The Gabby Reece Show

#346: How to Validate ANYONE, The Secret to Healthy Relationships - Dr. Caroline FleckDr. Caroline Fleck shares with Gabby Reece the #1 communication skill from psychology (DBT) you need to master: VALIDATION. Learn how this essential relationship tool will transform your marriage, parenting, and friendships. The psychologist & author of Validation breaks down the exact steps to build deep connection, manage conflict, and achieve emotional regulation. In this powerful episode of The Gabby Reece Show, host Gabby Reece and Dr. Caroline Fleck, a clinical psychologist and author of the book Validation: How the skillset that revolutionized psychology will transform your relationship, increase your influence, and change your life, discuss the profound impact of true validation. Validation is more than just listening or feeling empathy; it is a communication skill that must be mastered to truly convey understanding and acceptance. Dr. Fleck reveals why this essential skill is typically only taught in advanced doctoral psychology programs (Dialectical Behavior Therapy or DBT) and how you can apply it to your everyday life to build stronger bonds and reduce conflict. Key Takeaways You'll Learn: The crucial difference between "problem-solving" and "validation" in real-life scenarios, especially with children. The six levels of validation (the "validation ladder") and how to use them to instantly improve your communication. Practical strategies for managing intense emotions and conflict using DBT's TIP skills (Temperature, Intense Exercise, Paced Breathing). The power of a genuine apology, even as a parent, to model the behavior you want your kids to learn. How to disclose your own experience to connect without overshadowing the other person's pain (the "flip it back" technique). Don't miss these evidence-based strategies for better communication and personal transformation! Subscribe to The Gabby Reece Show for more conversations on health, relationships, and human performance. Follow Caroline Fleck: On Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/carolinefleckphd Caroline’s Website - https://drcarolinefleck.com/ Order Caroline’s Book - https://www.amazon.com/Validation-Revolutionized-Psychology-Transform-Relationships/dp/0593541219 For more on Gabby Instagram @GabbyReece: https://www.instagram.com/gabbyreece/ TikTok @GabbyReeceOfficial https://www.tiktok.com/@gabbyreeceofficial The Gabby Reece Show Podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GabbyReece The Gabby Reece Show podcast is Produced by Rainbow Creative (https://www.rainbowcreative.co/) Thank you to our sponsors Fatty15 - Get an additional 15% off Fatty15’s 90-day subscription Starter Kit by going to fatty15.com/GABBY and using code GABBY at checkout. Get 35% off your entire order at Lolablankets.com by using code GABBYREECE at checkout. Wrap yourself in luxury with Lola Blankets. Laird Superfood - High-quality ingredients paired with incredible taste. Use the code GABBY20 for 20% off your purchase at lairdsuperfood.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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#344 Unlock Your Genetic Code: Kashif Khan on Personalized Health, Longevity & the #1 Nutrient You NeedIn this enlightening episode, Kashif Khan, co-founder of The DNA Company, discusses the intricate connection between genetics, health and wellness. Khan shares his personal health journey and explains how he went from battling multiple chronic diseases to becoming a pioneer in genetic research. He emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s genetic makeup to navigate health challenges more effectively, touching on topics such as the role of the nervous system, diet, environment and the impact of ancestral genetic expressions. Beyond this, he and Gabby discuss how social connections can actually impact your health. Overall, this conversation covers actionable insights on how to tailor lifestyle choices, optimize health and manage stress based on individual genetic profiles. Check out this insightful conversation that will inspire you to dig deeper, make changes and better understand your body’s individual needs. Kashif Khan’s Website: https://kashkhanofficial.com/ Follow Kashif Khan on Instagram: KashKhanOfficial Exclusive discount for Gabby's audience https://kashkhanofficial.com/gabby-reece For more on Gabby Instagram @GabbyReece TikTok @GabbyReeceOfficial The Gabby Reece Show Podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GabbyReece The Gabby Reece Show podcast is Produced by Rainbow Creative (https://www.rainbowcreative.co/) Thank You to Our Sponsors Timeline - My friends at Timeline are offering 20% off, just for my listeners. Head to timeline.com/gabby to get started. Ritual - Get 25% off your first month at ritual.com/GABBY Laird Superfood - High-quality ingredients paired with incredible taste. Use the code GABBY20 for 20% off your purchase at http://lairdsuperfood.com CHAPTERS 00:00 Understanding the Brain's Duality: Trauma vs. Gratitude 00:39 Introduction to the Guest: Kashif Khan 01:53 Kashif Khan's Personal Health Journey 02:47 The Role of Genetics in Health and Wellness 04:01 The Impact of Dopamine and Serotonin on Behavior 07:12 Genetic Traits and Their Influence on Health 12:00 The Importance of Sunlight and Circadian Biology 15:29 Cold and Heat Stress: Benefits and Adaptations 20:43 Longevity and Healthspan: The Role of Relationships 29:00 Genetic Testing and Personalized Health 34:29 Contrasting Personalities in the Workplace 35:10 Discovering Personal Traits and Leadership Styles 35:45 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Purpose 37:15 Applying Genetic Research to Real Life 38:40 The Gender Gap in Medical Research 40:26 Understanding Bioindividuality and Health 47:20 Genetic Testing and Personalized Healthcare 49:21 The Role of the Nervous System in Health 01:03:22 Epigenetics and Generational Trauma 01:06:32 Understanding Personal Identity and Survival Tools 01:07:39 Mapping the Mind and Discovering Self 01:08:59 Unlocking Superpowers and Managing Impulses 01:11:45 Invisible Factors Impacting Longevity 01:14:14 The Power of Real Food and Natural Remedies 01:17:56 Preventing Dementia and Alzheimer's 01:21:12 The Role of Genetics in Health and Performance 01:24:36 Empowerment Through Personalized Health 01:33:41 Balancing Health, Family, and Purpose Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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