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Dr. Emily Morse

Dr. Emily Morse shares her expertise on sex, relationships and everything in between! Submit your questions to Emily at sexwithemily.com/ask-emily. For more sexy fun, visit sexwithemily.com and our online store shop.sexwithemily.com. Join SmartSX, her exclusive membership community, for expert-led workshops, intimate discussions, and everything you need to elevate your pleasure! Order her book today: SMART SEX: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure.

Sex With Emily

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In this episode of Sex with Emily, world-renowned psychotherapist Esther Perel joins us for an intimate conversation about the complexities of modern love, desire, and relationships. From her groundbreaking work on infidelity to her insights on maintaining passion in long-term partnerships, Esther shares the wisdom that has helped millions navigate the tension between security and excitement in love.

We explore Esther's core philosophy that desire is not something you have—it's something you cultivate. She breaks down the fundamental paradox of modern relationships: love seeks closeness and security, while desire craves space, novelty, and mystery. We discuss how to integrate these opposing forces and why the question "Can you want what you already have?" is central to sustaining passion over time.

Esther reveals why eroticism is truly a state of mind, how pleasure connects directly to self-worth, and her revolutionary perspective on infidelity—that sometimes people don't go elsewhere to find another person, but to find another version of themselves. We also dive into her new card game "Where Should We Begin," designed to foster vulnerability and deep connection through storytelling.

This conversation addresses the unrealistic expectations we place on one partner to be our everything, practical tools for managing relationship anxiety, and why modern love requires us to calibrate rather than abandon our expectations. Whether you're single, coupled, or somewhere in between, Esther's insights offer a roadmap for creating more authentic, passionate connections.

Timestamps

0:00 - Introduction

2:45 - The evolution from duty to desire

8:02 - Can we experience desire and deep love simultaneously?

11:20 - "I turn myself off when..." vs "I turn myself on when..."

16:00 - Pleasure vs. performance

19:09 - The ice cream exercise

25:52 - One person can't be everything

31:14 - Understanding infidelity

35:10 - Playing the relationship game

44:00 - Dealing with anxiety in love

Why You’ve Lost Desire in Your Relationship (And How to Get It Back) l ft. Esther Perel

Emily talks with guest Dr. Ali Binazir about his book The Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman's Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible, do long-distance relationships actually work?, a little known aphrodisiac, why men love sensual women, how to have enlightened self-interest, the pros and cons of online dating, the three "C's" of dating and tips for getting the guy. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The Tao of Dating

Anal Sex Month is here and I'm celebrating with a bunch of anal sex tips. If you're new to anal pleasure, this show will help you get comfortable with the idea of having something up your bum. Don't worry, it's not that scary. It's actually quite pleasurable if done correctly. Relaxation, lubrication, and communication are the three most important elements of anal sex. Although anal sex might not be the most peaceful activity, it will go a lot smoother if you move slowly and do it with someone you trust. If you think about it, there's perhaps nothing more intimate than letting someone inside your behind. So, why are men so obsessed with anal sex? Is it because it's taboo? Because it's an act of dominance? Or is it just because it feels good and guys love butts? Speaking of butts, the male G-spot is the prostate. It's about time guys start exploring their own anal pleasure. I'll tell you how. I also answer people's emails about getting over an affair and moving on when someone just isn't interested. Then I help a woman find her G-spot so she can potentially have orgasms in more than one way. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

SWE: Anal Sex Tips

Swingers Holli and Michael from Playboy Radio’s SWING share everything about living sexy— The swingers parties, dealing with jealousy, and of course the sex. Almost everyday someone asks me, "so what's the deal with swingers?" No, they don't all have ponytails, and they aren't all "crazy." Unless your definition of crazy is having open communication with your partner, and admitting that monogamy doesn't always work for you. Swingers put everything out in the open— they share their fantasies with their partner, ask for consent before trying to have with someone, and tell their partner everything. Swingers have so much trust in their relationships because there is nothing to hide. There is no cheating and lying. Although swingers are largely perceived as "crazy," they have some of the most realistic and unrepressed relationships I've ever seen. Even if you don't want partake in the Swingers lifestyle, there are a lot things people can learn from Swingers and people in open relationships. The great part about open relationships is that you get to create your own rules. You decide on things like, are you allowed to kiss another person? If you go sleep with someone, does that mean you spend the night? Setting up rules forces the couple to communicate about what they expect from the relationship. Enough about relationships, let's get to the sex. Holli and Michael give their best sex tips. Holli, a bisexual swinger, and Michael, who has gone down on A LOT of women, give advice on giving women oral sex. Michael even shares how he gives women multiple orgasms, because why limit yourself to only one orgasm? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

SWE: Living Sexy: Swingers Holli & Michael Tell All

Alternative August continues with everything you need to know to get into anal play. There’s so much more to anal than just penetration (although that can be fun too). I talk with Dr. Charlie Glickman about how to start exploring around back in easy, clean, painless ways.
People ask me all the time about how to bring up anal with their partner. Later in the show, I talk a caller through each step of the conversation. Like I always say, communication is lubrication. Listen for my best advice on how to bring it up and talk it through. Then, I go over the dos and don’ts of anal with my friend Dr. Hernando Chaves. We go over beginner toys and bust popular myths. This episode is the ultimate beginner's guide to your backdoor. Enjoy!
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Relax, It’s Just Anal with Dr. Hernando Chaves

Have you ever tried anal play? Anal sex? Because if not, here’s my question to you…what’s holding you back?
For most folks, the answer is fear. We’re scared it will hurt, scared that we don’t know what we’re doing, scared we’ll feel ashamed if we just so happen to love it. That’s why I’ve got two of the anal pleasure experts on the show today, to help demystify and destigmatize anal play, and help you open up yet another pathway to pleasure. Dr. Evan Goldstein and Alicia Sinclair talk to me about anal orgasms (not a myth), the importance of anal training, how to prepare hygienically, and how to strengthen the mind-booty connection for a successful, erotic anal experience. 
Show Notes:

Anal Play: A Beginner's Guide OR Prostate Play 101

More Evan Goldstein: Website | Instagram | Bespoke Surgical | Future Method

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All About Anal

When you think about anal sex, what comes to mind? Does it make you feel turned on? Nervous? Like something you want to try or do more of, but you’re not sure about the best way to approach it? On today’s show, I help you get more comfortable with anal play by answering your top questions. How can you use foreplay and communication to relax into the experience? If you’ve tried anal play before but didn’t love it, what are some toys and techniques you can use to feel more pleasure? What’s the safest way to train with an anal toy, and can you hurt yourself by having too much anal? Bottoms up, because your anal education starts now.
Show Notes:

I Gave My Friend a Magic Wand Mini. Here’s Why.

Get to Know The Clitoris and How to Pleasure It

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LELO LOKI Wave

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Bottoms Up: Anal Sex For All

Let’s talk solo anal. You may be looking around right now, wondering why anal play is so trendy, and thinking to yourself: “is this actually for me?” But before you jump into the anal deep end with a partner, I’ve got a pro tip: try anal with yourself! On today’s episode, I’m talking through all the positive reasons to explore anal with yourself, no matter what genitals you’ve got. I’m also busting common anal myths and giving you step-by-step tips for exploration based on your anatomy. I’m talking all things toys and insertion for beginners to advanced anal players. Tune in for your solo anal play primer, and keep listening to hear me answer all your booty Q’s.
Show Notes:

Flow With It: How to Have Period Sex

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Butt First, Try Solo Anal

On today’s show, it’s all about finding answers to your trickiest questions and unleashing your full pleasure potential. How do you orgasm when you don’t know how? Or have sex for the first time, when you’re a virgin? How do you ease into an open relationship or threesome? How do you find balance in your masturbation routine?
Whether you’re too dry (and it’s puzzling your partner), or too wet (and it’s puzzling both of you) I help you figure out solutions to overcome your biggest sexual challenges.
In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to break through orgasm barriers with self-pleasure tips.

The essentials for navigating open relationships and threesomes.

Why embracing the messiness of sex leads to better intimacy.

Show Notes:

Try VIIA Today! Head to https://bit.ly/viiaemily and use code "EMILY"!

Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 

SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)

The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 

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Hotline Calls: Wetter is Better

Ever wonder if your penis/vulva/genitalia are normal? In this episode, I’m joined by urologist Dr. Maria Uloko who’s revolutionizing sexual healthcare. We get into why vulva-owners need testosterone, what happens when penis-owners masturbate too aggressively, how shame can interfere with getting the care you need, and how common it is to experience sexual dysfunction.
I also answer your questions including when it’s time to date again after a toxic relationship, what to do when your partner’s porn preferences look nothing like you, how to be dominant in the bedroom and toy recs to amplify oral sex on a vulva.
In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to address common causes of pain during sex

Treatments for sexual health challenges

Why there’s no “normal” when it comes to sexual health

Show Notes:

More Dr. Maria Uloko: Instagram | Twitter | MUMD Sexual Health Beverly Hills

VULVAi.co: Instagram | Website 

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Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 

SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)

The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 

Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube

Let’s text: Sign up here

Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

WTF is “Normal” Sex w/ Dr. Maria Uloko

Just because it's casual sex, doesn't mean it has to be bad sex. Emily talks about one night stands-- the excitement, build up, and anticlimactic finish. Emily shows you how to have casual sex that won't disappoint.Emily also talks about how to tell if someone is looking for a one night stand or a relationship, because sometimes it's hard to tell when the champagne is flowing.Also, how to get a power back in your relationship, little penises, and asking out a friend.If you're interested in casual sex and improving your sex life, check out my sponsors: Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Max4Men. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

SWE: One Night Stand

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