Have You Ever Given Your Best and Gotten the Worst in Return?. The wounds inflicted by an "unsafe" person can go deep. If you’ve ever been in a relationship where you were used, abused, or abandoned, then Safe People is for you. It will help you make wise choices in relationships from friendships to romance. You’ll discover why good people can get tangled in bad relationships. And you’ll learn how to avoid repeating you own mistakes and how to pick safe, healthy people for the friends you make and the company you keep. Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend share expert insights that will help you: Correct things within you that jeopardize your relational security. Learn the 20 traits of unsafe people. Recognize what makes people trustworthy. Avoid unhealthy relationships. Become a safe person yourself.