What is Narcissistic Abuse From a Mind Map Perspective?

Narcissism is very easily thrown around as a definition of people who are grandiose and lack empathy. However, it's born out of a system gone wrong where parents lack the ability to connect with their children, their child or children, leaving them feeling disconnected and unseen and unheard. When a parent doesn't care or care enough. A child will be either trying to please the parent to get him back or will wall off their emotions and disconnect and become apathetic just like their parents in order to protect themselves from more emotional pain, in order to heal from narcissistic abuse? We have to identify the cause, dismantle the effects on the psyche and a paradigm shift into a new way of seeing and a new way of being.