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Danielle Bayard Jackson | Female Friendship Expert & Relational Health Educator

Friend Forward

You noticed she didn't share your last post. She liked her post but not yours. She hasn't watched your stories in weeks, but she's clearly online. And now you're spiraling, trying to figure out what that says about your friendship. Sound familiar?

In this episode, Danielle sits down with licensed mental health counselor JoJo Venant to unpack the very real strain social media puts on women's friendships: from birthday shout-out expectations to the "friends should support your business" discourse. Together, they explore how influencers with healthy pre-fame friendships navigate digital boundaries differently, why we've gone from reading the room to reading the feed, and what happens when we personalize every like, share, and story view. JoJo also walks through how to actually have the conversation with a friend when social media expectations don't match.

🎧 BUT WAIT… THERE'S MORE.

Members of Office Hours get supplementary material with every episode to deepen their friendships. Join anytime (and get your first two weeks free) at: https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hours.

TOPICS IN THIS EPISODE:

 • The one thing that determines whether an influencer's friendships survive her platform growth
 • What the birthday shout-out expectation is actually telling you about yourself
 • We used to read the room; now we're reading the feed, and it's breaking something
 • The word Danielle almost didn't say out loud in this conversation
 • The myth that's quietly killing more friendships than any unshared post
 • What happens when JoJo asks her clients to role-play the friend they're upset with

ABOUT JOJO VENANT

JoJo Venant is a licensed mental health counselor and the founder of The Clarity Hour, a counseling practice based in Orlando, Florida. With over a decade of experience specializing in healthy relationships, self-esteem, and life transitions, she's known for her grounded, relational approach to helping women navigate connection and conflict. She has served as an adjunct professor at Palm Beach Atlantic University and contributed as an expert voice to the Mental Health Television Network.

CONNECT WITH JOJO:

 • Website: 
https://theclarityhour.net • Instagram: 
https://www.instagram.com/theclarityhour • Links: 
https://solo.to/joannvenant

🎙️ GET FEATURED ON THE PODCAST

Have a friendship question, hot take, or personal story you want featured? Send a voice note via Instagram DMs @friendforward or email a voice note or video to hello@betterfemalefriendships.com.

WORK WITH DANIELLE BAYARD JACKSON:

 • Join Office Hours for bonus content and community → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hours • Join the Friendship Elevated Fall 2026 Waitlist → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/friendship-elevated-waitlist • Check out more connection resources → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/resources • Become a certified relational health coach → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/relational-health-institute

FOLLOW DANIELLE BAYARD JACKSON:

 • Get the book "Fighting for our Friendships" → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/book • Follow on Instagram → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/instagram • Follow on TikTok → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/tiktok • Learn more about Danielle → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/website

🗣️ BOOK DANIELLE TO SPEAK

Looking for a speaker on women's cooperation, communication, and conflict? Send your inquiry to info@tellpublicrelations.com.

Should your friends like all your posts on social media? With JoJo Venant

There's a psychological concept known as "the fresh start effect", and it can be helpful as you set your friendship goals for the summer. You've been wanting better friendships for a while now, but you're not quite sure where to start. We'll walk you through an exercise that includes more than 8 examples of connection goals you can set this season.

🎧 BUT WAIT… THERE'S MORE.

This week's Office Hours bonus content includes an EXTRA episode that focuses on what to do when you feel resentful toward a friend. It drops in Office Hours on June 16.

Members of Office Hours get supplementary material like this with every episode to deepen their friendships. Join anytime at: https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hours.

TOPICS IN THIS EPISODE:

 • What is the "fresh start" effect?
 • The 5 domains of relational health
 • How to set a goal for the domain that reflects your most pressing friendship issue/ desire

📚 EPISODE RESOURCES & REFERENCES:

 • At the beginning of the episode, Danielle mentions her girls' trip to Savannah and her stay at the 
Marriott Savannah Riverfront • .

🎙️ GET FEATURED ON THE PODCAST

Have a friendship question, hot take, or personal story you want featured? Send a voice note via Instagram DMs @friendforward or email a voice note or video to hello@betterfemalefriendships.com.

WORK WITH DANIELLE BAYARD JACKSON:

 • Join Office Hours for bonus content and community → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hours • Join the Friendship Elevated Fall 2026 Waitlist → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/friendship-elevated-waitlist • Check out more connection resources → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/resources • Become a certified relational health coach → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/relational-health-institute

FOLLOW DANIELLE BAYARD JACKSON:

 • Get the book "Fighting for our Friendships" → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/book • Follow on Instagram → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/instagram • Follow on TikTok → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/tiktok • Learn more about Danielle → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/website

🗣️ BOOK DANIELLE TO SPEAK

Looking for a speaker on women's cooperation, communication, and conflict? Send your inquiry to info@tellpublicrelations.com.

Set these friendship goals before the summer ends

As much as we'd like to think our romantic relationships exist apart from our friendships, the research says otherwise. Your friends' opinions can determine whether a couple stays together, influence the values they hold in the relationship, and even shape the kinds of arguments they have. And that influence starts long before a woman is partnered; it starts while she's still dating.

In this episode, Danielle sits down with Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick, co-hosts of the Dateable podcast and authors of How to Be Dateable, to explore how your friends can be your greatest asset on your dating journey, or your biggest unintentional roadblock. They break down five dating archetypes, what each one looks like in action, and how to give the right kind of support to the right kind of dater; because the advice that helps one friend can sabotage another.

🎧 BUT WAIT… THERE'S MORE.

This week's bonus content for Office Hours members includes an exclusive video from Danielle breaking down four surprising research-based ways your friends can impact your romantic relationships, plus a bonus segment of this interview you won't hear in the free episode.

Members of Office Hours get supplementary material like this with every episode to deepen their friendships. Join anytime (and get your first two weeks free) at: https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hours.

TOPICS IN THIS EPISODE:

 • The three ways your friends' opinions shape your romantic relationships (even before you're in one)
 • Five dating archetypes that change the kind of support your friend actually needs
 • The "supportive" response most friends default to that backfires every time
 • What friends keep asking Achievers that makes the problem worse
 • The one piece of advice that saved a Thinker's relationship… and would've ruined a Dreamer's
 • A better question to ask a dating friend than "when's the next date?"

ABOUT YUE XU & JULIE KRAFCHICK

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick are the co-hosts and creators of the Dateable podcast, one of the longest-running dating podcasts and named a top show by the New York Times, HuffPost, and Oprah Daily. They're also the co-authors of How to Be Dateable: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Person and Falling in Love and the executive producers of the dating experiment show Exit Interview. After a decade of interviewing thousands of daters and world-renowned experts, they bring a research-backed, compassionate approach to modern dating and relationships.

CONNECT WITH YUE & JULIE:

 • Book, 
How to Be Dateable • + Dating Archetypes Quiz: 
https://howtobedateable.com • Podcast, Dateable: 
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dateable-your-insiders-look-into-modern-dating-and/id1084105171 • Website: 
https://www.dateablepodcast.com • Instagram: 
https://www.instagram.com/dateablepodcast/

📚 EPISODE RESOURCES & REFERENCES:

 • Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu, 
How to Be Dateable: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Person and Falling in Love • : 
https://howtobedateable.com

🎙️ GET FEATURED ON THE PODCAST

Have a friendship question, hot take, or personal story you want featured? Send a voice note via Instagram DMs @friendforward or email a voice note or video to hello@betterfemalefriendships.com.

WORK WITH DANIELLE BAYARD JACKSON:

 • Join Office Hours for bonus content and community → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hours • Join the Friendship Elevated Fall 2026 Waitlist → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/friendship-elevated-waitlist • Check out more connection resources → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/resources • Become a certified relational health coach → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/relational-health-institute

FOLLOW DANIELLE BAYARD JACKSON:

 • Get the book "Fighting for our Friendships" → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/book • Follow on Instagram → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/instagram • Follow on TikTok → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/tiktok • Learn more about Danielle → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/website

🗣️ BOOK DANIELLE TO SPEAK

Looking for a speaker on women's cooperation, communication, and conflict? Send your inquiry to info@tellpublicrelations.com.

Why your friends' dating advice might be hurting you, with Yue Xu & Julie Krafchick

How to navigate friendship at work without losing the relationship, with Brooke Taylor

She's your lunch buddy, your Slack confidante, your person at work. But what happens when boundaries get blurry, or you start sensing competition where there used to be camaraderie? Workplace friendships between women are some of the most meaningful connections we form as adults, and some of the most complicated to maintain.

In this episode, Danielle sits down with executive career coach and former Google marketing lead Brooke Taylor to tackle three of the most common questions women ask about navigating friendship at work. They dig into why mismatched expectations between "colleagues first" and "friends first" cause so much friction, how the success wound fuels jealousy and comparison with the women closest to you, and what happens when entrepreneur friendships blur the line between support and strategy-sharing.

🎧 BUT WAIT… THERE'S MORE.

This week's bonus content for Office Hours members includes:

 • a bonus segment of the interview with Brooke sharing 3 ways to raise your self worth (if you're often competing with work friends)
 • a personal video from Danielle sharing her key takeaways from Brooke's book
 • 3 scripts to help you address sticky work friend situations

Members of Office Hours get supplementary material like this with every episode to deepen their friendships. Join anytime (and get your first two weeks free) at: https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hours.

TOPICS IN THIS EPISODE:

 • How boundary-setting can feel antithetical to the female friendship code of offering unconditional emotional support
 • How to respond to competition in the workplace (and why capitalism might be to blame)
 • Why friends who are both "entrepreneurs" might need to clarify boundaries around resource-sharing

ABOUT BROOKE TAYLOR

Brooke Taylor is an executive career coach for women, former marketing lead at Google, and the author of Healing the Success Wound. She coined the term "success wound" — the pain that comes from mistaking achievement for self-worth — and has coached over 5,000 women leaders at companies like Google, Goldman Sachs, and McKinsey.

CONNECT WITH BROOKE:

 • Book, 
Healing the Success Wound • : 
https://brooketaylorcoaching.com/successwound/ • Website: 
https://brooketaylorcoaching.com • Instagram: 
https://www.instagram.com/brookevtaylor/ • LinkedIn: 
https://www.linkedin.com/in/brooke-taylor-18751949/

📚 EPISODE RESOURCES & REFERENCES:

 • Brooke Taylor, 
Healing the Success Wound: Align Your Ambition, Find Lasting Career Fulfillment, and End the Cycle of Never Enough • : 
https://brooketaylorcoaching.com/successwound/

🎙️ GET FEATURED ON THE PODCAST

Have a friendship question, hot take, or personal story you want featured? Send a voice note via Instagram DMs @friendforward or email a voice note or video to hello@betterfemalefriendships.com.

WORK WITH DANIELLE BAYARD JACKSON:

 • Join Office Hours for bonus content and community → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hours • Join the Friendship Elevated Fall 2026 Waitlist → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/friendship-elevated-waitlist • Check out more connection resources → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/resources • Become a certified relational health coach → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/relational-health-institute

FOLLOW DANIELLE BAYARD JACKSON:

 • Get the book "Fighting for our Friendships" → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/book • Follow on Instagram → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/instagram • Follow on TikTok → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/tiktok • Learn more about Danielle → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/website

🗣️ BOOK DANIELLE TO SPEAK

Looking for a speaker on women's cooperation, communication, and conflict? Send your inquiry to info@tellpublicrelations.com.

When female friendships get complicated in the workplace (and what to do about it), with Brooke Taylor, author of "Healing the Success Wound"

You've seen the articles. You've heard the discourse. People are pulling away from the digital sphere and opting for in-person connection instead: ditching dating apps, skipping the DMs, going analog. Google searches for "matchmaker near me" and "dating coach" are higher right now than they've been in the past ten years. But here's the part that isn't getting enough attention: how people are making this shift. And the answer is far more curated than you'd expect.

In this solo episode, Danielle breaks down the rise of “connection concierges” — friendship coaches, speed friending events, and supper clubs — and what this trend reveals about what women actually need when they're trying to make friends offline. She also walks through three things to consider before you invest in a curated social experience, including how to get specific about what you're looking for so you don't leave disappointed.

🎧 BUT WAIT… THERE'S MORE.

This week's Office Hours bonus content picks up right where this episode leaves off: Danielle shares three things gatherers and unofficial social connectors can do to meet this moment. Practical shifts for anyone who hosts dinners, book clubs, or get-togethers and wants to show up better for the people looking for curated connection.

Members of Office Hours get supplementary material like this with every episode to deepen their friendships. Join anytime (and get your first 2 weeks free) at: https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hours.

TOPICS IN THIS EPISODE:

 • The real reason "going analog" isn't working for most women
 • What friendship coaches, speed friending, and supper clubs have in common
 • The Google search data that signals a bigger cultural shift than dating apps
 • Why "come one, come all" social events set you up to leave disappointed
 • Four ways to curate your search so you actually find your people
 • The question to ask yourself before choosing a coach, an event, or a club

📚 EPISODE RESOURCES & REFERENCES:

 • Become a certified relational health coach at the Women’s Relational Health Institute: 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/relational-health-institute

🎙️ GET FEATURED ON THE PODCAST

Have a friendship question, hot take, or personal story you want featured? Send a voice note via Instagram DMs @friendforward or email a voice note or video to hello@betterfemalefriendships.com.

WORK WITH DANIELLE BAYARD JACKSON:

 • Join Office Hours for bonus content and community → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hours • Join the Friendship Elevated Fall 2026 Waitlist → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/friendship-elevated-waitlist • Check out more connection resources → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/resources • Become a certified relational health coach → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/relational-health-institute

FOLLOW DANIELLE BAYARD JACKSON:

 • Get the book "Fighting for our Friendships" → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/book • Follow on Instagram → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/instagram • Follow on TikTok → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/tiktok • Learn more about Danielle → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/website

🗣️ BOOK DANIELLE TO SPEAK

Looking for a speaker on women's cooperation, communication, and conflict? Send your inquiry to info@tellpublicrelations.com.

Why “going analog” isn’t enough to make new friends: the rise of curated socializing

Everyone's talking about the male loneliness epidemic. But after six years of hosting this show and seven years of coaching women through their friendship issues, Danielle has noticed something that doesn't get nearly enough attention: men's friendship struggles don't stay contained. They spill over: into your energy, your guilt, your decisions about who you spend time with, and how much of yourself you actually have left to give your own friends.

When men are disconnected from one another, women bear the burden. In this episode, Danielle walks through three specific ways she's seen this play out, both in the research and across hundreds of coaching sessions. You'll also hear directly from 4 different listeners who submitted voice notes about what they're experiencing. She also shares clips from her conversation with researcher Sherrie Xue, whose study on men avoiding "date-like" activities with their male friends went viral for a reason.

🎧 BUT WAIT… THERE'S MORE.

This week in Office Hours, Danielle shares 2 additional observations backed by the research.

Members of Office Hours get supplementary material like this with every episode to deepen their friendships. Join anytime (and get your first two weeks free) at: https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hours.

TOPICS IN THIS EPISODE:

 • Where his emotions actually go when he can't bring them to his male friends
 • Sherrie Xue's viral study on why men won't go to a museum with their boys
 • The guilt that makes you choose friends based on whether your husband can come
 • Why some women stay in friendships that drain them… and it's not about the friendship
 • The demographic group with the largest gender friendship gap (it's not who you'd guess)
 • Voice notes from listeners living this right now

📚 EPISODE RESOURCES & REFERENCES:

 • Previous episode about men’s friendships: 
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/are-mens-friendships-in-crisis-part-1-examining-the-problem/id1500460079?i=1000617147557 • Danielle’s viral reel discussing men’s friendships: 
https://www.instagram.com/reels/DU1CXX6DhHG/ • Sherrie Y. Xue, Stephanie C. Lin, and Christilene du Plessis, "The Persistence of Homophobia in Men's Friendship Norms" (published in 
Psychological Science • , 2025): 
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/09567976251396084 • Emily C. Fox, "Are White Men Missing Out?: Differences in Friendship Closeness by Gender and Ethnoracial Identity" (published in 
Sex Roles • , 2026): 
https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s11199-025-01638-7 • "The State of American Friendship: Change, Challenges, and Loss," Survey Center on American Life (May 2021): 
https://www.americansurveycenter.org/research/the-state-of-american-friendship-change-challenges-and-loss/ • Liz Plank, 
For the Love of Men: From Toxic to a More Mindful Masculinity • : 
https://us.macmillan.com/books/9781250757203/fortheloveofmen/ • bell hooks, 
The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love • : 
https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/The-Will-to-Change/bell-hooks/9780743456081

🎙️ GET FEATURED ON THE PODCAST

Have a friendship question, hot take, or personal story you want featured? Send a voice note via Instagram DMs @friendforward or email a voice note or video to hello@betterfemalefriendships.com.

WORK WITH DANIELLE BAYARD JACKSON:

 • Join Office Hours for bonus content and community → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hours • Join the Friendship Elevated Fall 2026 Waitlist → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/friendship-elevated-waitlist • Check out more connection resources → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/resources

FOLLOW DANIELLE BAYARD JACKSON:

 • Get the book "Fighting for our Friendships" → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/book • Follow on Instagram → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/instagram • Follow on TikTok → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/tiktok • Learn more about Danielle → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/website

🗣️ BOOK DANIELLE TO SPEAK

Looking for a speaker on women's cooperation, communication, and conflict? Send your inquiry to info@tellpublicrelations.com.

When his lack of friends becomes your problem: how the male loneliness epidemic affects women’s friendships

She's the same person you've loved for years… until suddenly she isn't. Maybe it was a comment that stopped you cold, or the slow realization that the worldview you thought you shared has been cracking underneath you for a while. How do you stay connected when you can no longer relate?

Danielle sits down with therapist and author Gina Moffa to talk about what happens when a friendship splits over values– not just opinions, but matters of principles and identity. 

🎧 BUT WAIT… THERE'S MORE.

This week's bonus content for Office Hours members includes an extended version of this episode (12 additional minutes of content!), including strategies Gina provided to help you navigate a friendship that dissolved because of split values. 

You’ll also enjoy a coaching exercise Danielle personally uses with clients to help you identify the gap between your lived values and your ideal values, and position yourself to attract friendships that actually align.

Members of Office Hours get supplementary material like this with every episode to deepen their friendships. Join anytime (and get your first 2 weeks free) at: https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hours.

TOPICS IN THIS EPISODE:

 • Why perceived similarity matters more to friendship quality than actual similarity
 • Values vs. opinions: how to tell the difference and why it changes everything
 • Repetition compulsion and why we sometimes seek familiarity over safety
 • The grief of losing a friend who's still alive but no longer recognizable
 • How to decide whether to stay, speak up, or step away

ABOUT GINA MOFFA

Gina Moffa is a licensed psychotherapist, grief and trauma specialist, and author of Moving On Doesn't Mean Letting Go: A Modern Guide to Navigating Loss. Based in New York City with nearly two decades of clinical experience, she specializes in helping people navigate grief, loss, and life transitions. She is currently writing her next book on friendship breakups.

CONNECT WITH GINA:

 • Website: 
https://ginamoffa.com • Instagram: 
https://www.instagram.com/ginamoffalcsw/ • Book, 
Moving On Doesn't Mean Letting Go • : 
https://www.hachettebookgroup.com/titles/gina-moffa-lcsw/moving-on-doesnt-mean-letting-go/9781538740675/ • Grief Coaching: 
https://www.ginamoffacoaching.com

📚 EPISODE RESOURCES & REFERENCES:

 • "Similarity in Relationships as Niche Construction" — the study on 1,523 pairs of friends showing that value similarity matters most in early friendship formation: 
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26828831/ • Gina Moffa, 
Moving On Doesn't Mean Letting Go: A Modern Guide to Navigating Loss • : 
https://www.hachettebookgroup.com/titles/gina-moffa-lcsw/moving-on-doesnt-mean-letting-go/9781538740675/ • Danielle Bayard Jackson, 
Fighting for Our Friendships • : 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/book

🎙️ GET FEATURED ON THE PODCAST

Have a friendship question, hot take, or personal story you want featured? Send a voice note via Instagram DMs @friendforward or email a voice note or video to hello@betterfemalefriendships.com.

WORK WITH DANIELLE BAYARD JACKSON:

 • Join Office Hours for bonus content and community → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hours • Join the Friendship Elevated Fall 2026 Waitlist → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/friendship-elevated-waitlist • Check out more connection resources → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/resources

FOLLOW DANIELLE BAYARD JACKSON:

 • Get the book "Fighting for our Friendships" → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/book • Follow on Instagram → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/instagram • Follow on TikTok → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/tiktok • Learn more about Danielle → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/website

🗣️ BOOK DANIELLE TO SPEAK

Looking for a speaker on women's cooperation, communication, and conflict? Send your inquiry to info@tellpublicrelations.com.

The grief of outgrowing a friendship because of misaligned values, with Gina Moffa

You've probably had at least one friendship belief you were sure about… until life proved you wrong. Maybe it was the idea that your two best friends are all you need, or that men just "do friendship better," or that conflict is the beginning of the end. These beliefs feel true until they don't.

In this solo episode, Danielle gets personal about the friendship beliefs she once held that have completely shifted since doing this work. She pulls from the research, her own relationships, and nearly a decade of studying women's relational patterns to explain why some of our most popular ideas about friendship are actually keeping us stuck, and what to believe instead.

🎧 BUT WAIT… THERE'S MORE.

This week in Office Hours, Danielle shares TWO additional friendship beliefs that have evolved for her as a result of doing this work. You'll also get this month's Gathering Kit: a step-by-step activity so you can host your people in a low-cost, low-key way.

Members of Office Hours get supplementary material like this with every episode to deepen their friendships. Join anytime at: https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hours.

TOPICS IN THIS EPISODE:

 • What the research actually says about only needing "your two besties"
 • Why men's friendships seem “easier”
 • What happens to friendships on the other side of conflict
 • The case for not inviting everyone to everything

📚 EPISODE RESOURCES & REFERENCES:

 • Priya Parker, 
The Art of Gathering: How We Meet and Why It Matters • : 
https://www.amazon.com/Art-Gathering-How-Meet-Matters/dp/1594634920 • Charles Vogl, 
The Art of Community: Seven Principles for Belonging • : 
https://www.amazon.com/Art-Community-Seven-Principles-Belonging/dp/1626568413 • "Ghosting and Destiny: Implicit Theories of Relationships Predict Beliefs About Ghosting": 
https://gilifreedman.com/Ghosting.pdf

🎙️ GET FEATURED ON THE PODCAST

Have a friendship question, hot take, or personal story you want featured? Send a voice note via Instagram DMs @friendforward or email a voice note or video to hello@betterfemalefriendships.com.

WORK WITH DANIELLE BAYARD JACKSON:

 • Join Office Hours for bonus content and community → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hours • Join the Friendship Elevated Fall 2026 Waitlist → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/friendship-elevated-waitlist • Check out more connection resources → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/resources

FOLLOW DANIELLE BAYARD JACKSON:

 • Get the book "Fighting for our Friendships" → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/book • Follow on Instagram → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/instagram • Follow on TikTok → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/tiktok • Learn more about Danielle → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/website

🗣️ BOOK DANIELLE TO SPEAK

Looking for a speaker on women's cooperation, communication, and conflict? Send your inquiry to info@tellpublicrelations.com.

4 things I no longer believe about friendship (because learning THIS research changed my mind)

You finally meet someone you click with. You've got things in common, the conversation flows, and suddenly you're ready to tell her everything. But that hunger for closeness in a new friendship can actually push people away before the relationship has a chance to build.

In this episode, Danielle sits down with therapist and author Minaa B. to explore why so many women rush platonic intimacy, what happens when a new friend doesn't match your energy, and how early sibling dynamics can subtly fuel competition and scarcity in adult friendships. Minaa also shares what it actually takes to break the pattern, starting with the self-worth work most of us skip.

🎧 BUT WAIT… THERE'S MORE.

This week's bonus content for Office Hours members includes three original exercises to help you adopt a healthier pace in friendship, created by Danielle herself, plus bonus content from Minaa B. explaining how platonic intimacy can look different from friendship to friendship.

Members of Office Hours get supplementary material like this with every episode to deepen their friendships. Join anytime at: https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hours.

TOPICS IN THIS EPISODE:

 • What oversharing (unintentionally) signals to others
 • Why some women don’t “match energy” right away
 • How sibling competition and scarcity show up in adult friendships
 • Why the sitcom fairy tale of friendship and why it sets you up for disappointment
 • The secret to taking it slow moving forward

ABOUT MINAA B.

Minaa B. is a licensed social worker, therapist, and author of Owning Our Struggles: A Path to Healing and Finding Community in a Broken World. She created The Siblinghood Theory, a framework for understanding how sibling and peer relationships shape adult connection, belonging, and conflict.

CONNECT WITH MINAA B.:

 • Podcast, "This Feels Familiar:" 
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/this-feels-familiar-with-minaa-b/id1726002567 • Book, 
Owning Our Struggles • : 
https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/707127/owning-our-struggles-by-minaa-b-lmsw/ • The Siblinghood Theory: 
https://www.minaab.com/the-siblinghood-theory • Instagram: 
https://www.instagram.com/minaa_b/ • Website: 
https://www.minaab.com

📚 EPISODE RESOURCES & REFERENCES:

 • Minaa B., 
Owning Our Struggles: A Path to Healing and Finding Community in a Broken World • : 
https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/707127/owning-our-struggles-by-minaa-b-lmsw/

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Have a friendship question, hot take, or personal story you want featured? Send a voice note via Instagram DMs @friendforward or email a voice note or video to hello@betterfemalefriendships.com.

WORK WITH DANIELLE BAYARD JACKSON:

 • Join Office Hours for bonus content and community → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hours • Join the Friendship Elevated Fall 2026 Waitlist → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/friendship-elevated-waitlist • Check out more connection resources → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/resources

FOLLOW DANIELLE BAYARD JACKSON:

 • Get the book "Fighting for our Friendships" → 
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https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/tiktok • Learn more about Danielle → 
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Why some women rush platonic intimacy in new friendships, with Minaa B.

You know those women who seem to make friends everywhere they go? Have you ever wondered how they draw people to them so easily?

When Danielle asked her audience about their "social secrets" , more than 500 women responded-- and the patterns were hard to ignore.

In this solo episode, Danielle breaks down six themes that came up over and over again from women who have built large, joyful friendship networks. From the role of proactive initiation to the identity shifts that make connection feel natural, these mindset tips and habits will change your friendships.

🎧 JOIN US FOR BONUS CONTENT IN OFFICE HOURS

Want to go deeper into this work? Members of our Office Hours community get access to bonus material for this episode, including a set of reflection questions to evaluate how your ambition may be impacting your friendships, plus scripts for making new friends when you tend to lead with your accomplishments. Join anytime at: https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hours.

TOPICS IN THIS EPISODE:

 • They initiate first, and don't keep score
 • They keep expectations low, especially with new and outer-circle friends
 • They categorize their friends by context instead of lumping everyone together
 • They have relational diversity, and the research says that makes them happier
 • They show up authentically, even if it turns some people off
 • They stay deeply curious about other people
 • They own their role as the initiator or the planner: identity over willpower

📚 EPISODE RESOURCES & REFERENCES:

Magic Words • by Jonah Berger: how identity-based language (nouns vs. verbs) drives behavior: 
https://www.amazon.com/Magic-Words-Jonah-Berger/dp/0063204932

🎙️ GET FEATURED ON THE PODCAST

Have a friendship question, hot take, or personal story you want featured? Send a voice note via Instagram DMs @friendforward or email a voice note or video to hello@betterfemalefriendships.com.

WORK WITH DANIELLE:

 • Join Office Hours for bonus content and community → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/office-hours • Join the Friendship Elevated Fall 2026 Waitlist → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/friendship-elevated-waitlist • Check out more connection resources → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/resources

FOLLOW DANIELLE:

 • Get the book "Fighting for our Friendships" → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/book • Follow on Instagram → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/instagram • Follow on TikTok → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/tiktok • Learn more about Danielle → 
https://friend-forward.captivate.fm/website

🗣️ BOOK DANIELLE TO SPEAK

Looking for a speaker on women's cooperation, communication, and conflict? Send your inquiry to info@tellpublicrelations.com.

I asked women with a lot of friends to share their "social secrets". Here's what they said.

Resident friendship expert Danielle Bayard Jackson shares an unscripted, unedited, vulnerable message for "Friend Forward" listeners.
 
 
 
Follow along with her and the team at Betterfemalefriendships.comor on Instagram @friendforward.

BONUS: A vulnerable (unedited) message for listeners

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