The Sex Conversation Most Couples Avoid

In this live episode of Sex With Emily recorded on May 7, 2026, I talk about what’s really going on in our sex lives right now, from low libido and mismatched desire to shame, porn expectations, dating struggles, and why so many couples feel disconnected. I answer your real questions about intimacy, kink, ethical non-monogamy, and how modern life (stress, phones, and social media) is impacting our ability to connect. Most importantly, I share why communication is the missing piece in so many relationships and give practical ways to start talking about sex in a way that actually brings you closer, not further apart.

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Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

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Chapters:

0:00 Welcome to Sex With Emily

1:01 Why People Avoid Talking About Sex

8:36 Answering Sex Questions at a Dinner Party

9:46 How to Start Dating Again

13:27 The Modern “Sex Recession”

15:08 Beginner Kink & Sensory Play Ideas

16:09 Is It Normal to Admire Another Man’s Body?

19:31 Why Compliments Matter in Relationships

20:17 Low Libido & Feeling Too Tired for Sex

24:35 Why Nonsexual Intimacy Matters

26:14 Do Women Want More Sex Than Men?

28:18 How Social Media Affects Libido

30:10 Why Couples Should Discuss Sex Drive Early

31:36 Gaming, Dopamine & Modern Disconnection

32:35 “Use It or Lose It” & Sexual Energy

35:18 How Porn & Movies Shape Expectations

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