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A podcast that explains how everything is psychology. Even your 20s. Hosted by Jemma Sbeg, each Tuesday and Friday we deep dive into the science and psychology behind a topic, concept or universal experience that defines our 20s - from dating, to mental health, career anxiety, friendship, finances and all the growing pains associated with this decade. Listen now. 

 

My book is out NOW: https://www.psychologyofyour20s.com/general-clean 

For business enquires please email psychologyofyour20s@gmail.com

The Psychology of your 20s

Me and my phone are in a toxic relationship, let me explain...
 
 
 
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The Psychology of your 20s is not a substitute for professional mental health help. If you are struggling, distressed or require personalised advice, please reach out to your doctor or a licensed psychologist.
 
 
 
 

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320. Should I break up with my phone?

We’ve all heard the phrase “you are what you eat,” but what if it’s more accurate to say “you feel what you eat”? Behind every meal, snack, or sugar crash is an intricate, fascinating connection between your brain and your gut - one that science is only just beginning to fully understand. In today’s episode, we explore the gut-brain axis: the real, two-way communication system that links your digestive health to your mental well-being. From serotonin production in your intestines to the surprising impact of fermented foods, we break down how what you eat influences your mood, focus, anxiety levels, and emotional regulation - and how your emotions, in turn, influence what you reach for in the fridge.
 
We explore:
• The gut-brain axis
• Why gut microbes might be responsible for your mood swings
• Foods that support mental health - and ones that can destabilize it
• Cycle syncing, cravings, and emotional shifts
• The psychology of emotional eating and comfort food
• How food morality and rigid diets can harm your mental well-being
• How to find balance in the food noise
 
Whether you’re curious about how to eat for a better mood, or want to feel more connected to your body, this episode is for you.
 
For further resources: https://butterfly.org.au/ 
 
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The Psychology of your 20s is not a substitute for professional mental health help. If you are struggling, distressed or require personalised advice, please reach out to your doctor or a licensed psychologist.

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319. How does food affect our psychology?

Uncertainty is the defining emotion of our 20s. Career paths, relationships, identity, purpose ... so much of this decade is marked by not knowing. Does that have to be as uncomfortable as we think it does? In today’s episode, we unpack the psychology of uncertainty: why our brains fear it, how it triggers anxiety and avoidance, and why trying to “figure it all out” might be doing more harm than good.
 
We explore:
 
 • The neuroscience behind our discomfort with the unknown
 • Why perfectionism is often a mask for our fear of uncertainty
 • The cultural myths that make us believe we need a step-by-step life plan
 • How to assign meaning to uncertainty and build resilience through it
 • Practical strategies to take action even when the future feels unclear
 
If you've never felt more confused than you do now, and are unsure 'what's next', this episode is for you. 
 
 
 
ORDER MY BOOK: https://www.psychologyofyour20s.com/general-clean 
 
Follow Jemma on Instagram: @jemmasbeg
 
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For business: psychologyofyour20s@gmail.com 
 
 
 
The Psychology of your 20s is not a substitute for professional mental health help. If you are struggling, distressed or require personalised advice, please reach out to your doctor or a licensed psychologist.

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318. Dealing with uncertainty in your 20s

Have you ever heard someone say they are “so OCD” for simply having a tidy house? Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder is one of the most misunderstood mental health conditions, frequently reduced to stereotypes about neatness or organisation. But for those living with OCD, the reality is far more complex - and far more invisible. In today’s episode, we go beneath the surface to explore the lived experience of OCD: the hidden compulsions, the mental spirals, and the exhausting need for certainty. We unpack the psychology behind it, challenge common misconceptions, and explore what recovery and support can actually look like.
 
We explore:
 
 • The role of the OCD cycle
 • Why intrusive thoughts can feel so threatening
 • Types of OCD beyond cleanliness and order
 • Why compulsions don’t always look like rituals
 • How OCD thrives on shame, secrecy, and doubt
 • Approaches to treatment and the path toward healing
 
Whether you live with OCD, love someone who does, or just want to understand it more deeply, this episode is for you.
 
Treat my OCD: https://www.treatmyocd.com/ 
 
Zachary: https://www.instagram.com/ocdestigmatize?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== 
 
Elizabeth Colbert was our researcher for this episode! Thank you Libby! 
 
Listen to my NEW PODCAST, Mantra: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ckds0BoJDDpODInN9cWcc?si=b6ad5d555c1940e0 
 
Follow Jemma on Instagram: @jemmasbeg
Follow the podcast on Instagram: @thatpsychologypodcast
For business: psychologyofyour20s@gmail.com 
 
The Psychology of your 20s is not a substitute for professional mental health help. If you are struggling, distressed or require personalised advice, please reach out to your doctor or a licensed psychologist.

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317. The psychology of OCD

Over the past 6 months I've been asking people: what is the biggest mistake you made in your 20s? I've heard from over 5'000 people, some of them 21, some of them 80 and I have combined all their responses to make the ultimate list of the 20 biggest mistakes people make in their 20s, for the people, by the people. 
 
From love, to career, to finances, going to college, friendship, taking risks: today we talk through the most common responses we received and what we can learn from these moments and regrets. Listen now! 
 
ORDER MY BOOK: https://www.psychologyofyour20s.com/general-clean 
 
Follow Jemma on Instagram: @jemmasbeg
 
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For business: psychologyofyour20s@gmail.com 
 
 
 
The Psychology of your 20s is not a substitute for professional mental health help. If you are struggling, distressed or require personalised advice, please reach out to your doctor or a licensed psychologist.

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316. The 20 biggest mistakes people make in their 20s

Why are we so obsessed with the tiny, adorable objects cluttering our desks, bags, and social media feeds? From plushies and vinyl figures to keychains and charms, trinket culture has exploded - but behind the cuteness lies something deeper. What do these seemingly insignificant objects reveal about us, our identities, and the times we’re living in? In today’s episode, we explore the psychology of trinket culture: why we love collecting, how these objects shape our self-expression, and what they tell us about joy, nostalgia, and even economic anxiety in our twenties and beyond.
 
We explore:
 
 • The digital rise of trinkets through TikTok, Pinterest, and aesthetic micro-trends
 • How trinkets offer identity, status, and belonging
 • The role of inner child healing and nostalgia
 • Why scarcity, blind boxes, and “drops” feel so addictive
 • Links between trinkets, impulse spending, and economic uncertainty
 • Using trinkets to spark joy
 
Whether you’re a proud Labubu owner or just curious about why these tiny objects hold such big meaning, this episode is for you.
 
Listen to my NEW PODCAST, Mantra: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ckds0BoJDDpODInN9cWcc?si=b6ad5d555c1940e0 
 
Follow Jemma on Instagram: @jemmasbeg
Follow the podcast on Instagram: @thatpsychologypodcast
For business: psychologyofyour20s@gmail.com 
 
The Psychology of your 20s is not a substitute for professional mental health help. If you are struggling, distressed or require personalised advice, please reach out to your doctor or a licensed psychologist.
 

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315. The psychology of trinket collecting

"What makes someone “the one”? There is so much pressure tied into that question. Instead, it might be better to ask: how can we focus on recognising the key pillars of long-lasting, fulfilling love? In today’s episode, we explore some fundamental characteristics so you can discern whether they are “the one” for you, while also acknowledging that our soulmates are often built, rather than found.
 
We explore:
 
 • Unpicking the “one” narrative
 • The difference between initial spark and lasting connection
 • Love as a mutual, ongoing choice
 • The fundamental pillars of long lasting relationships - shared values, emotional proximity, and reciprocal effort
 • The role of intuition vs anxiety
 • The need for authenticity and growth within a partnership
 
If you’re feeling the pressure to pick the ‘right’ person, or want to learn about the fundamentals of deep connection, this episode is for you.
 

Listen to my NEW PODCAST, Mantra: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ckds0BoJDDpODInN9cWcc?si=b6ad5d555c1940e0 
 
Follow Jemma on Instagram: @jemmasbeg
Follow the podcast on Instagram: @thatpsychologypodcast
For business: psychologyofyour20s@gmail.com 
 
The Psychology of your 20s is not a substitute for professional mental health help. If you are struggling, distressed or require personalised advice, please reach out to your doctor or a licensed psychologist. "

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314. 5 signs they're the 'one'

You know when someone seems to breeze through life, can approach any social situation and challenge with such self-assured confidence? It seems innate - something they were born with. But what if that's not true? What if, instead of a fixed personal trait, confidence is actually a set of learnable abilities, a dynamic skill that anyone can cultivate, sharpen, and ultimately master? Today, we’re challenging the notion that confidence is a trait, and instead something you build.
 
Things we discuss:
 
 • Why confidence is dynamic and adaptable
 • Self-efficacy as a driver of confidence
 • How "growth mindsets" can revolutionise your approach to challenges and setbacks
 • Understanding the locus of control to fuel or hinder your forward momentum
 • Actionable strategies to build your confidence from the ground up
 
 
 
If you’ve ever thought, “if only I was just born confident”, this episode is for you.
 
 
 
Listen to my NEW PODCAST, Mantra: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ckds0BoJDDpODInN9cWcc?si=b6ad5d555c1940e0 
 
 
 
Follow Jemma on Instagram: @jemmasbeg
 
Follow the podcast on Instagram: @thatpsychologypodcast
 
For business: psychologyofyour20s@gmail.com 
 
 
 
The Psychology of your 20s is not a substitute for professional mental health help. If you are struggling, distressed or require personalised advice, please reach out to your doctor or a licensed psychologist.
 
 

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313. Confidence is a skill, not a trait

Does chasing your "best self" ever feel like an endless race? You're constantly striving, optimizing your routines, and learning new skills, yet sometimes a quiet exhaustion creeps in, or you wonder if you're truly any happier. It's as if the very pursuit of perfection leaves you feeling perpetually inadequate. In today's episode, we're diving into the hidden costs of this modern obsession with betterment: when personal growth can go too far.
 
Things we discuss:
• The deep-seated desire to grow and reach our potential
• The impact of societal pressures and the booming self-improvement industry
• Understanding the roles of intrinsic and extrinsic motivation
• When toxic over-striving is disguised as discipline
• Self-improvement burnout
• Actionable ways to cultivate sustainable growth
 
If the non-stop quest for "more" sometimes leaves you feeling depleted, this episode is for you. 
 
Listen to my NEW PODCAST, Mantra: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ckds0BoJDDpODInN9cWcc?si=b6ad5d555c1940e0
 
ORDER MY BOOK: https://www.psychologyofyour20s.com/general-clean 
 
Follow Jemma on Instagram: @jemmasbeg
 
Follow the podcast on Instagram: @thatpsychologypodcast
 
For business: psychologyofyour20s@gmail.com 
 
The Psychology of your 20s is not a substitute for professional mental health help. If you are struggling, distressed or require personalised advice, please reach out to your doctor or a licensed psychologist.
 
 
 
 

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312. Can self improvement go too far?

Does your brain seem to hit replay on that embarrassing memory, or go over the way that situationship ended in hopes you’ll find some kind of closure? From dissecting past conversations to catastrophising about what might happen, repetitive thinking can feel like a mental trap. In today's episode, we break down the psychology of rumination: why our minds get stuck in these unhelpful thought cycles, and how we can actively disengage to find mental clarity.
 
Things we discuss:
 
 • What rumination truly is and what it isn't
 • The distinctions between everyday rumination and OCD
 • Metacognition: thinking about our thinking
 • Cognitive diffusion and detaching from thoughts
 • Using mindfulness and grounding techniques to anchor yourself in the present
 • Taking back your attention from thought spirals
 
If you’re tired of your mind rerunning your “best and worst” moments, this episode is for you.
 
Listen to my NEW PODCAST, Mantra: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ckds0BoJDDpODInN9cWcc?si=b6ad5d555c1940e0 
 
Follow Jemma on Instagram: @jemmasbeg
Follow the podcast on Instagram: @thatpsychologypodcast
For business: psychologyofyour20s@gmail.com 
 
The Psychology of your 20s is not a substitute for professional mental health help. If you are struggling, distressed or require personalised advice, please reach out to your doctor or a licensed psychologist. 

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311. How to stop ruminating

Journalling is seen as one of the holy grails when it comes to trying to improve your mental health and emotional wellbeing, but what about it is so great? The people who love it, absolutely swear by it, but where do we even begin? How can we make it less like a chore, and more joyous? In today's episode, we break down the psychology and fundamentals of journalling, including: 
 
 • The history of journalling and writing therapy
 • The physical, mental and emotional benefits
 • How to find the right journalling technique for you 
 • The benefits of 'ugly' journalling 
 • Why journalling can be so difficult to start
 • The FOUR fundamental principles for enjoying journalling 
 • My favourite journalling prompts
 • Alternatives when writing isn't your thing 
 
Listen now! 
 
Follow Jemma on Instagram: @jemmasbeg 
 
Follow the podcast on Instagram: @thatpsychologypodcast 
 
For business enquiries: psychologyofyour20s@gmail.com 
 
 

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219. The psychology of journalling

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