Hotline Calls: Can We Fix Our Chemistry?

Are you and your partner sexually compatible? That’s the theme of today’s Hotline Calls show, as my Producer and I break down these couples' sex and relationship issues. First, when your partner isn’t pleasuring you as much as you’d like, does that mean they aren’t attracted? Or just nervous? Next, do you squirt during sex? It’s a goal for many, but what if it’s happening more than you’d like? How about sex drive discrepancy? When you’ve had more chemistry with past partners – and more sex – is your current partner not a fit? Or do you need to find a middle ground? Finally, what happens when your partner’s got a kink that weirds you out? We don’t yuck anyone’s yum here, but one caller needs advice on navigating brother-sister role play.

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In today’s episode, you’ll learn:

The surprising truth about sexual compatibility—and why mismatched libidos aren’t the end of the road.

Why squirting too much can actually be a turn-off (and how to control it if it’s becoming an issue).

The best way to respond when your partner’s kink catches you off guard—without killing the mood.

Show Notes:

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