A thought-provoking response to Steve Harvey’s Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man , Can We Talk?: Claiming the Happiness You Deserve reveals the many dysfunctions causing relationships to fail. When problems arise in a relationship, there are always signs and they are not always the big flashing neon types. But ignoring the signs of trouble can be detrimental to the fate of any relationship. Can We Talk? is the start of a relationship revolution. It is a candid look at the basis for the failure and dysfunction of many relationships. It is an absorbing and entertaining journey to self-discovery. For the person who needs to be drilled, over and over, in order to get “it,” Can We Talk? offers a witty and common-sense approach to shedding light on the dynamics of relationships. It is not what happens to us that determines who we become, but what we allow ourselves to become!