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The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts

Hosted by two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talk back, TamBam and AJ are helping women maneuver through the Sea of Men! "We Talk Back” podcast is here to guide femininity to its ultimate greatness. We Talk Back podcast is giving their listeners the raw and unfiltered comedic gift of repartee. With thought-provoking conversations about sex, relationships, and money with a dash of danger and glitter. TamBam & AJ will also help listeners seeking non-professional guidance, as these ladies deliver advice and their personal thoughts on topics.

We Talk Back

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam catch up after low-key weekends before debating rising grocery prices, the cost of eating out, a wild DoorDash accident story, and AJ’s experience volunteering through the Be My Eyes app. During “SINS,” they dive into a shocking Canadian sperm donor case involving a father and son who allegedly fathered more than 600 children, raising concerns about donor regulation, genetic risks, and people turning to informal Facebook groups to find sperm donors. They also react to the conviction of Duane “Keefe D” Davis in the murder of Tupac Shakur after years of public statements surrounding the case, before unpacking viral scam stories involving a woman accused of faking her way into Duke’s physician assistant program and a man who allegedly impersonated a San Francisco 49ers player to scam 26 women out of $1.3 million.
 
For the main conversation, “Till Debt Do Us Part,” AJ and TamBam tackle the uncomfortable realities of lending money to friends, family, and romantic partners. They debate proper repayment etiquette, whether paying someone back in installments is acceptable, how loans can complicate family relationships, and the warning signs that usually mean your money isn’t coming back. From setting financial boundaries to deciding whether some loans should simply be considered gifts, the hosts offer plenty of laughs and relatable lessons about money, relationships, and accountability—before sending one final message to everyone with an outstanding debt: if you owe somebody money, send it.
 
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Til Debt Do Us Do Us Part (Part. 1)

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam recap a chaotic weekend, from AJ balancing nonstop work, family time, and a broken-pinky scare to Tam dealing with a home-improvement nightmare after installers allegedly drilled into a sprinkler line, flooding her home and leading to firefighters cutting into the wall to stop the damage. The hosts then turn to the latest viral conversations, discussing domestic abuse allegations involving social media relationship personality Yadon Yada and Aj'a, while emphasizing the importance of financial independence and recognizing unhealthy relationship dynamics. They also react to Texas tightening penalties around certain THC products and lighten the mood with a “men only” social media thread debating women’s fashion and beauty trends, including bonnets and oversized lashes.
 
After the break, professional sports bettor Elizabeth Taylor Conley Marcel joins the show to break down sports betting for beginners, explaining everything from moneylines and point spreads to over/unders, prop bets, and understanding odds. She shares how research and strategy influence her picks, why disciplined bankroll management is essential, and how bettors can avoid making emotional decisions while remembering that sportsbooks are designed to maintain an advantage. Blending relationships, viral news, personal chaos, and practical sports betting education, this episode delivers another entertaining mix of humor, real-life conversation, and useful game. 
 
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Spread 'Em feat. Elizabeth Taelor

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam kick things off with a hilarious debate over South Carolina slang, arguing whether “bo” belongs to Charleston or Columbia before recapping their weekends and teasing the Patreon with details from AJ’s latest date. The conversation turns to Young Thug’s court-ordered school appearance, where the hosts react to reports that he told students “fame is the most important thing” and debate the potential impact of that message on young people. AJ and TamBam also unpack the complicated case of a surrogate who reportedly traveled to Texas to give birth after refusing to follow an abortion provision in her agreement when the baby was diagnosed with serious heart conditions, sparking a nuanced discussion about bodily autonomy, surrogacy contracts, parental expectations, and quality of life.
 
After the break, the hosts lighten things up with “Smash or Pass: Lifestyle Edition,” putting modern dating, relationships, money, and everyday habits under the microscope. AJ and TamBam weigh in on dating someone with children, large age gaps, living together before marriage, long-distance relationships, separate bedrooms, joint bank accounts, splitting bills, quick engagements, prenups, lending partners money, and navigating major income differences. They also debate designer spending and financing, quitting a job while in a relationship, GLP-1 medications, Botox, long voice notes, bonnets in public, and plenty more. Funny, candid, and relatable, the episode explores which lifestyle differences are worth compromising on—and which ones are an automatic pass. 
 
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Smash Or Pass

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam recap an emotional and eventful weekend, from AJ attending Dolly Bishop Litticker’s wedding to Tam celebrating her best friend Janae’s birthday with a day on the water. The hosts then dive into “Stupid Internet News,” reacting to a viral conversation about male educators navigating puberty and appropriate boundaries with young girls while emphasizing that adults are responsible for protecting children and maintaining clear boundaries. They also discuss a disturbing case involving a police officer who pleaded guilty to sexually abusing handcuffed male detainees and debunk a bizarre TikTok myth surrounding menstruation and women’s health.
 
The episode shifts into “Biohazard,” as AJ and TamBam take on modern dating, dating apps, and some of the wildest profile bios the internet has to offer. From demands involving sex, money, jealousy, control, vaccination status, and co-parenting to profiles that raise immediate safety concerns, the hosts debate the difference between refreshing honesty and undeniable red flags. Along the way, they unpack dating-app fatigue, relationship expectations, personal boundaries, and why meeting someone organically can feel more authentic than turning romance into a job interview. Funny, candid, and relatable, this episode explores the realities of dating in the digital age while reminding listeners that sometimes a bio tells you everything you need to know.
 
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BIOHazzard

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam catch up after an emotional weekend, with AJ reflecting on attending a friend's son's funeral before the conversation shifts to several of the week's biggest headlines. The hosts react to the arrest of reality TV personality Sidney Starr on multiple felony charges involving a minor, discussing the importance of protecting children while cautioning against broad assumptions about entire communities based on the alleged actions of an individual. They also weigh in on Ariana Grande stepping back from public scrutiny, conversations surrounding celebrity wellness and privacy, and broader discussions about the pressures of fame, public perception, and internet speculation.
 
The conversation then turns to culture, economics, and power, sparked by reactions to Jim Jones' comments about dating and nightlife, before diving into the public debate surrounding Jay-Z's Target partnership. AJ and TamBam explore capitalism, consumer spending, Black economic empowerment, corporate influence, and the importance of building sustainable institutions within Black communities. They also examine wealth disparities, the effectiveness of boycotts, and why financial literacy, informed decision-making, and community support remain essential to creating long-term economic opportunities. 
 
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Stop The Cap

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam kick things off with a recap of a relaxing weekend in Charlotte, including dinner at Dean's Steakhouse, before diving into several of the week's biggest headlines. The hosts react to the tragic death of TikTok creator Sarah Duffy in an alleged murder-suicide involving her estranged husband despite an active protective order, prompting AJ to share a deeply personal story connected to a former high school resource officer whose decades-old murder case recently came to a close. They also discuss a viral moment from an Usher concert after a fan appeared uncomfortable during an onstage interaction, along with social media personality ATL Tay's controversial claims from jail following a probation violation.
 
The conversation shifts into a broader discussion about hip-hop, accountability, and the responsibility of artists versus parents, sparked by the backlash surrounding Yung Miami's latest release, "Spin That." AJ and TamBam examine whether music should be blamed for influencing behavior, debate the double standards women in hip-hop often face, and unpack conversations around "frequency," messaging, and personal responsibility. Blending current events, pop culture, and thoughtful commentary, the hosts challenge listeners to think critically about the media they consume while closing with a practical reminder to protect both their peace and their pockets: "Hold your money—don't spend it." 
 
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Save Dat!

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam recap their weekends, from AJ's unforgettable time at Jeezy's Black Tie Affair in Las Vegas—where she enjoyed performances from Mary J. Blige and reflected on the influence women have in relationships—to TamBam's birthday celebration in Washington, D.C., complete with a visit to the National Museum of African American History and Culture, a full day of self-care at the spa, and brunch with her sisters. The hosts also dive into this week's biggest headlines, including a class-action lawsuit alleging Workday's AI hiring technology discriminates based on race and age, growing concerns over airport facial recognition and biometric data collection, a viral catfishing story involving stolen photos, and a widow's shocking discovery after reading her late husband's emails.
 
The conversation expands into discussions about cultural accountability, reacting to controversy surrounding an Argentina restaurant named "Big Nigga Burger" before exploring why so many people feel unfulfilled despite pursuing success. AJ and TamBam unpack the pressures of debt, subscription culture, inflation, and constant comparison in the social media era, while emphasizing the importance of gratitude, therapy, discipline, and protecting your peace. 
 
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The Happiness Gap

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam catch up on an eventful weekend, from TamBam's hot yoga session and an overpriced brunch with her mom to AJ's unforgettable trip to New York for Jay-Z's concert. AJ shares the surreal experience of watching Beyoncé open the show, seeing Blue Ivy perform, enjoying exclusive backstage lounge access, and even being chased by an unexpected animal after the concert before missing the second night's performance due to massive crowds and locked entrances. The hosts also weigh in on Dame Dash's latest comments about Jay-Z, Boosie's reported attempt to recover money paid to lobbyists after a promised presidential pardon never materialized, and headlines surrounding Tommie Lee's legal issues after allegedly entering a FIFA match without a ticket.
 
The conversation wraps with another entertaining edition of "Fashion Court," where AJ and TamBam debate style across generations, discussing confidence, body types, tailoring, trend culture, and the difference between wearing clothes versus letting clothes wear you. They also swap shopping recommendations, call out their biggest fashion pet peeves, and offer candid opinions on today's style trends.
 
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You Wearing That?

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam recap a relaxing Fourth of July weekend before diving into the latest viral headlines, internet debates, and cultural conversations shaping today's world. The hosts unpack a report claiming nearly one-third of American men are not working or actively seeking employment, sparking a broader discussion about dating, financial stability, modern hustle culture, and shifting relationship expectations. They also react to research on emotional intelligence and conflict resolution, debate Matthew Knowles' comments about his financial success before Destiny's Child, and explore everything from seasoning culture and healthy eating to the realities of America's food system.
 
The conversation expands into the influence of social media and the internet on everyday behavior, examining viral trends like the crate challenge, "soft life," trad wives, Ozempic, and the rise of performative online culture. AJ and TamBam also discuss AI's growing impact on music, fashion, and digital storytelling, while questioning how much of what people consume online is authentic. From couples sharing passwords to the consequences of filming strangers for content, this episode blends humor, cultural commentary, and thoughtful discussion about technology, relationships, and navigating an increasingly online world with intention.
 
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STHU For 72 Hrs

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam kick things off with an unfiltered conversation about the realities of women's health, venting over period struggles, the rising cost of menstrual products, and the ongoing debate over pads, cups, and other feminine hygiene options. With their signature humor, they question why essential products aren't more accessible before diving into a series of bizarre viral headlines, including an amateur sleuth who dated a convicted murderer to help solve a missing person's case, an 11-year-old who ordered an Uber to the airport with dreams of flying to Japan, and a retail theft suspect who allegedly exposed themselves through social media.
 
The conversation shifts into another installment of the fan-favorite "Dumb B*tch Files," where AJ and TamBam react to jaw-dropping listener submissions involving relationship drama, workplace scandals, and unexpected betrayals. From a therapist with questionable boundaries and a workplace affair uncovered through company phone records to a business partner caught speaking behind someone's back and a woman navigating unexpected feelings for her best friend, AJ and TamBam offer their candid advice, hilarious commentary, and hard-earned perspectives on trust, accountability, friendships, and modern relationships. 
 
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Dumbbihathon

In this episode of We Talk Back, hosts AJ Holiday and TamBam unpack the meaning of the "soft life" for Black women, exploring how it intersects with cultural narratives, gender roles, and personal well-being. They examine the origins of the trend, the weight of the “strong Black woman” archetype, and how social media has reshaped perceptions of ease, luxury, and femininity. The conversation also dives into relationship dynamics, the economics of independence, and the importance of self-care and mental health. Throughout, the hosts emphasize that softness isn’t defined by material comfort—but by a mindset rooted in peace, boundaries, and intentional living. Let’s discuss. Tap in and join the conversation.
 
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