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Matt Abrahams

Think Fast Talk Smart

One of the most essential ingredients to success in business and life is effective communication. 
Join Matt Abrahams, best-selling author and Strategic Communication lecturer at Stanford Graduate School of Business, as he interviews experts to provide actionable insights that help you communicate with clarity, confidence, and impact. From handling impromptu questions to crafting compelling messages, Matt explores practical strategies for real-world communication challenges.

Whether you’re navigating a high-stakes presentation, perfecting your email tone, or speaking off the cuff, Think Fast, Talk Smart equips you with the tools, techniques, and best practices to express yourself effectively in any situation. Enhance your communication skills to elevate your career and build stronger professional relationships.

Tune in every Tuesday for new episodes. Subscribe now to unlock your potential as a thoughtful, impactful communicator. Learn more and sign up for our eNewsletter at fastersmarter.io.

Think Fast, Talk Smart: Communication Techniques

Master holiday conversations.

The holiday season is a time of joy, connection, and, occasionally, communication challenges and as we gather with family, friends, and colleagues, effective communication becomes crucial. To help make this time more enjoyable, this special Think Fast Talk Smart “Rethinks” episode revisits favorite “recipes” from past Stanford guests along with Matt’s advice for tackling three common holiday scenarios: contributing effectively to ongoing conversations, engaging in meaningful small talk, and managing conflict with clarity and empathy. Whether it's making small talk or resolving conflicts, these strategies aim to turn holiday communication hurdles into opportunities for connection and collaboration.

Episode Reference Links:

Ep.169 Don't Be a ZQ: Make Your Conversations Count • 

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Chapters:

(00:00) - Introduction
(01:59) - Challenge 1: Inserting Your Voice into Conversations
(03:14) - Expert Insights on Inserting Ideas
(05:00) - Challenge 2: Mastering Small Talk
(06:36) - Expert Strategies for Small Talk
(08:38) - Challenge 3: Managing Holiday Conflicts
(10:25) - Expert Tips for Conflict Resolution
(12:02) - Conclusion

173. Rethinks: Surviving the Holidays

Turn any meeting or get-together into a chance for deep connection and collaboration.

Whether you’re holding a team meeting or hosting a family get-together, the success of any gathering, says Priya Parker, isn’t about the perfect agenda or venue, but about the intentionality behind how you bring people together.

“90% of the success of any gathering happens before anyone enters the room,” says Parker. As the author of The Art of Gathering: How We Meet and Why It Matters, and a strategic advisor who has helped organizations worldwide reimagine their gatherings, Parker believes that thoughtful preparation can turn any meeting, whether professional or personal, into a meaningful and memorable experience for all involved. “Intentionality is the first step,” she says, “to pause and ask: why are we doing this? What is the purpose? What is the need in this community or in this classroom or in this team?”

In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Parker joins Matt Abrahams to explore the art of meaningful gatherings, sharing practical strategies for everything from crafting invitations that prime engagement to designing powerful closings that leave a lasting impact. By being more thoughtful in bringing people together, we can transform ordinary meetings into extraordinary opportunities for connection and collaboration.

Episode Reference Links:

Priya Parker • 
 • Priya’s Book: 
The Art of Gathering • 
Ep.124 Making Meetings Meaningful, Pt. 1: How to Structure and Organize More Effective Gatherings • 
Ep.125 Making Meetings Meaningful, Pt. 2: Key Ingredients for Effective Meetings • 

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Chapters:

 • (00:00) - Introduction 

 • (00:49) - Intentionality in Everyday Conversations 

 • (02:35) - Questioning the Purpose of Gatherings 

 • (04:43) - The Power of Great Questions 

 • (07:46) - Managing Heat in Conversations 

 • (09:55) - Encouraging Participation Beforehand 

 • (12:35) - Creating Impactful Endings 

 • (15:01) - The Final Three Questions 

 • (17:55) - Conclusion

174. Fix Meetings: Transform Gatherings Into Meaningful Moments

Crafting impactful toasts for every occasion.

"Almost reflexively, most of us focus in the moment on how others are perceiving us, yet these situations aren't about us at all." Matt Abrahams, host of Think Fast, Talk Smart, shares an excerpt from his book, Think Faster, Talk Smarter: How to Speak Successfully When You're Put on the Spot, on the art of delivering effective toasts and tributes. With a focus on public speaking in celebratory contexts, he offers a structured approach to crafting meaningful remarks.
Matt introduces the WHAT structure—a four-part formula designed to guide speakers through the process. This method helps ensure that the focus remains on the honorees, transforming speeches into gifts for the audience. He further shares tips for refining remarks, including the importance of brevity and the need to prepare for emotional moments. Matt advises, "Be brief and to the point. Long toasts, tributes, or introductions are usually bad ones." He also highlights the significance of setting others up for success, ensuring a smooth flow for subsequent speakers.
With insights from his book and practical examples, Matt equips listeners with the tools to deliver impactful toasts and tributes, making these moments memorable for all involved.

Audio excerpt courtesy of Simon & Schuster Audio from THINK FASTER, TALK SMARTER by Matt Abrahams, read by the author. Copyright 2023 by Matthew Abrahams LLC. Used with permission of Simon & Schuster, Inc.

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Think Faster, Talk Smarter: How to Speak Successfully When You're Put on the Spot

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Chapters:

 • (00:00) - Introduction 

 • (00:45) - Key Insight: Toasts, Tributes, and Introductions 

 • (02:16) - Why it Matters 

 • (03:06) - Craft Your Content 

 • (04:17) - Step One: Why Are We Here? 

 • (05:01) - Step Two: How Are You Connected? 

 • (05:52) - Step Three: Anecdotes or Learnings 

 • (07:00) - Step Four: Thank 

 • (07:42) - Refine Your Remarks 

 • (08:09) - Tip One: Be Brief and to the Point 

 • (08:59) - Tip Two: Prepare to be Emotional 

 • (10:51) - Tip Three: Shine the Spotlight Away From You 

 • (11:21) - Tip Four: Make Your Anecdotes Accessible and Appropriate 

 • (11:51) - Tip Five: Strive for Unity 

 • (13:14) - Tip Six: Set Others Up for Success 

 • (14:07) - Conclusion

175. Mastering Toasts and Tributes: Making Your Words Count

Enjoy this preview of our first Ask Matt Anything (AMA).

We are excited to introduce this special edition of Think Fast, Talk Smart, featuring a preview of our first-ever Ask Matt Anything (AMA) episode. Typically, these sessions are exclusive to our Think Fast, Talk Smart Premium members, where Matt Abrahams answers the most pressing communication questions submitted by our premium community. 
Think Fast, Talk Smart Premium was created to deepen our connection with you and support your growth as effective communicators. Premium members enjoy exclusive benefits like regular full-length AMA episodes, eQuips, or Essential Quick Insight Playlist, early access to events, and more. Beyond this, your membership helps us continue to build a global community dedicated to improving communication skills and advancing careers.
If you find this episode helpful, we invite you to join our Think Fast, Talk Smart Premium community to unlock the full library of AMAs, submit your own questions, and gain access to even more tools and resources. Thank you for being part of our journey! You can learn more at fastersmarter.io/premium.

Episode Reference Links:

Ep.133 From Good to Super: How Supercommunicators Unlock the Language of ConnectionEp.137 When Words Aren’t Enough: How to Excel at Nonverbal Communication • 

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Chapters:

(00:00) - Introduction
(00:55) - Building Trust with Senior Leadership
(03:17) - Engaging Large Virtual Audiences
(07:05) - Managing Nonverbal Communication 
(09:15) - Balancing Emotions in Conversations
(11:05) - Navigating Status Differences in Meetings 
(14:10) - Conclusion

Ask Matt Anything (AMA) 1: Trust, Paraphrasing, and Nonverbal Cues

Age diversity and cross-generational synergy can transform an organization.

Most of us know age diversity matters in the workplace. But according to UCLA’s Bob McCann, we're thinking about it all wrong: it's not just about having different generations present — it's about creating meaningful connections between them.

As director of UCLA's Leadership Communication Program and founder of the McCann Group, McCann has spent years researching intergenerational workplace dynamics. With four to six generations now working side by side, he says there’s never been a better time to create synergies between the old and the young.

"There's a tremendous opportunity for meeting and interacting with people who are different than you, for increasing a variety of potential outcomes in business in a positive way, if we can maximize our intergenerational engagement," he says. His research reveals that while many organizations focus on gender and ethnic diversity, age diversity often gets overlooked in DEI initiatives — despite its crucial role in workplace success.

In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, McCann joins Matt Abrahams to discuss how organizations can move beyond superficial age diversity to create meaningful cross-generational connections. From reverse mentoring programs to shadow boards, they explore practical ways leaders can harness the power of generational difference to drive innovation and collaboration.

Episode Reference Links:

Bob McCannEp.67 What Is Normal? How Culture Affects Communication StylesEp.21 Words Matter: How to Make Your Communication Inclusive

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Chapters:

 • (00:00) - Introduction 

 • (01:01) - Why Generational Interactions Matter 

 • (01:54) - What is a Generation? 

 • (03:03) - Combating Workplace Ageism 

 • (04:21) - Breaking Stereotypes 

 • (06:56) - Better Intergenerational Interactions 

 • (09:41) - Technology and Training Across Generations 

 • (11:26) - The Three Final Questions 

 • (17:14) - Conclusion

176. From Stereotypes to Synergy: Communicating Across Generations

Join Matt Abrahams, lecturer in strategic communication at Stanford Graduate School of Business, as he sits down with experts from across the world to discuss public speaking anxiety, speaking off the cuff, nailing a Q&A, and more.

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Introducing Think Fast, Talk Smart: The Podcast

Most professional communication is spontaneous in nature: it’s providing feedback in the moment, answering questions, introducing people. On this podcast episode, Strategic Communication lecturer Matt Abrahams speaks with Stanford lecturers Adam Tobin and Dan Klein on how to become more comfortable and confident in in-the-moment speaking situations. 

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1. Speaking Without a Net: How to Master Impromptu Communication

How others perceive us in person and via social media can impact our careers and social standing. But we can build the reputation we want through conscious communication. On this podcast episode, strategic communication lecturers Matt Abrahams and Allison Kluger share techniques on effectively improving and managing your reputation.

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2. Communicating Our Multiple Selves: How to Effectively Manage Your Reputation

As communicators, we often need to take complex information (e.g., financial, technical, or scientific) and make it more understandable for our audience – we’re experts and they likely aren’t. But having so much knowledge on the topics we discuss can often make the job more difficult: we dive in too quickly, forget about our audience's needs, or use jargon that goes over their heads. 

In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, strategic communications lecturers Matt Abrahams and Lauren Weinstein explore the “curse of knowledge” and offer specific techniques you can use to be more successful in getting your point across.

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3. When Knowing Too Much Can Hurt Your Communication: How to Make Complex Ideas Accessible

What does it mean to truly master communication? How can we speak and write for the most impact? In this podcast episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Stanford Graduate School of Business lecturers JD Schramm and Matt Abrahams discuss how to use self reflection for self improvement. They also offer methods for preparing for a high stakes situation such as a pitch meeting or an everyday interaction like an email. 

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4. The Journey to Mastery: How Self Reflection Can Improve Communication

4. The Journey to Mastery: How Self Reflection Can Improve Communication

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