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Dr. Emily Morse

Dr. Emily Morse shares her expertise on sex, relationships and everything in between! Submit your questions to Emily at sexwithemily.com/ask-emily. For more sexy fun, visit sexwithemily.com and our online store shop.sexwithemily.com. Join SmartSX, her exclusive membership community, for expert-led workshops, intimate discussions, and everything you need to elevate your pleasure! Order her book today: SMART SEX: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure.

Sex With Emily

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In this thought-provoking episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily welcomes linguist and author Amanda Montell ("Word Sl*t: A Feminist Guide to Taking Back the English Language") explore how patriarchal language controls our sex lives. They reveal why terms like "penetration" frame intimacy from a male perspective, how medical language describes vaginas as "organs that receive the penis" while penises get weapon metaphors, and why violent bedroom slang reflects power imbalances.

The discussion covers language reclamation strategies, from using "vulva" instead of "vajay-jay" to how transgender communities create new sexual terminology. Dr. Emily addresses listener questions about safe sex conversations during hookups, overcoming conservative shame around oral pleasure, and breaking toxic relationship cycles.

This episode shows how conscious language choices can revolutionize sexual experiences, moving from patriarchal frameworks toward more equitable intimate expression.

Timestamps:

0:22 - Introduction

4:21 - Why "penetration" frames sex from a penis perspective

7:56 - Medical definitions: "the organ that receives the penis" 

11:16 - The problem with "vajay-jay"

18:02 - Mission to reclaim slurs 

28:15 - Safe sex conversations during hookups 

31:58 - Learning to enjoy giving oral pleasure 

39:24 - Breaking recurring relationship explosion patterns

The Hidden Power of Sexual Language with Amanda Montell

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In this powerful episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily tackles one of the biggest barriers to great sex: fear. From fear of rejection to body image anxieties, this episode explores how our sexual fears hold us back and provides practical strategies for overcoming them. Dr. Emily opens with the fundamental truth that fear is often "false evidence appearing real" - we create rules around what we're afraid of and then live by them, preventing ourselves from having the sex we truly want and deserve.

Throughout the episode, Dr. Emily addresses common sexual fears from farting during sex to penis size anxieties to performance worries, emphasizing that we're all perfectionists when it comes to sex despite reality being much messier and more human. The episode concludes with the empowering message that facing our fears is the path to becoming our own best sexual advocate. When we ask for what we want authentically, we either get our needs met or gain valuable information about compatibility, because we all deserve pleasure and shouldn't put ourselves last in our own sexual lives.

0:00 - Introduction

4:13 - Common Sexual Fears We All Face

6:43 - Period Sex Anxiety

17:50 - Fear of Rejection in the Bedroom

23:25 - Sexual Trauma & PTSD

32:38 - Dreams About Your Ex: What They Really Mean

44:01 - Body Image Fears & Sexual Perfectionism

47:23 - Becoming Your Best Sexual Partner

50:04 - Role Playing to Overcome Sexual Fears

54:05 - Closing the Orgasm Gap Together

How to Stop Sexual Fears from Killing Your Sex Life

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In this enlightening episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily reunites with the legendary Carol Queen, sexologist, author, and co-founder of the Center for Sex and Culture in San Francisco. Carol, who's been Good Vibrations' staff sexologist for over 30 years and has been speaking publicly about sexuality for 50 years, returns for an essential conversation about revitalizing routine sex, navigating physical challenges in intimacy, and finding your sexual community.

This episode tackles everything from making masturbation part of your self-care routine to creative solutions for mobility challenges in the bedroom. Carol breaks down how sexual discourse has evolved from underground feminist publications to mainstream media, while emphasizing that there's no "normal" sex life everyone must follow. We explore practical techniques for spicing up routine encounters and dive into the importance of finding consensual spaces for all types of sexual expression.

We take listener calls from Jess, who wants to elevate his hookup routine with temperature play and atmosphere, Tommy, who's seeking advice on approaching older women, Jake, who's looking for safe spaces to explore exhibitionist fantasies, and John, whose wife's knee problems require creative positioning solutions. Carol's decades of experience shine through as she emphasizes that variety and difference make sexuality beautiful, not something to be ashamed of or conform to arbitrary standards.

0:00 - Introduction

1:20 - Caller Question: Spicing Up Gay Male Hookups & Avoiding Boredom

7:13 - Dating Older Women: How to Start Conversations & Build Confidence

10:05 - Preventing Recurring UTIs: Practical Tips & Product Recommendations

13:45 - Interview with Sexologist Carol Queen: 50 Years of Sexual Liberation

16:15 - How Sexual Discourse Has Changed: From Underground to Mainstream

20:32 - The History of "Pegging" & Educational Porn vs Entertainment

31:14 - Sex Positions for Physical Challenges: Knee Problems & Alternatives

41:03 - Quick Fire Questions with Carol Queen

How to Explore Your Sexual Fantasies Without Shame | ft. Sexologist Carol Queen

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In this fun and informative episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily welcomes sex educator and author Elle Chase for a summer-themed exploration of mindful sexuality, body-positive positions, and creative outdoor adventures. Plus, psychological astrologer Dr. Jennifer Freed returns to help you align your sexual energy with cosmic guidance.

We dive into mindfulness techniques for sexual anxiety, including 4-count inhale, 6-count exhale breathing to calm the nervous system and 5-senses grounding exercises to stay present during intimate moments. Elle shares creative summer sex ideas from car sex nostalgia to pool noodle hacks for outdoor comfort, plus body-positive positions like "Threading the Needle" and "The OM Position" that work for all body types.

The episode features listener questions from Trevor about threesome safety, Michael seeking position alternatives for plus-size couples, and Bill concerned about his wife's upcoming hysterectomy. Dr. Emily provides medical advocacy advice about getting second opinions and exploring less invasive alternatives like uterine artery embolization before major surgery.

Dr. Freed's astro forecast highlights courage as this month's theme, with personalized guidance for each sign—from Aries learning to pause and attune to others' desires, to Capricorn embracing daily masturbation for stress release. We also explore alternative intimacy techniques like yoni/lingam massage and the importance of breaking the "penetration as goal" mindset for deeper pleasure exploration.

0:00 - Intro

8:27 - Sexual Liberation & Breaking Free from Negative Self-Talk

9:41 - Threesome Planning: Communication & Boundaries Guide

16:00 - Body-Positive Intimacy Tips

23:00 - Hysterectomy Alternatives: Getting Second Opinions

27:37 - Summer Sex Ideas

32:00 - Massage for Connection

37:22 - Female-Friendly Visual Content & Arousal Discussion

"Summer Sex Hacks You've Never Heard Of"

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In this enlightening episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily welcomes Sarah Sloane, sex and kink educator from the Hashtag Open app, for an essential conversation about consent, sexual communication, and finding partners who truly align with your desires. This episode tackles everything from making consent conversations sexy to navigating ethical porn, kink exploration, and the realities of dating after divorce.

Sarah breaks down how to make consent attractive rather than awkward, emphasizing that consent is temporary and can be withdrawn at any time. We explore the "hell yes" versus "hell no" standard for enthusiastic consent and practical ways to slow down sexual encounters for better awareness and communication. The conversation addresses how to teach consent early through body autonomy and why being honest about your boundaries actually makes you more attractive to compatible partners.

We dive into listener questions from Matt, who's navigating dating after an abusive marriage with no prior dating experience, and Christi, whose 20-year marriage is strained by concerns about her husband's porn use. Sarah offers guidance on video dating as the pandemic norm, using apps like Hashtag Open for specific interests, and the importance of yes/no/maybe lists for discovering preferences without shame.

Timestamps:
00:00 - Introduction & Sarah’s Early Life
03:41 - Discovering Kink & Initial Curiosity
07:38 - Power Exchange & Emotional Safety in BDSM
11:59 - Consent, Boundaries & Clear Communication
16:13 - Self-Worth, Validation & Identity
20:46 - Shame, Judgment & Cultural Programming
26:17 - Healing from Trauma Through Play
31:03 - BDSM & Somatics: Embodiment Work
36:42 - Rewriting Scripts Around Pleasure & Worthiness
43:20 - Advice for Beginners & Empowered Exploration

How to Make Consent Sexy (Not Awkward) l ft. Sarah Sloane

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In this empowering episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily Morse sits down with writer, producer, and self-care advocate Tara Schuster to talk about the journey from self-abandonment to self-worth. Through laughter, honesty, and raw storytelling, they explore emotional healing, sexual empowerment, and the small rituals that create lasting change.

Tara shares her background of emotional neglect and how she hit rock bottom; leading her to build a "re-parenting" plan with daily rituals like writing down wins, lighting candles, and journaling to create inner safety and structure. They discuss how unresolved emotional wounds often show up in the bedroom as self-doubt, people-pleasing, or disconnection from pleasure, and how Tara learned to stop abandoning herself in relationships by asking "Do I actually like this person?" instead of "Do they like me?"

They dive into how pleasure, including sex, isn't frivolous; it's essential to well-being, and how we must unlearn shame and guilt around joy in order to thrive.

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Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction: Setting the Stage for Healing & Self-Worth

3:08 - Tara's Rock Bottom Moment: The Call That Changed Everything (hitting rock bottom at 25 and the decision to save her own life)

7:42 - The Desert Breakdown: When Success Isn't Enough

14:02 - The Spite Method: How Reluctant Healing Actually Works

19:19 - Body Gratitude Revolution: From Shame to Self-Celebration

22:58 - Self-Worth & Sex: Why Healing Yourself Transforms Intimacy

39:15 - Trauma-Informed Solo Practice: Safe Sexual Exploration

49:23 - The Yes/No/Maybe List: Tools for Sexual Communication

How to Heal Low Self Worth to Build a Fulfilling Sex Life l ft. Tara Schuster

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In this vulnerable and honest episode, Dr. Emily Morse answers listener questions about intimacy challenges, porn use, mismatched libidos, and fears around vulnerability. Whether you're dealing with long dry spells, sexual disconnection, or the impacts of pornography, this episode offers real advice for navigating modern relationships with more compassion and clarity.

We explore the difference between healthy porn use and problematic patterns, it becomes an issue when it's used to avoid intimacy or sets unrealistic expectations. Emily encourages honest conversations and mutual understanding around porn preferences while addressing mismatched libidos and long dry spells, including one listener who hasn't had sex with his wife in four years. She suggests slow re-entry into intimacy through sensual touch, non-goal-oriented connection, and therapy if needed, emphasizing that curiosity and care open the door to reconnection.

The conversation tackles performance anxiety and shame cycles, where anxiety about sex or fear of "failing" often creates a negative loop. Emily reminds listeners that pleasure doesn't need to be performance-based. Focus on feeling, not impressing. We also address women feeling pressured to perform porn-like roles, with Emily advocating for authentic expression over performing and emphasizing mutual consent and emotional check-ins.

You're not broken. Whether you're questioning your libido, struggling with porn use, or feeling disconnected from a partner, there are tools to rebuild trust; starting with yourself. Drop the pressure, release the shame, and start with honest conversations.

Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction

1:26 - Why Online Dating When Lonely Makes Things Worse

10:00 - Dating App Photo Disasters

18:15 - Can't Orgasm with New Partner After Amazing Ex

24:20 - Military Deployment: Managing Porn Use & Intimacy

27:00 - Breaking Through Sexual Communication Barriers

31:30 - Rebuilding Trust After Cheating

How to Build Real Emotional & Sexual Connection

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In this illuminating episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily Morse sits down with Dr. Will Cole, a leader in functional medicine and author of Gut Feelings, to explore how emotional and physical health are deeply connected, and how addressing both is essential for a thriving sex life, better relationships, and holistic well-being.

Dr. Cole explains the "shameflammation connection"; how repressed emotions like shame, guilt, and stress can cause chronic inflammation, impacting libido, energy, and connection. He breaks down this mind-body cycle where emotional stress manifests as physical illness and offers somatic tools for healing, emphasizing that nervous system regulation is crucial to breaking this loop through breathwork, stillness, and rituals that bring people back into their bodies.

We dive deep into the gut-brain connection and its major role in mood, hormone balance, and sexual health. Dr. Cole reveals how processed foods, sugar, and unresolved trauma can hijack desire and performance, while discussing silent inflammation and hormone imbalances that often show up as low libido, fatigue, or anxiety. He uses advanced lab testing to find hidden causes when patients say "I don't feel like myself."

The conversation addresses shame around pleasure and sexual identity, highlighting how culture often teaches us to suppress pleasure or disconnect from desire. Both Emily and Dr. Cole agree that reclaiming sensuality starts with removing shame and practicing compassionate self-awareness.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

2:57 - What is Functional Medicine?

8:24 - The Science Behind "Gut Feelings"

13:37 - How Emotions Become Physical Symptoms

22:27 - Foods That Don't Love You Back

32:07 - Testosterone, Estrogen & Sexual Health

39:04 - Where to Find Functional Medicine Support

46:25 - The Missing Conversation

52:18 - Self-Respect Over Obsession

54:29 - Quickfire Round

How Food, Hormones & Shame Are Destroying Your Sex Life l Ft. Will Cole

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In this essential episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily dedicates an entire show to demystifying the vagina, expanding knowledge about vulvas, vaginal health, and orgasm types. This conversation is all about understanding anatomy, pleasure pathways, and destigmatizing sexual issues that too many people face in silence.

We explore the internal clitoral network and why it wasn't included in medical texts until the late 1990s, debunk myths around different types of orgasms (spoiler: they're all connected through internal clitoral structure), and address why penetration alone doesn't cause orgasms for most vulva owners. Emily answers listener questions covering everything from clitoral piercings and vaginismus to rebuilding sexual identity after cancer and chronic yeast infections.

This episode includes practical product recommendations like vibrators for sensitive bodies, CBD-infused lubes, and guidance on hormone replacement therapy for vaginal health. Whether you're dealing with pain, dryness, struggling to reach climax, or just want to understand your body better, this episode offers science-backed insights and compassionate guidance for reclaiming your pleasure and sexual confidence.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction: Understanding Your Vagina for Better Pleasure

1:44 - Caller Question: Clitoral Piercing Pain and Partner Acceptance

4:20 - Vaginismus: When Your Vagina Won't Relax for Penetration

8:44 - Endometriosis and Sexual Recovery After Cancer

16:22 - Clitoral vs G-Spot Orgasms: What's the Difference?

18:12 - Post-Menopause Orgasms and Vibrator "Addiction" Myths

23:10 - Chronic Yeast Infections: Causes and Solutions

28:21 - When Your Partner Stops Wanting Oral Sex After Baby

32:13 - Wrap-Up: Key Takeaways for Vaginal Health and Pleasure

Relearning the Vagina: The Science, the Myths and the Power

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It's not just your closet that needs a refresh, your love life might too. In this episode, Emily helps you declutter the emotional and relational baggage that's blocking deeper connection, better sex, and healthier self-worth. Think of it as a relationship reset: more intention, less chaos.

We explore the signs your love life needs a clean-out (hint: recurring patterns, mixed signals, ghosting) and how to stop confusing chaos for chemistry. Emily guides you through rewriting your dating narrative with clarity and compassion, knowing when to break up with your "type" and try something new, and how to identify emotional unavailability in yourself and others. This episode also covers letting go of "situationships" that are keeping you stuck and creating a values-based dating filter that actually works.

If you've been stuck in dating loops, confused about someone's intentions, or holding on to a relationship that's "almost" right, this episode offers the permission, and tools, you need to clear the space for real, aligned love.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

8:51 - How to Identify Toxic Relationships and Partners

19:09 - Signs It's Time to Let Go of Your Relationship

23:03 - The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse (Gottman Research)

27:17 - Trust Issues: When Relationships Can't Be Rebuilt

30:24 - When Sex Dies in Your Relationship

38:17 - Email Time: Jealous Partner Making Wild Accusations

44:40 - Sex During Separation: Good Idea or Trap?

47:02 - The Great Squirting Debate: What It Really Is

51:46 - Wrap-Up and How to Connect

Refresh Your Relationships, Sex Life & Pleasure!

On today’s show, Emily’s giving you “the clit notes” on all things vulva! So if you’ve got one of your own or are really good friends with one, you’ll want to write a few things down.
 She gives you a crash course on the clitoris – how to touch it, how to love it, and how to understand it. Plus, she gives advice on what to do when you’re trying your hardest not to catch any feels, you’re married – but you’re starting to wonder if the grass is greener on the other side, and long-distance tips to keep the fire burning miles and miles away.
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