives — and the podcast — have evolved. They get into what it was really like starting What We Said, the blog that walked so the podcast could run, and all the random lore that’s built up along the way. Why pink and blue? Who stole Chelsey’s car? And how does Jaci keep ending up in the middle of scandals? If you’ve ever wanted the inside scoop on the girls, this episode answers it all.

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REVISITING OUR INSANE LORE

April has come and gone, which means it’s time for your What We Said hosts to break down their favorite things of the month. Entertainment takes center stage first, with TV show recommendations and a few good old-fashioned book picks. Of course, it wouldn’t be a Monthly Favorites episode without some head-to-toe product recs, including a standout skincare favorite. They wrap things up with an interesting conversation about tension — and the different ways it can elevate your overall look. Stay chic ladies!!

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APRIL FAVORITES!

Kenzie Elizabeth — the What We Said girls’ favorite hosting queen — is back for another episode all about the grandma lifestyle. Kenzie, founder of Friend of Mine and host of the House Guest podcast, joins Jaci and Chelsey to chat about everything from her longtime hobbies like mahjong and needlepoint to her newest obsession: actual love (hi, Charlie). They get into romanticizing your routine, embracing slower hobbies, and what it means to lean into the cozy side of life, before rounding things out with a conversation on hosting — complete with practical tips for anyone trying to channel their inner Ina Garten.

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HOSTESS W/ THE MOSTEST

Would you rather tune in to this week’s episode of What We Said… or—actually, that’s your only option. Jaci and Chelsey are reading through some of the most impossible questions from the classic two-option game, and things get tricky fast. Some start easy, like flying private alone or first class with your friends (What good is first class if my sistas can't sit? - J. Cole I think), but then it escalates to dilemmas like choosing one permanent vacation spot forever or traveling the world in luxury but never returning to the same place twice. Some questions require real thought, most lead to overthinking, and every single one is likely something we’ll never have to deal with. Yay for fake scenarios!!

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CATCH UP: 0:08

WOULD YOU RATHER: 36:39

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WOULD YOU RATHER

This week’s topic is dating nightmares — and it might be the most relatable episode yet for women. You know those moments that immediately make you rethink dating entirely? Like showing your date a picture of your best friend and him casually responding with “she’s hot.” How about waiting until ~ spicy ~ time for a confession that he maybe should’ve cleaned up a little better… And of course, it wouldn’t be an episode about men being horrifying without one casually reminding you on the drive home that he could, in fact, unalive you — just a completely normal thing to say, right? If there’s one thing about boys, it’s that they truly cannot keep thoughts to themselves, and this episode is full of the kind of stories that make you question why we ever give them a chance in the first place.

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DATING NIGHTMARES: 26:13

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I BLOCKED HIM IMMEDIATELY

This week Jaci and Chelsey are joined by special guest Dr. Suzy Welch, creator of The Values Bridge, to dive into what really drives us at our core. The girls both took the assessment (you should too!) and break down their results with Suzy’s help — from the values they naturally prioritize to the ones they wish they were living out more fully. The test goes beyond surface-level personality traits, giving a deeper look at how your values show up in real life, where you might feel out of alignment, and how that impacts your decisions, relationships, and overall sense of fulfillment. It even highlights where your values work together — or clash — and why that tension can feel so confusing. Whether you’re feeling stuck, curious about your patterns, or just love a good self-discovery moment, this episode is packed with insights you can actually apply. 

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Sam Edelman: Visit us at samedelmandot.com to explore everything you need for spring and get 15% off with code WHATWESAID15.

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Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.

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WHAT DO YOU REALLY VALUE?

What could possibly be more chic than listening to the What We Said Podcast? Nothing obv, but Jaci and Chelsey are breaking down a few things that might come close. From analog baskets and paperback books to customized jewelry and… being ugly? The girls explore what “chic” actually means right now. One thing’s for sure: no one’s getting torn down for their preferences. Just because something isn’t your vibe doesn’t make it not chic. If you’re looking for your lifestyle choices to be judged, maybe go read a Substack.

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CATCH UP: 0:08

TOPIC: 38:17

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// SPONSORS //

Sam Edelman: Visit us at samedelmandot.com to explore everything you need for spring and get 15% off with code WHATWESAID15.

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See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

THINGS WE FIND CHIC

Jaci and Chelsey have returned from some very fun trips and have some insane stories to share, with some high highs and very low lows. After recapping their travels and touching on the awe inspiring Artemis II mission, they jump right into this month’s advice column, breaking down submissions from What We Said listeners. Valley Girls are struggling across the world with inconsiderate friends asking fertility questions, navigating birth trauma, admitting to lighthearted therapist lies, and more!

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CATCH UP: 0:08

ADVICE: 37:16

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Whatnot: Download the Whatnot app today and get free shipping on your first order. 

Nuuly: Nuuly is a great value at $98 a month for any 6 styles, but right now you can get $28 off your first month when you sign up with the code whatwesaid at nuuly.com. 

Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.

Produced by Dear Media.

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

I LIED TO MY THERAPIST

We’re a few months into 2026, which makes it the perfect time to check in on your health + wellness New Year’s resolutions… and whether you’ve been wasting your energy the whole time. Jaci and Chelsey are deciding which popular health trends are actually worth it — and which might be total scams. From red light therapy, beef tallow, mindfulness practice, and protein in EVERYTHING to more niche picks like vibration plates, ear seeds, and IV clinics. This episode is not medical advice, just very strong Valley girl opinions. Let us know in the comments if you agree, or if we gave one of the treatments you swear by a bad wrap!

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CATCH UP: 0:08

TOPIC: 8:18

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YOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE

// SPONSORS //

Squarespace: Go to Squarespace.com for a free trial, and when you’re ready to launch, squarespace.com/WHATWESAID to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain.

Betterhelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/WHATWESAID today to get 10% off your first month.

DripDrop: Go to dripdrop.com and use promo code WHATWESAID for 20% off your first order.

Chewy: Right now you can save $20 on your first order and get free shipping by going to chewy.com/whatwesaid.

Ross: Find your nearest Ross at RossStores.com

Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.

Produced by Dear Media.

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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