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Christopher B Miller

Formation for Christians who don't panic, rush or retreat.

PC Speaking

The other night, I sent a message to the wrong person.

Not catastrophic… but enough to remind me how quickly things can go sideways when we lose control of an outcome.

And that’s the real issue. Most of us are trying to manage outcomes, protect an image, or avoid discomfort - and it’s exhausting.

Because no matter how hard we try… we can’t control everything.

In this final message of Ordered Love, we get to the root of it:

It’s not your circumstances that need to change—

it’s what your life is built on.

We all:

• Trust something

• Give highest value to something

• Shape our lives around something

• Find our identity in something

The question is simple—but confronting:

Can it actually carry the weight of your life?

Because whatever sits at the centre of your life…

is already forming you.

 

This episode will help you:

✔ Understand why life can feel chaotic even when things look fine

✔ Identify what you’re really trusting and building your life on

✔ Recognise modern “idols” that quietly shape your direction

✔ Reorient your life toward something that won’t collapse under pressure

 

You don’t need a new system.

You don’t need better circumstances.

You need a rightly ordered love.

#557 Ordered Love - Reoriented Love

Love isn’t just something you feel — it’s something you practice. In this episode, we explore Faithful Love through the example of Jesus in John 13.

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Love when it’s hard
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Stay steady under pressure
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Move toward people instead of away
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This is love that is formed over time — and it changes everything.

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#556 Ordered Love - Loving What God Loves, The Way God Loves

You don’t just wake up wanting what you want.

This week in Ordered Loves, we explore what shapes our desires — and how God reshapes them.

If you don’t choose what forms you, something else will.

#555 Ordered Love - The Shape of Desire

Why do we overreact or feel overwhelmed when we know it's not warranted?
 

Often, it’s not just stress — we're loving good things in the wrong order. In this episode we're exploring how the order of our loves shapes our peace, clarity, and reactions.

#554 Ordered Love - When Good Things Take God's Place

In a world more connected than ever, many people still feel increasingly isolated. Podcasts, online content, and digital communities can be helpful — but they can’t replace genuine, face-to-face belonging.

So why does church still matter?

In this episode, we explore why God designed believers to live out faith in community, not isolation. Drawing from Philippians, we look at how the local church shapes identity, produces transformation, and helps us grow through the tensions we often try to avoid.

If you’ve ever wondered whether church is really necessary — or struggled with disappointment, frustration, or past hurt — this conversation offers a deeper perspective on why faith was never meant to be lived alone.

If this episode encourages you, consider sharing it with someone searching for connection and purpose.

#553 Why Church Still Matters (Even If You’ve Been Hurt or Disappointed)

Not every tension in the Christian life is meant to be solved.
Some are meant to be held. This week, we are wrestling with one of the most challenging tensions believers face: liberty and holiness.

 
What happens when sincere Christians love Jesus, honour Scripture, and still land differently? What if growth doesn’t come from choosing a side, but from learning to remain calm, loving, and faithful in the tension God allows?

 
Romans 14 reminds us that formation happens not when tension disappears, but when love governs how we live with one another.

 
If faith ever feels complicated, uncomfortable, or slow—this message is for you.

#552 Tension: Liberty - Holiness

Ever been curious about what a pastor does during the week? This week, Pastor Chris is talking candidly about it, tying it with the tension between faithfulness and harvest that all believers wrestle with.

What does success look like for a Christian? We’re often tempted to measure success by results. Scripture tells a different story.

Faithfulness is obedience - Producing a harvest is God’s work.

When we confuse the two, we drift into anxiety, manipulation, or discouragement. God forms people through unseen obedience before visible fruit.

#551 Tension: Faithfulness - Harvest

Authority isn’t domination - Servanthood isn’t weakness.
Jesus shows us a better way, strength used to serve and leadership willing to bleed.
Gentle for the sheep. Dangerous for the wolves.

#550 Tension: Authority - Servanthood

Tension isn’t something to escape. And it isn’t always something to solve.

In this episode, we begin a new series exploring the tensions God intentionally holds together—tensions people keep trying to resolve, but can’t.

We look at Tradition and Progress, and why nostalgia and novelty are both shortcuts that promise relief but quietly undermine formation. Scripture doesn’t call us backward or forward into anxiety—it calls us to remain present, faithful, and settled before God.

 

Spiritual maturity doesn’t come from eliminating tension.

It grows as we learn to stay calm, grounded, and obedient within it.

 

God is not anxious.

And neither should we be.

If you’ve ever felt pressure to choose sides, fix everything, or escape discomfort, this conversation will help you recognise the difference between a problem to solve and a tension God may be using to form you.

#549 Tension: Tradition - Progress

Two sons. Two ways of living. One feast.

In Luke 15, Jesus exposes how both conformity and rebellion can leave us standing outside the celebration. The difference isn’t behaviour. 

This week, we’re looking at why one brother joined the feast and the other wouldn't.

Learn why the Gospel isn’t just the beginning of Christian life—it’s the whole thing.

#548 Resentment - The Snare of The Older Brother

Do you ever feel overwhelmed by life’s uncertainties? You’re certainly not alone. We all face situations where we’re unsure of what’s next, and waiting can be unbearable. But in Romans 8, Paul reminds us that God is always at work, even when we can’t see it. Whether you trust easily or struggle to find peace in the unknown, there is value in what Paul writes to the Christians in Rome.

#357 "Through The Bible in a Year" Day #231 Romans 8:28

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