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Hosted by two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talk back, TamBam and AJ are helping women maneuver through the Sea of Men! "We Talk Back” podcast is here to guide femininity to its ultimate greatness. We Talk Back podcast is giving their listeners the raw and unfiltered comedic gift of repartee. With thought-provoking conversations about sex, relationships, and money with a dash of danger and glitter. TamBam & AJ will also help listeners seeking non-professional guidance, as these ladies deliver advice and their personal thoughts on topics.

We Talk Back

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam ease back in after the holidays with candid conversations about rest, reflection, and resetting for the new year. They touch on evolving health and wellness trends, shifting attitudes toward alcohol consumption, and an unexpectedly generous moment that sparks a broader discussion about kindness, reciprocity, and human connection.The episode also explores personal growth, navigating romantic relationships, and the importance of self-care, boundaries, and choosing joy in everyday life. With their signature humor, AJ and Tam share lighthearted “dumb b*tch story" from a listener—rooted in past missteps that offer lessons on self-awareness, confidence, and growth. 
 
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Agape....Agave

*Originally aired October 16th, 2025
 
In this episode of We Talk Back, hosts AJ Holiday and TamBam are joined by the ladies of Good Moms, Bad Choices - Erica for a candid and entertaining conversation. They kick things off by recapping their low-key weekends and sand Milah haring hilarious stories from their time in New York and Miami. The discussion shifts to the realities of apartment hunting, highlighting the struggles of finding the perfect place to call home. The hosts then tackle trending internet news, including Cam Newton’s controversial remarks about women’s sexual histories, sparking a broader dialogue on judgment, respect, and double standards in modern dating. The episode wraps with their signature “Dumb Bitch Stories” segment, where everyone reflects on personal lessons learned from love, relationships, and self-growth—with honesty, humor, and sisterhood at the core. 
 
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Replay* | The Judgment Olympics with Good Mom Bad Choices

In this episode, AJ Holliday and Tam Bam kick things off with weekend recaps, beauty tips, and candid reflections on navigating the hustle and pressure of the holiday season. The conversation deepens as they unpack the importance of accountability, intention, and manifestation, introducing the concept of “12 Days of Miracles” as a framework for personal growth and self-reflection. Moving through zodiac energy from Aries to Pisces, the hosts explore how astrology, discipline, and alignment can influence mindset and momentum. The episode wraps with a powerful discussion on surrendering control, honoring self-worth, and maintaining integrity while trusting the universe to meet you halfway on the path to your goals. 
 
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12 Days Of Miracles

AJ and Tam Bam recap highlights from a recent cruise while opening up about the real-life conversations that followed once the vacation ended. From the emotional realities of aging parents and family health concerns to the growing responsibilities that come with adulthood, the hosts reflect on how life shifts as priorities change.
 
The discussion expands into modern relationship dynamics, with a sharp focus on financial boundaries, expectations, and independence. AJ and Tam Bam unpack topics like financial celibacy, navigating friendships with money disparities, being the so-called “broke bestie,” and how grief and healing play out publicly in the age of social media. 
 
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Broke Bestie

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam dive into a wide range of relatable topics—from weekend wins and personal milestones to cultural shifts around alcohol consumption and evolving body standards. They break down the influence of celebrity glow-ups, the rise of life coaches, and the emotional stability required to maintain healthy relationships. With humor and honesty, the hosts explore the dynamics of cuffing season, the importance of boundaries, and the role of self-awareness in dating.
 
The conversation delves deeper into relationship expectations, examining emotional availability, communication, and the effort required to sustain meaningful connections. AJ and Tam discuss how to evaluate partners, identify toxic patterns, and date intentionally to understand personal preferences. They wrap with candid advice on how to exit unhealthy relationships gracefully, emphasizing self-worth, emotional safety, and choosing partners who contribute to real growth. 
 
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Make A List, Checking It Twice

In this episode of the We Talk Back podcast, AJ Holliday and Tam Bam dive into a candid and entertaining conversation that spans personal stories, community recognition, and the realities women face around motherhood, relationships, and reproductive choices. They discuss the societal pressures surrounding abortion and motherhood, unpack the layers of friendship loyalty, and explore how celebrity relationships often mirror broader cultural issues.
 
They also examine the impact of media narratives on women’s reputations, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness when navigating toxic relationships and life transitions. The episode wraps with a hilarious and revealing “Would You Rather” segment that showcases AJ and Tam Bam’s unique perspectives on personal growth, accountability, and the choices that shape our lives.
 
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Would You Ratherthon

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holliday and Tam Bam serve up a lively and candid conversation centered around Thanksgiving gratitude, culinary responsibilities, and the pressure of holiday expectations. They explore the emotional weight of hosting, family dynamics, and the tradition-filled stress that comes with preparing the perfect holiday.
 
The discussion evolves into a deep dive into Summer Walker’s recent relationship controversy, unpacking themes of self-worth, accountability, and emotional boundaries in modern dating. The hosts examine how societal expectations, especially for successful and financially independent women, impact romantic relationships and the perception of femininity.
 
They also touch on Kandi Burruss’s rumored divorce, using it as a doorway to explore the impact of success, ego, and financial imbalance on partnerships. AJ and Tam highlight how ego—not success—destroys relationships, emphasizing the importance of emotional security, support, and mutual celebration of wins.
 
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Big Homie

AJ Holiday and TamBam explore the true characteristics of masculinity, breaking down what defines a “real man” in the context of modern relationships. They contrasts genuine confidence, emotional maturity, and self-awareness with the behavior of men who engage in negativity and performative opinions online. AJ emphasizes that while money may enhance a man’s appeal, true charisma and attraction come from inner confidence, presence, and authenticity.
 
The conversation also delves into the influence of cultural figures like Kevin Samuels on men’s dating perspectives, self-image, views on relationships and the importance of emotional intelligence, accountability, and respectful communication in building healthy connections. 
 
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You're So Good You're Bad

The Black Effect Presents... We Talk Back!
 
In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam sit down with Dr. Kelly Elmore for a candid and educational discussion about perimenopause and menopause—two stages of women’s health that are often misunderstood and overlooked. Dr. Elmore breaks down the myths surrounding menopause, highlighting the benefits and risks of hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and the crucial role of lifestyle choices in navigating this transition.
 
They explore the impact of stress, nutrition, and intentional fitness on hormonal balance, as well as the importance of community support and open dialogue among women. Dr. Elmore shares her personal journey into medicine and emphasizes the need for proactive, holistic health care as women age. Together, they stress the importance of educating future generations about women’s health, empowering listeners to embrace menopause not as an ending, but as a powerful new phase of womanhood. 
 
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We Talk Back: Peri Who? feat. Dr. Kelly Elmore

In this episode of We Talk Back AJ & TamBam discuss the urgent need for support for communities in crisis, particularly in Jamaica. Also joining the episode is Michael Johnson, CEO of the Boys and Girls Club of Dane County, who shares his inspiring journey from adversity to leadership. The conversation covers the importance of community support, financial literacy, and the mindset needed for effective leadership. Michael emphasizes the role of empathy in leadership and the significance of building connections within the community. The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to engage and support their local communities.
 
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Agape....Agave

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