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Focus on the Family


Did you know the Hebrew root word for marriage is the same as mess? Okay, maybe not, but it wasn’t a stretch to believe, right? This is the podcast for Christian married couples who are in the middle of a messy moment. They need to laugh. They need clear, practical advice. And they need to hear from someone with an actual degree in this thing. Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley are those people. They have reached millions of couples through their counseling practices, books, events, and work at Focus on the Family.


Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage

Whether you're newlywed or if you've been married for years, you may have unspoken and sometimes unrealistic expectations that can lead to disappointment, conflict, and resentment. On this episode, Greg and Erin help couples develop better conflict resolution techniques such as pausing during escalated arguments, leaning in during moments of conflict, and utilizing empathy in apologies with Christian counselors Chris and Jamie Bailey. They underscore the importance of mutual support, adjustment to changing life circumstances, and maintaining fun and friendship throughout marriage. We also have a tool to help you set boundaries in your marriage, and we answer a listener question about how to encourage a husband to lead his family.
 
 
 
Newlywed Couple's Devotional
 
 
 
12 Pieces of Advice I'd Tell Newlywed Me
 
 
 
5 Traditional Marriage Vows: What They Mean & Why They're Still Important
 
 
 
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Side Stepping Newlywed Pitfalls

MERRY CHRISTMAS from everyone at Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage! This episode features a special presentation by Liz Curtis Higgs, who shares faith-filled stories of Zechariah, Elizabeth, Mary, and the miraculous births in the Bible, emphasizing that nothing is impossible for God! Greg and Erin encourage you to look for the love languages of your friends and family at Christmas, and we answer an email from a listener who wonders if she and her husband are managing conflict correctly because they DON'T fight; which leads to a conversation encouraging couples to communicate effectively and grow spiritually together.
 
 
 
The Women of Christmas
 
 
 
New Year, New Purpose In Your Marriage article
 
 
 
Mastering Your Spouse's Love Language article
 
 
 
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Christmas Miracles & God of the Impossible

We're continuing our conversation with Dr. Juli Slattery on how God designed sex and sexuality. We're going to discuss the detrimental effects of pornography on both individuals and marriages, as well as highlight the importance of addressing sexual issues through a Christ-centered identity and real, accountable recovery programs. Have you ever thought about how Christians need to differentiate discussions about sexual ethics based on people's beliefs about God and creation? If you're wanting healthier intimacy in marriage and a deeper spiritual relationship; if you're confused about your sexual identity, or know someone who is, listen to this episode and let us know your thoughts.
 
 
 
Surrendered Sexuality: How Knowing Jesus Changes Everything
 
 
 
Help For A Pornography Addiction
 
 
 
Gen Z's Marriage Misunderstanding Article
 
 
 
Biblical View on Transgender Identity: A Primer - Focus on the Family
 
 
 
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What Sex Really Means - Pt 2

How do you have sex? What does it really symbolize in your marriage? Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley delve into a deeper conversation that contrasts 'how' with 'why' with Dr. Juli Slattery. Understanding the purpose and significance of sex from a Christian perspective is crucial. We talk about the covenantal significance of sex in marriage, reflecting God's covenant with his people, and how couples can better communicate about their sexual relationship. The conversation underscores the spiritual and relational importance of sex, various forms of sexual sin, and steps towards healing and forgiveness.
 
 
 
Surrendered Sexuality: How Knowing Jesus Changes Everything
 
 
 
Sexual Trauma and Its Effect On Marriage
 
 
 
Helping Your Sexually Abused Husband
 
 
 
Learn About Hope Restored Marriage Intensives
 
 
 
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Conversation Starters
 
 
 
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What Sex Really Means - Pt 1

Dr. Greg Smalley and Erin Smalley delve into the critical issue of supporting friends in abusive or oppressive marriages with Darby Strickland, an expert counselor and author. Darby explains an insightful definition of abuse as 'oppression,' framing it as the antithesis of God's design for marriage. The discussion addresses the common mistakes helpers make, identifies the patterns of abuse, and offers practical advice for those who may be abusing subconsciously.
 
 
 
Is It Abuse?
 
 
 
Article: What You Need To Know About Domestic Violence and Abuse
 
 
 
Domestic Abuse Hotline 800-799-7233 - Text BEGIN to 88788
 
 
 
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Honestly Discussing Domestic Abuse

Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley continue with the great conversation they had with Dr. Randy Schroeder about simple habits couples can adopt to strengthen their marriage. Starting with the critical role of forgiveness in healing and sustaining relationships, with specific language that you can use. We also touch on managing conflict, expressing kindness, and the value of having specific disagreement guidelines. If your marriage needs help, pick up Dr. Shroeder's book, and call our counseling line. We'd love to help you.
 
 
 
Simple Habits for Marital Happiness
 
 
 
Take the Free Marriage Assessment
 
 
 
Take The Free Reactive Cycle Assessment
 
 
 
Conversation Starters
 
 
 
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Habits for A Happy Marriage, Pt. 2

Want some practical habits for happiness in your marriage? Enter, Dr. Randy Schroeder, a licensed marriage and family therapist with over three decades of counseling experience. Dr. Schrader's key topics include the importance of meeting each other's expectations, the power of small daily habits like meaningful hugs and eye-contact with conversations. As always, we emphasize the need for continuous learning and growth in marriage, offering concrete advice for couples feeling disconnected or considering separation. This is the perfect episode to forward to a friend who may be having marriage issues!
 
 
 
Simple Habits for Marital Happiness
 
 
 
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Conversation Starters For Couples
 
 
 
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Habits For A Happy Marriage, pt. 1

Greg and Erin Smalley discuss the importance of maintaining relational skills in marriage with Roger and Kathy Lipp, who discuss their blended family and their adventures in team-building. We delve into the importance of carving out couple time, how chronic illness can reshape a marriage, and the importance of gratitude and flexibility.
 
 
 
Happy Habits for Every Couple
 
 
 
How to Fight Busyness in Marriage
 
 
 
Sign Up For Our Weekly E-Newsletter And Be a Marriage Champion
 
 
 
20 Dates For Less Than $20
 
 
 
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What Is Best for Each Other & Best For Your Marriage

Do you think repairing your marriage is hopeless? On this episode of Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage, Greg and Erin feature a presentation by Bob and Jenni Paul, who explain that underneath all marital conflicts is a common cycle of reactive behavior triggered by deeper, often unrecognized wounds or buttons. Our goal is to bring awareness to these patterns so that couples are able to respond with understanding, and improve their relationships by addressing their core desires and fears. Sound complicated? It really isn't! You'll learn a lot from this episode. We also answer a listener Q & A about gambling.
 
 
 
9 Lies That Will Destroy Your Marriage
 
 
 
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How To Understand Your Hot Buttons

No matter how long you've been married, there's some great advice in this episode! Greg and Erin discuss the challenges and opportunities in the middle years of marriage, focusing on issues like health struggles, retirement, and caring for aging parents with Larry McCall. They emphasize the importance of preventing boredom, pursuing wonder in marriage and life, and the value of counsel. Larry shares his journey of understanding the deeper purpose of marriage, the importance of love based on God's love rather than reciprocation, and insights into being intentional in relationships.
 
 
 
A Seasoned Marriage: Living the Gospel in the Middle Years and Beyond
 
 
 
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Truth Rising
 
 
 
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Christmas Miracles & God of the Impossible

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