198: Listen To This If You Lose Yourself In Relationships | In The Trenches

Are you so afraid of losing someone that you have already lost yourself? In this bonus episode, Sabrina answers listener questions about self-abandonment, emotionally unavailable partners, and why holding on to hope in a low-effort dynamic keeps you stuck in childhood core beliefs instead of building the healthy relationship you deserve. She breaks down dating with detachment, the difference between attention and intention, and how to stop performing for people who are not showing up for you.

Sabrina also gets real about fear of rejection, chasing validation, and the mantras that changed her entire dating life. Plus, she reviews a listener's dating profile and shares exactly what makes a profile memorable versus forgettable. Whether you are navigating the apps, stuck in a situationship going nowhere, or struggling to use your voice and set standards, this episode will help you start choosing yourself first.

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Chapters:

00:00 Stop Losing Yourself in Dating

02:47 Red Flags You Keep Excusing

04:11 Attention vs Intention in Dating

06:16 Why You Hold On to Hope

10:26 Texting Is Not a Relationship

13:39 What Healthy Relationships Take

16:46 Fear of Losing People

18:08 How to Date With Detachment

23:53 Dating Profile Review With Ryan

31:10 Using Your Voice to Set Standards

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