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Dr. Emily Morse

Dr. Emily Morse shares her expertise on sex, relationships and everything in between! Submit your questions to Emily at sexwithemily.com/ask-emily. For more sexy fun, visit sexwithemily.com and our online store shop.sexwithemily.com. Join SmartSX, her exclusive membership community, for expert-led workshops, intimate discussions, and everything you need to elevate your pleasure! Order her book today: SMART SEX: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure.

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In this episode of Sex with Emily, world-renowned psychotherapist Esther Perel joins us for an intimate conversation about the complexities of modern love, desire, and relationships. From her groundbreaking work on infidelity to her insights on maintaining passion in long-term partnerships, Esther shares the wisdom that has helped millions navigate the tension between security and excitement in love.

We explore Esther's core philosophy that desire is not something you have—it's something you cultivate. She breaks down the fundamental paradox of modern relationships: love seeks closeness and security, while desire craves space, novelty, and mystery. We discuss how to integrate these opposing forces and why the question "Can you want what you already have?" is central to sustaining passion over time.

Esther reveals why eroticism is truly a state of mind, how pleasure connects directly to self-worth, and her revolutionary perspective on infidelity—that sometimes people don't go elsewhere to find another person, but to find another version of themselves. We also dive into her new card game "Where Should We Begin," designed to foster vulnerability and deep connection through storytelling.

This conversation addresses the unrealistic expectations we place on one partner to be our everything, practical tools for managing relationship anxiety, and why modern love requires us to calibrate rather than abandon our expectations. Whether you're single, coupled, or somewhere in between, Esther's insights offer a roadmap for creating more authentic, passionate connections.

Timestamps

0:00 - Introduction

2:45 - The evolution from duty to desire

8:02 - Can we experience desire and deep love simultaneously?

11:20 - "I turn myself off when..." vs "I turn myself on when..."

16:00 - Pleasure vs. performance

19:09 - The ice cream exercise

25:52 - One person can't be everything

31:14 - Understanding infidelity

35:10 - Playing the relationship game

44:00 - Dealing with anxiety in love

Why You’ve Lost Desire in Your Relationship (And How to Get It Back) l ft. Esther Perel

Emily interviews Charlie Glickman from Good Vibrations who teaches listeners all about the prostate, from finding it to how to treat it. Many straight men don’t realize the untapped pleasure of the prostate, or the male G-spot.In other news, Christina Hendrick's boobs and the end of the “Great Hand Job debate” might be in sight. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

SWE: Prostate Play

On today’s show, it’s all about finding answers to your trickiest questions and unleashing your full pleasure potential. How do you orgasm when you don’t know how? Or have sex for the first time, when you’re a virgin? How do you ease into an open relationship or threesome? How do you find balance in your masturbation routine?
Whether you’re too dry (and it’s puzzling your partner), or too wet (and it’s puzzling both of you) I help you figure out solutions to overcome your biggest sexual challenges.
In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to break through orgasm barriers with self-pleasure tips.

The essentials for navigating open relationships and threesomes.

Why embracing the messiness of sex leads to better intimacy.

Show Notes:

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Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 

SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)

The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 

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Hotline Calls: Wetter is Better

Ever wonder if your penis/vulva/genitalia are normal? In this episode, I’m joined by urologist Dr. Maria Uloko who’s revolutionizing sexual healthcare. We get into why vulva-owners need testosterone, what happens when penis-owners masturbate too aggressively, how shame can interfere with getting the care you need, and how common it is to experience sexual dysfunction.
I also answer your questions including when it’s time to date again after a toxic relationship, what to do when your partner’s porn preferences look nothing like you, how to be dominant in the bedroom and toy recs to amplify oral sex on a vulva.
In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to address common causes of pain during sex

Treatments for sexual health challenges

Why there’s no “normal” when it comes to sexual health

Show Notes:

More Dr. Maria Uloko: Instagram | Twitter | MUMD Sexual Health Beverly Hills

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Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 

SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)

The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

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WTF is “Normal” Sex w/ Dr. Maria Uloko

Let’s 69! It’s one of those sex acts where you tend to be a full-on lover or hater. But no matter what camp you fall in, chances are that if you’re having sex, you’re going to come across the famous, the controversial, 69 sex position. Why not learn some pointers to make the whole thing more hot, and more comfortable? 
First, I share research with you that might motivate you to put 69 on regular rotation in your sex life. Next, I give you techniques for being an excellent oral giver, and strategies like mindful masturbation, to help you become a more relaxed and erotic receiver. Finally, I talk position tips like the Sideways 69 and the Power 69 for you to play with, and take all your pressing questions on 69ing and oral sex.
In this episode, you’ll learn:

Game-changing 69 positions to maximize pleasure.

Oral sex tips to elevate giving and receiving.

How to relax and fully enjoy receiving pleasure.

Show Notes:

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Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 

SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)

The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

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My Top Tips for 69ing & Oral Sex

Do you want a little more kink in your life, but aren’t sure how to get started? If so...you’ll definitely want to tune into my interview with professional dominatrix & kink expert, Mistress Justine Cross. We discuss the myths and basics of BDSM starting with what the hell it even means (bondage, discipline, domination, submission and masochism). We show you how to begin exploring your kinks even if you are brand new to the game and we discuss some of the most common fantasies.
We also answer your questions about: techniques for restraining your partner (fun!), the importance of communicating your fantasies, and how to explore dom/sub dynamics.
In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to explore BDSM, from restraint play to introducing kinks.

The biggest myths about BDSM and why it’s not all whips and chains.

Simple ways to master consent, boundaries, and better communication.

Show Notes:

More Justine Cross: Instagram | Twitter | Dominatrix Website | Dungeon East | OnlyFans | Youtube

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Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 

SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)

The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

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Unleash Your Kink w/ Justine Cross

In this episode I take calls from our Sex With Emily Hotline and we get into it! 
Your questions include: What to do if you masturbate but can’t orgasm during sex, the best ways to meet people and date when newly sober, and what happens when your partner’s sexual fantasy creates issues in your relationship. Plus, I review how to start having sex again after a dry spell and when it might be time to break up if you’re sexually incompatible.
In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to embrace fantasies like cuckolding while avoiding shame and regret.

What to do when your partner’s sexual style doesn’t match your needs.

Sexy hacks to keep intimacy alive—even when living with parents.

Show Notes:

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Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 

SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)

The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 

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Hotline Calls: Unlock Your Best Orgasm Yet

Confidence is everything. It affects the way we perceive ourselves, how we interact with others, and definitely shapes our sex life. On today’s show, I am joined by Serena Kerrigan, the ‘Queen of Confidence.’
Serena talks about what she has learned from going on over 50 online dates with men, how to make the “whoring twenties” fun, and her passion for masturbation. Plus, we answer your questions like how to feel confident after hooking up for the first time and how to feel sexy no matter what.
In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to build unshakable confidence through self-love, manifestation, and daily affirmations.

Why approaching dating with curiosity (and a sense of humor) can completely change your experience.

The connection between knowing your body through masturbation and feeling empowered in the bedroom.

Show Notes:

More Serena Kerrigan: Twitter | Instagram | Website

Try VIIA Today! Head to https://bit.ly/viiaemily and use code "EMILY"!

Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 

SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)

The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 

Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube

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See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

How To Be Sexually Confident w/ Serena Kerrigan

Here’s the secret formula to better sex: prioritize it! In this episode, we’re talking all about sex success stories and how taking just one step can take your sex life from static to ecstatic. From finding closure with an ex to trying out swinging and finding it works, and looking for sex after a life after not having any, each of these people have taken a big step towards changing their lives. Get inspired to create your own sex-cess story. 
I also answer questions about what to do if your boyfriend won’t communicate openly with you about your sex life, how to be more confident rocking the cowgirl position and what to do if mismatched libidos are making you feel insecure in your relationship.
In this episode, you’ll learn:

How real listener stories of self-discovery and sexual growth can inspire your own journey.

The keys to building confidence, communicating needs, and reigniting passion in your relationship.

Actionable tips for embracing pleasure, navigating mismatched desires, and taking control of your sex life.

Show Notes:

Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 

Get 10% off your first order sitewide at OSEAMalibu.com with code "SWE"

SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)

The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 

Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube

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See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

Closure w/ Your Ex & Other Success Stories

The best sex of your life doesn’t happen by chance. If it did, we’d all be having it. In this episode, I share my own sex and dating intentions for the year and help you plan your own. I guide you through our Pleasure Planner, and we explore how prioritizing your sex life will benefit your overall life. I also answer questions about confidence in the bedroom, STIs and condoms, and if it’s possible to repair a relationship after someone cheats. If you need some inspiration to create your own sex and love goals, download our free Pleasure Planner sexwithemily.com/guides. Or just click the link HERE!
In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to use the Sex With Emily Pleasure Planner

Practical ways to communicate your desires and co-create a sex life that excites you

How to set and stick to sex and pleasure goals that truly prioritize your needs

Show Notes:

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Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 

SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)

The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 

Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube

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Keeping Your Sexy Resolutions

It’s the question everyone has asked themselves at least once. Should I break up with my partner? Relationship success depends on so many factors - communication, emotional intimacy, and of course - sexual connection. Figuring out which problems are worth solving and which ones are directing you to the exit sign can be confusing, exhausting and painful.
So on today’s show, I take your questions - live - to figure out if you should make up or break up. Is bad sex worth leaving someone over? What about an age gap that puts both of you in much different life stages? Or how do you know if an affair has the potential to turn into something real? We learn so much from other people’s relationships. No matter where you are in your own, this will teach us all how to make better choices going forward.
In this episode, you’ll learn:

 How to navigate the crossroads of making up or breaking up—and what signs to look for in your relationship.

Why communication, boundaries, and therapy are game-changers when deciding whether to stay or go.

The truth about age gaps, open relationships, and the role of emotional honesty in finding real compatibility.

Show Notes:

Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

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Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 

SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)

The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 

Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube

Let’s text: Sign up here

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Hotline Calls: Should You Make Up or Break Up?

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