The Minimalists speak with Carl Lentz about the deep breach of trust that accompanies cheating in a romantic relationship. Discussed in this episode: How did Carl Lentz’s life come crashing down at the height of his fame? (2:47) How did “lifestyle clutter” contribute to Lentz’s infidelity? (4:18) What unexpected areas of Lentz’s life were affected by his extramarital affair? (7:19) What steps are required to make amends after you’ve hurt someone you love? (16:39) How do I avoid blaming others for the mistakes I’ve made? (24:47) What role did apologizing and forgiveness play in Lentz’s healing? (27:47) What self-defeating stories lead to adultery? (39:45) What are the commonalities between most cases of unfaithfulness? (42:15) What’s your definition of infidelity? (54:15) Listener tip: Just say no to free things! (1:02:23) Listen to the full Maximal episode on Patreon: patreon.com/theminimalists Detailed show notes: theminimalists.com/podcast