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The New York Times

For 20 years, the Modern Love column has given New York Times readers a glimpse into the complicated love lives of real people. Since its start, the column has evolved into a TV show, three books and a podcast.

Each week, host Anna Martin brings you stories and conversations about love in all its glorious permutations, dumb pitfalls and life-changing moments. New episodes every Wednesday. 

Unlock full access to New York Times podcasts and explore everything from politics to pop culture. Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts or on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. 

Listen to this podcast in New York Times Audio, our new iOS app for news subscribers. Download now at nytimes.com/audioapp

Modern Love

Fake profiles. Unresponsive texters. Boring conversations. An endless stream of dudes on boats holding the fish they’ve caught. Talk to single people using dating apps, and they are likely to tell you that the experience is awful, but that they have to be there. Dating apps are just how singles meet one another these days. But what if artificial intelligence could fix modern dating? The Times reporter Eli Tan explored that hypothesis.

Eli joined several new dating apps that seek to duplicate a user’s personality via chatbot and let the A.I. clone do the dating. He also received flirting advice from a squadron of A.I. dating coaches. He used that advice on real dates, actually trying to find a connection, to see how the A.I.’s guidance held up.

On this episode of Modern Love, Eli tells us what happened when he revealed his use of A.I. to his dates, and whether the technology may actually push us toward more authentic interactions on the apps.

How to submit a Modern Love Essay to The New York Times

How to submit a Tiny Love Story

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Dating Apps Suck. A.I. Clones Are Making Them Even Weirder.

It felt as if the dating world hit a breaking point this year. With news headlines like “Is Dating a Total Nightmare for You Right Now?” and “Why the Young and the Single Can’t Commit to Dating Apps” appearing frequently, it became clear that there was a lot of pent up frustration.

We gave you all the opportunity to let it out, and asked you to send in voice memos about your worst dates. We enlisted the help of the actor Joel Kim Booster, who hosts the podcast Bad Dates, to turn your worst dates into tidbits of wisdom for a brand-new year of dating in 2025.

Here’s how to submit a Modern Love Essay to The New York Times.

Here’s how to submit a Tiny Love Story.

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Your Worst Dates Ever: With Joel Kim Booster

Explore the trials and tribulations of love in these deeply personal essays. A collaboration of The New York Times and WBUR in Boston, Modern Love: The Podcast features the popular New York Times column, with readings by notable personalities and updates from the essayists themselves. Join host Meghna Chakrabarti (WBUR) and Modern Love editor Daniel Jones (NYT) -- and fall in love at first listen.

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Introducing 'Modern Love: The Podcast'

Welcome to our first episode. Lauren Molina narrates a story about a romance that begins on an unlikely website -- Craigslist.

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Missed Connection | With Lauren Molina

Jason Alexander narrates this story about a man projecting his deepest thoughts of mortality onto his pet fish.

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One Last Swirl | With Jason Alexander

Sarah Paulson narrates this week's episode -- a story about a woman's decision to put up her child for an open adoption.

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Not So Simple Math | With Sarah Paulson

Judd Apatow reads a story about a man whose perfect date ends up in the emergency room.

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'An Interlude Of Clarity' | With Judd Apatow

Dakota Fanning narrates an essay about a falling in love and falling off a cliff -- literally.

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'The Plunge' | With Dakota Fanning

An audio valentine from Modern Love listeners -- for Modern Love listeners.

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A 'Modern Love' Audio Valentine

Michael Shannon reads an essay that explores how Alzheimer's put one family back together.

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Magically Interrupted | With Michael Shannon

Tony-nominated actor Stephen Bogardus brings us a tale of two sex drives.

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Seesawing Libidos | With Stephen Bogardus

Seesawing Libidos | With Stephen Bogardus

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